That feel when a girl enters your life and you fall in love

> That feel when a girl enters your life and you fall in love

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you fucking cuck. kys

I don't know that feel at all

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>Pretty girl smiles at me
>Spend 15 minutes imagining spending the rest of my life with her
>She walked off 14 minutes ago.

Wish i knew that feel

tfw spent last two years with FWB emotionless because her sexual past turned me off from anything serious. Now starting to get pangs of anxiety when i think about her leaving. Im worried desu, im usually much stronger willed than this.

And then she friendzones you

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Cut it off cold turkey. You are developing feels for a whore. Do you want the mother of your children to be a whore?

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>24
>never have fallen in love

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>swiping through tinder
>see a cute 7/10
>imagine growing old together and what our kids would look like

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no, no i do not. Cant i just keep banging her and stuff the emotions deeper than before? I work too much at the moment to not have a nut busted at least once a week

I feel ya brother, is kinda happening to me and I'm trying to keep balance between don't falling too much for it and don't caring too less so I won't sperg out and keep on with my mancave life

It's even scarier when she starts to reciprocate because then when she stops it sucks even more

Much scarier feel desu. No winning here.

Who the fuck cares nigga, how much can you bench?

>tfw you had more oats to sow still but this happened

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It only gets worse. I called my gf a whore when she brought up an ex and then she slept at her mothers house. Having your bed be empty is some cold shit. I had never been in such a jelous rage though. Just the thought that someone could tell me they fucked my girlfriend irks me to my core. Then I talked to my coworker who has a stepson about the fight and it made me feel a whole lot better about it because I am not raising nobodys kid and the chick is only 24. Imagine the strain of being in a relationship with a single mother. That's not just an ex slut gf. That's one where you have to pay for it and deal with the guy who fucking came in her negotiating to see the kid for the rest of your life. And you have to see that guys dna in your house all the time.

That's when I got scared of being 30 and single and having to be with THAT and appreciated my gf even if she fucked people before me.

don't mistake the warm feeling in your guts and your incentive to think about her as falling in love.
It's just your body telling you she would be a suitable mate, and it wants to trick you into procreating and bonding.

Not as if that was a bad thing, but you gotta be the man and don't jump to conclusions or commitments too fast. If the initial stage of attraction wears of and suddenly the two of you are a couple but it doesn't feel right, you know you dun' goof'd.

That fuzzy, butterly-in your-stomach feeling and you being nervoues does feel great (or bad depending on your relation to the girl), but it stays for 6 months max. Really being in love means you've found a woman you (think you) can trust and you actually (and not only romantically) can't imagine life without her company.

>TL; DR:
>it's not love, it's just biology
>get your shit together
>reserve love for a woman that deserves it

> That feel when a girl enters your life and you fail in love

> That feel when a girl finally leaves your life

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This is why I look straight ahead when walking. It can't happen if you don't look at her.

My pregnant fiancee has twins (boy and girl) no big deal if you're good with kids and like alot of action and things to do it's another plus in life.

Her ex husband died during a car crash and she's loaded because of the inheritance he left her. I'm pretty much a freeloading stay at home dad while finishing my masters. Shit is dope.

>girl seems kind of into me
>like her a lot
>like really love her
>too pussy to ask her out

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I don't want to ride
The milk train anymore
I'll go to bed at nine
And waken with the dawn
Have lunch at half passed noon
Dinner prompt at five
The comfort of a few old friends
Long passed their prime.

Pass the tea and sympathy
For the good ol' days long gone
Let's drink a toast to those who most
Believe in what they want
It's a long, long time 'til mornin'
Lays wasted on the dawn
I'll not write another line
For my true love is gone.

When the guest have done
I'll tidy up the room
I'll turn the covers down
And gazing at the moon
I'll pray to go quite mad
And live in long ago
Where you and I were once
So very long ago.

Pass the tea and sympathy
For the good ole'days long gone
Let's drink a toast
To those who most
Believe in what they want
It's a long, long time 'til morning
Lays wasted on the dawn
I'll not write another line
For my true love is gone.

When I have no dreams
To give you anymore
I'll lite a blazing fire
And wait within the door
And throw my life away
"I wonder why?", they all will say
Now I lay me down to sleep
Forever and a day.

Pass the tea and sympathy
For the good ol' days are dead
Let's drink a toast to those who best
Surrvived the life they've led
It's a long, long time 'til mornin'
So build your fires high
Now I lay me down to sleep
Forever by your side.

How old are you and what's your proffesion? It can't be that rare to meet cute girls.

Wow a Jow Forumsizen with a healthy outlook on romantic relationships and self-awareness..
How do I give Jow Forums gold?

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This is a great feel user.
So much potential and possibility

>but then...

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He's literally dead, how is that comparable? My buddy's wife's son's dad just got out of prison and wants a relationship with the kid. It's easy to not be triggered by someone who is literally dead.

So your proposed solution is to murder all of your chicks exes. Honestly, that would absolutely make me feel better. If the guy who bothered me died I would be very satisfied about it.

fuck biology and all that shit, i have had a gf for a really long time and i love her to death. i started hanging out with a chick from a group of friends and we're so much alike and she's fucking beautiful and i fell in love with her in like 2 weeks but i already have a ball-n-chain so what good does that do me.
love or retarded gut feeling or whatever it sucks anons

Read Man and His Symbols. You don't know her. You don't love her. You love the idea of her which is a projection of your ideal feminine figure you have created.

Yeah, fuck punctuation too. It's stupid and makes written communication more effective. Fuck effective and concise communication. I like shit to be ambiguous and allow for interpretation. That way people who read what I say aren't even sure if what they think I meant is correct or not. Then they will just go with whatever interpretation is best or worst depending on their mood.

Shit man I just woke up gimme a break

>tfw you haven't felt love since highschool
>tfw you have almost no way of meeting girls in your daily life
>tfw becoming attractive and getting mires everywhere only emphasized how crushingly lonely you are

>tfw she's getting too attached to you
>tfw once you nut you don't care for her
>tfw her past sexual life disgust you
what do bros ?

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dump her man

>tfw your gf asks why you are even with her because she feels ashamed of her past and that you are too attractive and good for her

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That was one of my interpretations.

This, based user, love is choice not a feeling.

right in the feels

>fuk

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>tfw her past does bother you and you have to hide this from her because that doesn't help anything

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Fuck off Jow Forums

>actually get several gfs
>never really fall in love with them anyway
I'm about to give up chasing soon. Lets the come or fuck em.

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>when your gf is stupid but she has a good heart so you love her anyway

I think she would score in the 90s. But chicks are pretty solidly around 100 statistically. They don't vary as much as we do. And smart chicks are fucking psychos anyway.

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>me on my days off

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>Been dating new girl for a couple months
>like her a lot, sweet and a total qt3.14
>part of my brain wants to fall hard for her
>the other part wants me to stay emotionally uninvested as possible so if it ends damage is minimized
why life gotta be like this

fear is a hell of a drug

you been burned in the past too?

Not what I consider sad/feelsy but this is something that happened to me
>was fat lard and gave up on girls
>decided to give up on masterbating because, hey I wasn’t gonna get any anyway
>grow older get Jow Forums as a hobby
>meet some cool bros
>tfw eveytime we go out i have to act like im trying to bring girls home
I literally couldn’t care less if i have sex at this point and im not even out of my mid twenties.

Always fell too hard and fast for girls and ended up turning them off. I pretty much have all the coping mechanisms ready to go at a moment's notice if this current relationship ends

Help
> recently single after 11 yrs together
> 29 fa and almost fit
> hoes I'm not interested in throwing themselves at me
> can't bring myself to fuck them because I can see the cycle coming of finding them gross and fighting feels

Wtf do i do ? I'd happy waiting on sex until I find a chick I want to love. Wtf do I do ?

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Saw my ex gf after a year today at the station with her new one. Walked past both of them while grinning but all the pain from her betraying my love and trust came back up.

I am scared to fall in love again just to go through the pain of losing it again.
How do you cope?

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Not the either of these posters but I can relate. Previous relationships I've had every time I am reluctant about wanting to get attached and being not invested the girl's are typically thirsty for me super hard. When I get invested is when things go south. Now relationships don't interest me too much. Mainly with women I just want sex but long term commitment isn't appealing anymore. I am a bit jaded.

I had hardcore walls up when it came to girls. The only thing that broke me was mine's vulnerability. I wasn't ready for it. I treated every prospective relationship like I didn't need it and that the girl was expendable. It fucked up a couple relationships. The chicks never thought I was into them because I refused to show any sign of it. I text second, not first. I didn't expect to have to contend with such vulnerability. It disarms you because you're used to playing defense, not hurting people.

Lmao this reminds me of some dumb college class I took years ago. It was this Career Exploration course and near the end of the quarter the instructor had us do some personality experiment. She would give 2 choices and the class would physically separate on either side of the room depending on their preference.
One of the choices were -
>In relationships - I value attractiveness or intelligence
I moved over to the attractiveness side of the room and I swear every other dummy moved to intelligence. There was one other honest dude on the attractiveness side of the room. The rest of those dummies were lying. Of course attractiveness trumps all. I don't give a fuck how smart someone is. Lot's of hot Stacy's over on the intelligence side. However, if some neckbeard smart dude were to approach them I know they wouldn't give them the time of day.

Happy Führer's Geburtstag to you too.

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The question isn't clear enough to call other idiots.
What if it actually meant that you had to choose between someone you find attractive that is very smart or someone that you find even more attractive but that is really dumb.
I get that someone has to be physically attractive to you to even consider dating them, but that might not have been the question.

Geschenk heißt das du hurensohn

> been rejected 4 times so far this year
> I had fun but we aren't a match

I just want to be loved : (

Fich dich. Du ist eine blöt Affe.

>Jow Forums
>in love with a girl
Pick one

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Fuck I'm in the same situation
At first she pretended not to care but now she keeps saying she regrets it but everytime I think of it of her past sex life it drives me crazy and
>tfw her past does bother you and you have to hide this from her because that doesn't help anything
are you me ?

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>Haven't had a girlfriend since 2012 during my senior year
>It ended in a month anyway
>Haven't had a crush since 2014
>Girl broke my heart badly
>Genuinely have 0 interest in dating or pursuing girls
>No hate, I just don't care anymore
>Still feel lonely
>Know that if I was dating, I'd have even less time to live how I want

fuck man, these Jow Forums threads always show how everybody here goes through the same fucking things and comes here for support

I love you all brehs

Jow Forums is un-ironically a very positive place for my mental state.

It never fails to suprise me how Jow Forumsizens think like women. Guys your SMV literally goes up as you age because you earn money and status, that is what women want. Right now when most of you are probably 18-25 year old your SMV is at its lowest its ever gonna be because you lack money and status. While female SMV peaks at 18-25 because looks and fertility which is what men want in women, why would they go for young guys with nothing if they can attract that 30-38 y/o rich guy?

But you want the woman that was there for the futon. The gold digging whores who wait at the finishing line are to be avoided.

and this is coming from 22 year old guy.

I'm not saying you should wait or that its impossible to attract women before you are rich but don't get depressed if you can't attract women your own age. It's simply because your SMV is lower than theirs. I remember how much easier it was to attract girls when i was 15-17 because they were still underage so they couldn't date older men back then. Women are attracted to different things what you are taught and what they say

>that feel when you start a long distance affair with a married woman and you feel yourself falling for her. now you're meeting for the first time tomorrow, but she says she feels nervous and is having second thoughts.

>TFW you end it with a cheating whore of 4 years only to get anxiety attacks for a month like some sort of faggot until your creatine finally gives you some nice gains so girls start mirin and you slowly forget about how she sucked someone else's cock and you finally decide you won't send her sex tape to get family and friends and you won't send the guy to the emergency room first time you run across him

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Haha I actually had a really really long post about me falling in love with a girl and her leading me on for all of my senior year and that I had enlisted in the marines during that time.
I got over that girl and I'm about a year and a half into my contract.

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>see qtgirl at uni bar a lot
>we often make eye contact and both look away
>yesterday
>having lunch at the cafeteria
>she's there
>as I'm leaving I notice she's looking at me
>I look at her
>she smiles
>I smile back
>too beta to go and talk to her
>don't even know her name so I can't find her on FB/IG

There's a girl I work with who is a transfer from India (the company I work for is owned by Pajeets). This girl is easily a 9. Adorable face. Ass that I want to eat for hours. Great tits. Fit. Etc.

Of course, I have the issue of don't shit where you eat, so I am just friends with her. I try to ignore her best I can so I don't catch feels, which is hard because she is always approaching me (she doesn't really talk to anyone else, of course).

But I am going to be putting my two weeks in around October, and on that day I am getting her digits. Fuck she gives me the "I want to fuck" eyes and it's driving me crazy. Only solution is to fuck other girls, but yeah this one is fucking smoking.

>tfw girl who you are with for over a month says you should just stay friends because you are too good to her so she feels you're not being genuine and are only doing it to get in her pants

>never really fall in love with them anyway
;_;

she's the only reason I don't inject a bunch of chinese bathtub chemicals and leave humanity behind. if she leaves me I'm turning in my natty card and becoming a monster

entered first relationship in my life last year, I met her a couple of times before, once was 3 months before the other a year, we knew eachother, started talking when I was in africa, got back after half a month of talking

went to a party first weekend I was home and hit it off, started hanging out with her and sleeping at her place, then around a month afterwards she tells me it won't work

now I've heard from two of my friends that afterwards she was all over them even though she told me that she still had feelings for me, I try not to think too much about it but my second friend brought up today of him meeting her at the club in january and she was all over him

sorry for blog post just needed to vent

Lol..... dude you were too much of a bitch and she lost attraction. Stop talking to her completely for at least a month and try to salvage it. If she doesn't bite cut it off.

Coal burners are whores sorry bro.

I've come to accept it, I know that it will end badly if we get together again, she is more of a """""""""""""""""normie"""""""""""""", seeing guys all the time when she's not in a relationship while I try to look for a meaningful relationship, while we had great times etc it's just not meant to b

considering how quick she was to go to the club trying to find ons after we broke up

The biggest call signs for a girl to be a shameless whore is

> goes to the club frequently
> dates blacks

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well she doesn't date blacks, she doesn't even wanna talk with an immigrant if there isn't someone with her to feel safe

it just makes the thing worse with me protecting her, I should just drop it and move on, I have plans on moving back to another city for school, there I could get my mind off things

trying to protect her motives* idk

I need advice lads
There’s this girl at work I’m interested in. She seems drawn to me for whatever reason although we don’t know each other very well. Should I just ask her to meet me for lunch some time in he cafeteria next time we run into each other?
Inb4 don’t attempt to date coworkers I don’t give a fuck about that and it’s not against company policy

fuck why did the hair have to look so retarded back in the day. what happened. what gave them the idea that curled up shit looked better than straight and loose hair. I HATA IT I HATE IT I HATE IT

You guys seriously get way too comfortable basking in your little beta moments. Vulnerability has its merits here and there, but you're turning it into an identity.

Inject some testosterone, for fucks sake.

what is being anonymous

hallo deutsche freunde, ich spriche auch deusch

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2 weeks tomorrow, I'll just wait 2 more then. How do I go about salvaging it? What do I say lad? This week I saw her at the gym 2 times (once was today, like 30 minutes ago) and I actually had to walk right by her and I just pretended she didn't exist.

This happened 2 nights ago. I just gotta offload this.
>background: oneitis and I are good friends since highschool, now we're 27. Asked her out probably 3 times under different circumstances by the time I was 23. After that just accepted that it wasnt gonna happen. we'll call her K
>but that feeling doesnt really go away.
>recently rekindled our friendship after a few years apart. Circumstances just dictated that we didnt talk, especially her living in another state
>shes back in town for an emergency: her legs dont work and no one knows why. Shes losing feeling in her legs and arms, worried it could be her spine (which was broken years back)
>we make time to go to a brewery, she invites me to her parents for tacos beforehand, which i accept
>her mom pours her a glass of 11% mead. Her mom pours herself one, then decides she doesnt want it so gives it to K, who feels obligated to drink it. Shes not driving so no big deal
>We get to the brewery, she has 2 more drinks the whole night, but shes 5'1 so apparently it's a lot
>she was self deprecating, claiming she was ugly, mean, and worthless and that everyone told her growing up that her twin was prettier (non identical). this is objectively untrue, her twin is a slag and a whore. Shes basically the opposite
>I cant stand to see her this way, so I make sure she knows that shes beautiful, kind, smart, etc the whole 9 yards. I wasn't trying to do anything, i just wanted to make her feel better
>suddenly looks me in the eyes, grabs my hands, pulls me over the table and kisses me on the lips 3 times, slowly
>holy shit
>eventually basically carry her to my car. was worried people thought I had roofied her because she was drunk as all hell and her legs didnt work.
>cont.

>at the next red light, she grabs me again and kisses me deeply, but I need to pull away so i can drive
>im basically autistic and not really sure how to handle this situation, but its awesome so i keep going with it
>get her home, sitting in driveway
>"What's this? [song]"
>oh sorry, i turn it down.
>"no its a good song....you wanna make out to it?"
>so obviously shes mega drunk, so i dont say yes or no. But a few seconds later we go at it
>after 10 minutes or so I decide i should get her inside to her parents house
>get out of car with my keys (keyless), so my car honks twice to let me know its still on. The worst fucking feature on the planet
>scared to death i woke up her parents
>shes even more deadweight than before, but we shuffle to the door
>inside the garage, she basically crumbles to the floor
>I kneel down because standing above her seemed weird
>she pulls me down again, we make out a bit.
did I mention I'm a virgin? so i'm all aflutter here, kinda freaking out but really exciting
>worried that her parents will see us (at midnight) but keep going
>pick her up, she needs to go to her room, but I'm worried we'll wake up her parents because shes laughing and moaning the whole time
>this whole time, i'm kinda worried that ive been copping a feel because I need to lift her by her arm pits, but she has a coat on so its hard to tell. I'm not trying to, but shes dead weight some times so i just gotta heave her up. I dont want her to have memories of me molesting her, so Im super nervous this whole time
>i take her to the couch, she removes her jacket, I cover her with it
>really hoping she would just go to sleep, but she doesnt sleep well ever so I sit with her a little bit
>occasionally she grabs me by the jacket and kisses me, which i cant really resist
>at this point I'm fully aware that shes drunk as fuck and I mightve already crossed a line, but I want to make sure shes okay because she cant really walk
>"i still need to take a shower"
>cont

you better be typing and continue posting user

nvm go on

That's a telltale sign that she's cheating, in my experience.

>"you wanna take a shower with me?"
>oh, i cant do that, why dont you just lay here? or I can take you to your room
>"noo, i need to take a shower"
>laying on the couch, she starts taking her shirt off
>i dont know if you know this but shes short (my fetish), toned, and has big tits
>ive basically dreamed of her my entire adult life
>I dont immediately stop her, and for this i feel bad
>she gets it over her tits, but her bra is still on, which I'm glad for
>just stare at it for a few seconds, in complete awe
>realize I cant let her do this, so I pull her shirt back down, but she keeps trying
>eventually I take her to the bathroom, I figure I can get her in there, close the door, and leave.
>we get in there
>at one point, i need to pull her close to me, hips to hips. I dont remember why
>with no jacket, wearing a shirt, i'm again fully aware of her body.
>I try to hand her a towel so i can leave her
>"No this is my dads towel, i gotta get my towel from my room"
>ugh, fine
>i really didnt want to bring her there because of her parents, but at this point it might be best to get her on her bed safe and sound and leave
>we get to her room, its apparently opposite of her parents room. Both doors are wide open. Did I mention shes super drunk, giggly, and keeps moaning?
>I lay her on the bed, get her legs into it
>she grabs me and pulls me down onto her bed, laughs and moans
>ooooooh fuck no, i aint making out or who knows what within earshot of your parents
>pull away, tell her I have to go, close the door so her parents know I left (if they are awake, i dont even know)
>walk out to my car and leave
Kind of anti-climactic. But Im so glad her parents were there, I think I mightve taken advantage of her if not for that and I dont want to be that guy. Even the kissing, I was stone cold sober, so i shouldnt have let it happen so many times.
additional thoughts cont.

we talked yesterday, she doesnt remember any of it, except the first kiss. I dont know if I should tell her she tried to undress in front of me, tried to get me into the shower, tried to do who knows what with me on her bed. But I told her we kissed 6 or 7 times and that it really confused me. She tip-toed around it a little, apologizing for her behaviour. She was really embarrassed. Shes a pretty conservative christian girl. But I had to ask her in the most explicit terms if she wanted to be in a relationship. Because honestly, ive come to terms with the fact that we arent gonna be together, and it took me a long time to get there. Suddenly she kisses me and I'm fucking confused. Not to mention that i'm crazy about another girl right now, but the affection just feels so good. She said she wasnt interested in being in a relationship "right now", which is great. So I'm content with that, i dont have to be confused or worried about this other girl.
But every girl that says "right now" is fucking wrong. Dont say that shit and make me wonder. Either you dont want me or you do, don't give me false hope.