This hurts. I need to avoid women like her. How do you guys handle someone like her?

If you go to that facebook posts, you will find loads of women defending her and insisting there's nothing wrong with just "accepting gifts from a friend"

It's a long road to find a woman who won't do this to you.

Simply do not be the guy in that story. Like fuck, how hard can it be. Spend less money, time and affection on someone who doesn't return it. That doesn't mean you have to stop being a nice and caring dude, but Jesus Christ, what the fuck are you even doing with your life when that's how you behave towards women.

Different user but

>She fuck a ton of jocks
>He buys presents to appese her
>She dosent give a shit
>They break up
>He carrys on buying presents

you first handle yourself. give people just the attention they need.

By never letting a woman have the power in your relationship, if she doesn't at all times know you can leave her and find someone better, you don't have the power.

And I don't mean this in some sick manipulative way, be a man, protect her, support her, but always be the master.

This is both sad a hilarious. Probably tell her to fuck off. Might be hard if you're actually in love with her.

She didn't really do anything to him, he did it to himself. If I had some idiot girl I could keep baiting forever who never learned her lesson, I'd take advantage of it too.

Jow Forums has a lot of orbiters who do that kinda shit. But that aside, OP's pic seems like the standard simp, so he probably won't learn until he get's burnt, or he just won't learn at all. (I'm referring to the man buying the gifts).

>How do you guys handle someone like her?
Don't be a fucking retard and learn to discern the following

>Are you putting in 90% of the work in a relatioship?
If yes you are getting cucked
If no you are alright
>Is the girl responding reciprocally to your affections?
If yes you may be alright
If not you are just her cashcow beta orbite
>Was the girl a huge slut but it's not anymore after she met you?
If you believed it, you are literally retarded

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Literally the same as incel behavior

+ More money

>i-it's not incel if I pretend it's t-totally my decision
lmao

I’ve fairly recently realized that as soon as you give a woman validation you’ve lost her
I think being aloof is key

nah. only if you date women who have a revenge outlook on life. been dating my gf for 4 years. kindest gal i ever met.
find girls who you can communicate with. don't chase chicks like OP's who want guys to abuse them because they got some unresolved mental issues.

>it's not losing the lottery if you choose not to play

It really isn't user.

Girls want attention, they want to be showered in it. They're told to feel like princess from an early age. The first time they don't get treated like a princess they'll dismiss the guy as an asshole. The second time they don't get treated like a princess they'll say all men are jerks. The third time they'll realize that by not being showered in attention they're being treated as an equal, with respect, and the moment they realize that, is when they have truly grown up.

Find a girl who isn't looking to be showered in gifts and praise all the time. She will be mature and independent, and be the best gf material you will ever find.

The woman in OP's picture is immature and still has quite a bit of growing up to do. Some women never do though.

stop worrying that you may get the wrong women.
start worrying that you may become the wrong man.

3-2 rule everytime guys

Wrong.

Incels are blue pilled, and only care about getting pussy. They'd risk death to get laid, they even choose to refer to themselves to as a name given to them by the females they claim to "hate". MGTOW encourages you to find better things to do, rather than chasing skirt, and being a depressed no gf faggot.

See:
reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7208xz/why_so_much_hate_on_incels/

this is true. if you are an adult you should know better. caring about people who don't care about you is for naive children. you have got to be responsible for your own happiness. if you set yourself up for a giant heartbreak that's like a kid receiving candy from a stranger and complaining that the stranger raped them lmfao

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Even in your attempts to "go your own way", you've put women on a pedestal.

>It's not losing the lottery
You choose not pursue women and yet you still compare them to a grand prize of potential wealth and happiness.

You might claim to be going your own way but you're clearly still fixated on women and the grandiose expectations you have of their influence on your life.

>How do you guys handle someone like her?
By having balls?

Be a good judge of character. Lots of people will tell you all girls are the same and that isn't true. That's like a girl who only dates frat dudes and football players complaining all guys are the same. Find a girl who has good character and you'll be fine.

Literally so fucking what? Some guy was desperate and simply enjoyed being able to talk to a woman. Neither of the two actually cared about each other.

The woman happened to be a narcissistic fuck who grabbed onto the narrative of "I've never felt in power like this before" Seriously, Humans of New York comes to you and *this* is what you choose to highlight?

There's no way the guy didn't see this aspect of her behavior. He might have liked it or he simply didn't give a shit about her (meaning the real her, not the idea of her) and just used her to pretend like he was in a relationship.

Two morons get together. It happens all of the time.

Nigger that's literally incorrect.
reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/7ix9te/dear_incels_this_is_not_your_new_rincels/
Last time I'll link r*ddit.

>How do you guys handle someone like her?
Accept that she has been coerced by the devil. Realize that not all people are like her and do what I can to promote the teachings of Jesus and remember the good things that we have in life.

If all you are doing is "chasing Skirt" than of course you aren't finding fulfillment in your interactions with women. If your intention is simply to not be controlled by your desire for sexual attention you've still failed. You've separated yourself from female relationships because you're fixated on sexual gratification and don't see women as any more than an outlet for sexual frustration. You might claim by not playing you are winning, but by not playing you're only proving that sexual acceptance from women is so important to you, that you'd rather repress it all than risk rejection or emotional compromise.

By "going your own way, you've devoted yourself to celibacy in the name of women's power over you.

>dude i'm a b-beta who can get a fat chick or a roastie if i try hard enough
>i'm gonna pretend i don't care about women or sex and all of them are gonna be jealous of me, go mgtow bro!

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>You choose not pursue women and yet you still compare them to a grand prize of potential wealth and happiness.
im comparing them to a game
and if you don't play the game, then you don't lose the game

Do not use someone else's words to try and tell me why you think I am wrong. Tell me yourself. Explain how fixating on sexual satisfaction to the point of non-participation is any more than another way in which you've let women have power over you

He looks fucking ridiculous.

But you did not compare them to a game. You compared them to a chance at Grand wealth and happiness. That Freudian slip is glaring.

If you're so scared to lose that you refuse to play than you've put far more importance on the game than it deserves to begin with. You've given the game far more responsibility and control over your actions and emotions. You've become obsessed so much that you force yourself not to play.

not him and i even disagree with what hes saying. but i do think the concept mgtow has one good thing. Men of todays society who whine and complain about women. need to realize it's their fault. if 25% of guys just stop giving girls false validation in the hopes of sex and focused more on their purpose. the dating market would improve for everyone.
stop the fucking lying to women and be upfront honestly

fuck off notatrap

>Freudian slip
Freud literally made shit up to excuse jerking off to his own mother, i'm yet to see a single time outside of fiction where Freudian anything was in any way relevant or useful.

You're still wrong though. You're not devoting yourself to celibacy. You're able to get sex if you want, pump and dump is a thing you know that right? There's different ways of doing this. It's about finding better shit to do, rather than looking for relationships, company, and marriage. That's literally what skirt chasing refers to.

While I agree that the portion of men that do that should come to realize the problem is them, I don't think they do through MGTOW. They continue to blame women and give them the power over their daily interactions and it breeds contempt. They never accept responsibility for their own behavior, they just choose to ignore the problem.

You simply ignore them.
Also, on a date, you need to make sure she gets that you want the relation to be sexual.
Let there be no misunderstanding or you might end up like a cuck.

>girl uses guy for emotional support
>whore
>guy uses girl for sex
>dude nice
Double standard. If you're dumb enough to fall into the trap of being used for sex, or used emotionally, you deserve the consequence of it. Fucking take care of yourself and set boundaries, be honest, be forward.

How many Instagram followers can a girl have before it becomes a huge red flag?

You call it bullshit but you haven't proven it wrong.

Instead of confronting what I've said you're now deflecting to a different topic. Your avoidant.

yeah i agree. thats why i said the concept of mgtow is good on paper. but it just becomes another hivemind where ppl act like children. 'it didnt need them anyway"

Women aren't gonna change their ways. if another guy is just gonna play the same game with them regardless. and majority of ppl who are mgtow are losing. so it's a waste
Our society just needs to be fucking honest. but oh well

>tfw 100 lbs Asian GF who sucks my dick every time I see her
>Tfw nutting in her and she screams "give it to me daddy"

Its a good feel bros.

This. Everyone's been hurt and everyone's the protagonist in their story that didn't deserve to be hurt. Being bitter builds a protective shell that prevents the possibility of getting hurt in the future. Or, at least, it's a natural response to it.

You already lost by paying attention to that shit.

care more about what she posts. then the followers.

You say that, but says it's about specifically NOT skirt chasing.

If you're still looking to "pump and dump" you're still looking for female companionship even if it's just sexual. That isn't going your own way, that's just non-committal which describes most of the population.

Absolutely

>Melbourne
No surprise at all. Statistically speaking the guy was probably Asian. Lads, if you come to Australia, avoid Melbourne and Brisbane like the plague, and Sydney's probably on its way out soon too.

What?

I guess you have a point. I was mainly referring to the relationships (i.e. Marriage, Dating, etc.) rather than the intercourse. So yeah that part could be described as non-commitment. Still it's a form of going your own way, as you're not bothering to waste time or money, or deal with the bs, when it comes to things like dating and marriage. Though that's still a small of MGTOW as a whole.

>How do you guys handle someone like her?
I cease contacting her, and buy her nothing. Is that really difficult?

once you're dating the girl or fucked her. she needs to put in 3x the effort and you respond with 2x the effort
basically if she sends you three text
you send back 2
if she sends 2 text. you send 1
if she sends one text. you dont reply

If there's one group of people who has a harder time with women than white men, it's asian men

You ultimately get what you deserve. If you find yourself dating a piece of shit whore it's because you deserve a piece of shit whore.

A needy, insecure melt will get a girl like this.
A self-assured, self-actualized man who doesn't rely on external sources for validation will not get a girl like this.

You get to choose which one you want to be.

>"Hey, lets go to this party on Saturday!"

>no reply

Hm.

this p much

oh yeah i forgot it's Jow Forums
if shes sends one text that isn't about meeting up or fucking. ignore

Start listening to Patrice O' Neal. He has great theories about relationships. I am currently leaning towards MGTOW myself (cutting out female friends who used to manipulate me/use me as an emotional tampon) and listening to him has really helped me understand a lot of situations I've been in over the last few years. Feminism has gone too far and equality has made women miserable. Keep the upper hand in every relationship you get into

youtube.com/watch?v=5F4l4pwXJGo

Ignore her text, let her call once and ignore, then pick up on the second call, make sure you sound uninterested when answering the second call. Bitches love that.

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Women have a different mentality than men. Guys try to woo and court women with gifts and attention. We aren't getting something for nothing, so we expect that giving something will get us something. Women on the other hand regard our courtship offerings as a reward. They unironically believe that they're getting stuff because they deserve it. As such they feel no qualms about getting stuff and no gratitude. Once they realize that it's a transaction they get offended. We have a name for people who get money in exchange for sex. We call them whores. And because they were oblivious up to that point, they blame men for being sneaky.

First off, make a few trustworthy friends who'll bring you to your senses when your judgement is unsound. Second, don't build your life around a woman and make her aware of it. Don't change hobbies/friends/habits because she told you so. Don't be afraid to walk away.

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He's also right about the Jews in the entertainment industry.

all women are like that if you treat them like that. wouldn't you?

He deserves it since he's a "nice guy" "simp" "mangina", etc. But that's a still scummy to do on her part. Too many women do that kinda shit. Though it's best you don't feel sorry for the dude, since those kinda people don't learn until they get burnt.

>MGTOW encourages you to find better things to do, rather than chasing skirt, and being a depressed no gf faggot.
Then why the fuck can't literally every single person claiming to be "MGTOW" stop talking about women? The """""movement""""" is supposed to be able living without the influence of women, yet it's obvious women live inside these peoples' heads rent-free. It's so transparent that these people are the exact same as incels, just trying to cope by pretending it's their choice.

I've had one like that. Long story short: dont date any woman who loves you less than you love her. As you soon as you feel it, dump her. She probably won't mind anyway.