Should I lose virginity to Tinder whores I talk to or should I wait for the girl I love? I'm 19 and not kissless or handholdless and generally ok with people.
Should I lose virginity to Tinder whores I talk to or should I wait for the girl I love...
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Why do you value your virginity so much?
Lad at 19+ you're gonna be creeping any woman out when you have no idea what you're doing during a lay so it might as well be someone you'll never see again
made for bbc
fuck off
If you wait for the girl you love and are 19, chances are she will be 18 y-o who has been with 10 guys already.
Your performance will suck and she will reconsider an eventual romantic relationship with you
There is an implied experience at that age my man. Virginity isnt a big deal but secual inexperience is starting to be a factor at 19.
>I should be in love before sex
That's thousands of years of religious repression talking. Sex isn't some holy or sacred thing, it's free fun as long as you're being safe and responsible.
There is no guarantee you'll live to see tomorrow. Are you comfortable dying a virgin?
As a side note - male chastity is a total joke. You'll never hear a girl insist on a virgin bf/husband. Not even in highly religious communities.
Do it bro. There was a time I could have gotten laid with a cute chicm but didn't because I was wanted a girl I loved or other bullshit vrigins believed. I ended up not banging the girl I loved and the other chick didn't fuck me since she saw that I basically left her on the back burner. I missed a really big chance and you shouldn't make the same mistake.The bullshit of your first time being with someone special is for young sloots so they don't get pregnant at 15.
fuck off degenerate
>wait for the girl I love
Only women are allowed to believe the fairy-tales told by their mothers you fucking idiot.
Lose it as soon as you can so you can start building experience. Best case is with an ugly/fat/old woman so you can get in a lot of practice if you're really behind. It will also let you know how douchey average/good-looking girls are so you can approach them with the proper amount of "fuck you" to not be a beta.
>Tinder whores
Why downgrading others when sharing the same scenario?
wait til you find the right girl or youll end up 40years old and divorced with kids that hate you
degenerate filth kys
You sound sour grapes as fuck, my dude. It's okay to be incel, just don't take it out on others that have a personality deeper than the layer of cheeto crumbs on your fingers.
>my man
stop
If you are fucking random whores, sure, inexperience can be an issue. If you have a gf who actually gives a shit about you, it shouldn't be a problem.
OP listen to this guy. I made the mistake of not getting laid when I was 16ish and now I regret it. Your first time won't be special, it will be messy and awkward. Lose your virginity now or you'll regret it
>downgrading
your brain is not large enough to contribute to this discussion
>losing your virginity
>ever
Shut the fuck up with your degenerate bullshit. Let the guy be free and get laid. He can always stop if he doesn't enjoy it. You faggots wanting to stop men from getting laid are the scum of earth
Wtf is going on in this picture.
Also not fit related.
Months after losing it you wound hold any significance to losing it, you'll just regret the time you wasted.
I'm going to let you in on a secret OP: sex isn't nearly as big a deal as virgins make it out to be. Getting laid the first time is just a proof of concept that people think you're fuckable, it's hardly some mind-blowing experience or divine rite of passage. If you're carrying this around like someone stitched a scarlet V on your chest go smash and dash and take a load off your mind by blowing a load.
Find someone to fuck as soon as you can. That way you can get some experience and get a handle on what you’re doing, so you aren’t a shitty lay later on.
At 19, you’re nearing the edge of the bubble where girls find it “cute” and acceptable that you’re still a virgin. If you’re at least a 6/10, if a girl is into you, she will more than likely have no problem with you being a virgin and will help coach you through sex.
I lost my virginity at 25, and dude it sucks being a virgin that long. The girl I lost it to I ended up dating for 6 months. She might have had an idea I was a virgin, but I’m not entire sure she’s knew. I lied and said I hadn’t had sex a lot and it had been a while since I did have sex last. I’m like a 7/10 on a good day and pretty normal aside from the fact I’m browsing here, so it’s possible the ruse worked.
Honestly, OP. I didn't plan it, I wanted pussy like every other young male, but I fell in love with a girl, madly in love. I'm glad I was a virgin before her. She was a virgin too.
When you had sex the first time with someone you have a deep emotional bond with, it's something special.
We are getting married in August, I'm glad I was a virgin.
Honestly now when I hear dudes talking about all the girls they fuck, I just feel sorry for them.
I;m not religious, by the way.
The incel brigade is out in force today.
Ask advice. This has nothing to do with fitness.
what is this reasonable shit doing on Jow Forums
actual experience with girls is the only way to not get fucked over further down the line. You will regret missing out
>thinking random sex and pussy has any value
>t. fatherless hedonistic degenerate
Aaaaand they're still at it.
People saying you are fucked if you're inexperienced are either inexperienced themselves or young. After a certain point it really doesn't matter. Girls realize some are better at sex than others. Just don't let them know you are a virgin
the simple answer is that it doesnt matter. i happen to be someone that, coincidentally, waited. But would things be different otherwise? i dont think so. The only benefit is that it's a little "cute" that ive only been with my gf and she has only been with me. imo, have sex. dont go out of your way to lose your virginity. just have sex if you want to, and dont if you dont want to. that's all
>triforce tattooed on his finger
where the fuck do you think you are you fucking plebbitor?
Schlomo can you fuck off just this once?
>it's possible the ruse worked.
My ruse was so simple that it worked flawlessly.
>lose virginity to girlfriend
>at some point she gets curious and asks how many girls I've been with
>tell her she stole my innocence and call her a succubus
>she thinks I'm full of shit and laughs about it
>brings it up again at some point
>stick to my story
>she becomes insecure about this imaginary wild past she assumes I had
Everyone is a whore in the right situation
You only get to lose your viginity to the girl next door when youre 15-17 if youre LUCKY at your age mate it’s time to just get the job done so you can move on with your life. Find a decently pretty roastie and court her til she fucks
So many buttmad virgins on Jow Forums now. It wasn’t like this 10 years ago.
Just get laid already. It’s fucking easy as hell
Wait. You will not make it if you don't wait.
>he replied to every single user that commented on his post
Unironically put virgin at the end of your Tinder profile and see what happens
>tfw when accepted that I will never have a gf
I'm just too emotionally fucked up, I'm better off alone anyway. Life feels really cold.
Shut the fuck up nigger.
man i would love to suck her sweaty juicy dirty feet all day all night anons. id cream all over them
Take it from someone who is literally at the doctor's office right now getting screened for an sti, luckily a curable one, because he smashed a tinder thottie. You don't want that shit. Wait for a girl you love, and really love. Wait until you're confident. She won't care about your inexperience. My ex didn't care about mine. I loved her, she loved me. I got experience with her. She literally could not care less and for the first like month I couldn't hold it for more than 2 minutes. I was ashamed but she didn't care.
I agree that your experience of losing it sounds really special and for your case it ended up being great. It sounds like you've made the right decision but you have to understand that not every guy can find the woman they love and want to marry. A lot of guys will chase that unicorn of wanting to find the perfect girl to have sex with and it won't happen for a long time. They will end up as 19 year old virgins like OP and will be awkward as fuck when they do meet the love of their life.
>or should I wait for the girl I love?
Every kid to ever say this nonsense ends up a 40 year old virgin. Grow the fuck up.
Not a brigade at all. Just 1 guy spamming "degenerate"
The problem is they put sex at the front of their priority list instead of looking for a wholesome and quality relationship that will last a lifetime. It's unironically shit like this I was a virgin until 21, so 19 isn't that big of a deal. So long as you don't put pussy on a pedestal
they guy called you a degenerate so you say he gets no pussy
that's literally the mental equivalence of muh dick, fuck off nigger retard
>virgin at 19
>Every kid to ever say this nonsense ends up a 40 year old virgin. Grow the fuck up.
>he has been brainwashed by postmodernist society to believe this
I feel sad for you desu
you disagreed with what that guy said so you insult his intelligence
that's literally the mental "equivalence" of muh dick, fuck off nigger retard
I waited, regretted it.
Girls prefer a man that's been around. They can smell experience.
Theres mile difference between putting pussy on pedestal and wanting only sex out of relationship.
The difference being, one guy gets what he wants other doesnt
Tfw unironixally 25khhv
I should just recluse myself the fuck away im just not compatible in this society
I get mired, but I never talk to anybody. Only thing that comes to mind when I see a fit chick at the gym is
>do you wanna fuck
Does this work.
Daily reminder, every bug, ape, nigger, etc. has sex. There is absolutely nothing about having sex.
There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.
Don't let degenerate society pressure you, lads.
In the same situation. There’s one girl I know that I could fuck I met off tinder but don’t want to. I had a chance with a really cute girl but she had lied about her age when she met me and fuck that shit. I’m gonna wait and die a virgin :))
Honestly just go to a massage parlour
Costs around 150 for an hour long massage and then sex, and it keeps me happy for a week or two.
Plus you can do whatever you want without feeling like you’re weird.
I mean I’m paying for sex, anything else I do in there is a piece of cake.
Only weird thing is when the mamasan co s into your workplace to tell you she has some new girls.
>should I-
answer is always yes. do it.
The few posts that are actually helpful are not even acknowledged
Wow you're completely retarded. Like half the women lose their virginity still at 25 years old or so, they don't give a flying fuck if OP is a virgin at 19.
welcome to Jow Forums
There was nothing jewy about what he said. It is in line with National Socialist teachings.
Fuck off with the retarded Christcuck restrictions on peoples freedom.
lmao no they don't. Hate to give you the bad news buddyboy but your wife had sex with every Chad in college before she decided to start going to church when she graduated.
Literally had the same conversation with a female friend who didn't know what to do about disclosing to a new boyfriend that she was a virgin. She has the same exact mindset and feels as though (at 25) that it really isn't worth waiting for love to have sex when it's just going to be painful and awkward the first time anyway.
My $0.02: Just do it with someone that you trust, maybe ask a discreet friend to just do it for you. It's not like you're going to fall in love with a person because they break an invisible barrier on your genitals, it's just a physical act that feels good. Sex, unless it's for reproduction, is honestly pretty boring and you're not missing out on much. Most people have sex because of the validation it gives them and the dopamine rush.
Lmfao, the fuck?? Are you really going to unironically date a girl before you even bang her? Do you buy a car before you test drive it too? What happens when she leaves your stupid ass 6 months in without even giving up the pussy, and then you have nothing to show for it? What are you gonna do then you retards?
You always, always, ALWAYS bang before you start dating, this should be basic knowledge.
National Socialism put the cellular family unit at the front of society and sexual immorality as a crime for untermensch.
The only people who were encouraged to have sex out of wedlock were SS pure aryan soldiers in the hopes of producing super soldiers with aryan women.
>just ask your friend to have sex with you
That would be a) gay
B) stupid because if i could have sex with girl that friendzoned me i wouldnt be posting in this thread
You’re fucking corrupt as fuck.
>You always, always, ALWAYS bang before you start dating, this should be basic knowledge
Comparing another human being to "test driving a car" is probably why you're so familiar with women leaving after 6 months.
Has you specifically asked the girl about sex?
I did and it worked
>do you want sex?
>fuck you
>yes
>I wasted 6 months of my life but at least I got pussy, so it wasn't a complete waste huuurr
>thinking "pussy" is something to " show for it"
>being such a degenerate you go to hookers
>being a good human
Pick one (1)
whats the point? you fuck random whores sure you feel good and feel like a chad but if/when you get a gf/bf it'll be awkward as fuck at first and then you find eachothers likes and dislikes so its guessing game
I am not sure those things exist where I live and if they did I would have to have someone I trust guide me to one I'm not going to just take a chance
>he thinks pussy has value
You don't have a single female friend?
Regardless, unless you're some sort of highly religious guy who is going to have some kind of moral crisis if you lose your virginity to some random girl from an internet app, just get it done already. Beat off before you see her, wear a condom, don't go down on her (you can get chlamydia/gonorrhea from oral) and just fuck her (passionately, not like a jackhammer) until you cum and then you're not a virgin anymore.
Then, you join the masses of people who have already had sex and then you self-validate yourself on whether you're having sex or not, which sometimes can feel worse than being a virgin.
I lost it at 21 to a girl I loved and had the patience to teach me and build my confidence. I cant imagine some vapid whore giving the same experience. Just wait OP, the right girl is out there. That being said, dont have too high of standards, if youre having a good time with a girl and it happens, just let it happen
>should I wait for the girl I love?
It's weird that you have to ask this. You're not sure if she feels the same way, are you?
Anyway if you're so good with people and there are no other factors then of course with the girl you love.
Why do you care what women think about you being a virgin? They're pieces of shit. Bet they listen to nigger music or the Beatles.
>being this degenerate
this
it is, you dumb faggot. It's the biggest thing a female can give you. It's an insurance policy; if you fuck a girl and she moves on you are insured. If you waste 6 months and don't get to fuck its akin to getting into an accident without insurance. Girls give more than they take regarding sex. It's a bigger taboo for a girl to fuck a guy than it is for a guy to fuck a girl, so she won't fuck you unless she feels you are worth it and is that much less likely to actually leave you
>It's the biggest thing a female can give you
>not her undying loyalty, devotion, admiration
wanna know how I know you've never been in a meaningful relationship and/or are underage?
The amount of samefagging in this thread is absurd
>57 posters
>93 replies
that's not even two posts a person
>loyalty
>female
You are right. I've wasted time around a girl for months and she ended up fucking someone else. Don't be a dumbass like me and want it to be "special" or some bullshit. Don't listen to the guys saying it's "degenerate" to have sex. You are a man, go and get laid.
I’m assuming you’re American, in short look for Asian parlours where the girls wear mini shirts or dresses (easier to take on or off) don’t take more than you’re willing to spend, act casual don’t say what the money is for just in case it is a sting, but it shouldn’t be.
Peanty of sires online to give you help, otherwise wait til you have a drunk friend and jokingly say hey I hear x gives more than massage you know, they should give you a good answer probably
who hurt you
Your virginity is worth less than nothing you fucking idiot, get rid of it, you're not a fucking chick.