Have gf that loves me more than anything

I'm the same.

Get jealous when my FWBs talk about other dudes even though I fuck multiple girls and is open about it.

Just something you have to deal with. Jealousy has ruined the chance of me being with the best girl i've ever met. don't let that happen to you bro.

You're male. You'll always want different pussy.

talk about that with her. Thats all you can do.

I haven't thought of a solution to that one

I had a girlfriend who was absolutely perfect. Next minute she puts on weight, but only on her legs. Strangest thing - completely flat stomach, but walking around on these stubby little planks. Completely lost interest in fucking her.

But what are you supposed to say? "Everything is voided. Every interaction we've ever had, every moment we've shared, it all means nothing because you've put on weight. Now lose it because this is so important I am going to leave you if you don't fix it. I mean it, you disgust me right now."

>Jealousy has ruined the chance of me being with the best girl i've ever met.

What did you do bro?

>tfw I think I already know the story

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If you're the kind of person who will cheat or serially flirt, you are going to assume your partner is the same

Had a FWB relationship with this girl and I fell hard for her. Dropped all other girls and started pushing her more for a relationship.

I went from being the IDGAF cool dude to the needy nice guy in her eyes. Then we started seeing each other less and less. Still had a chance to recover if I had just stayed out of contact. But our friend groups collided on a night out and one of her friends sat and bragged how he had fucked her and how him and I had a special bond. Kept talking about what he had done to her and I was drunk and high so I bashed my beer bottle into his hand on the table and broke it.

Now I'm just a psycho nice guy in her eyes.

Oh well.

It is a huge rush, but with an even bigger come down.

Try to figure out why you want to cheat. Is her love so total for you that you feel there is no risk of losing her, and thus hold no respect/excitement for her?

When you were a kid you like borrowing toys but hated sharing them with friends. We all want more but don't want other's to have what's ours.

This seems pretty accurate. I've never cheated but my ex cheated on me and she would've got away with it if she wasn't such a dumbshit and felt guilty enough to confess.

I stayed with her another year and a half after she confessed because I was a pussy faggot. I wish I could have stuck up for myself and dumped the slut like I eventually did.

It's not cheating if you don't bust a nut. Learn your Kegel user.

"I am no longer physically attracted to you since you have let yourself go. I truly care about you, but you have neglected the physical aspect of our relationship and therefore me. If you care about this relationship as I do then you must put in the effort to make it work or it cannot last."
If she doesn't fix it based on that then walk away, shit will only get worse.

>>have gf that loves me more than anything

Must suck having to deal with a leech instead of someone who loves themselves.

Can confirm

just do it, be a gentleman, go out of town. never let her find out.

once you've satisfied your curiosity, move on with your life, hate yourself and eventually come clean about it 10 years later.

Cheating is a pathetic thing to do.
You're not a man if you cheat.
You have no honor, discipline or self-control if you cheat.
Cheating is for the weak.

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There is literally nothing wrong with """cheating""", as though relationships were some kind of sport with rules you must follow. You are a self-governing individual and can do whatever you want.

I think yu are emotionally unstable and are low key trying to ruin your happines.
Some people tend to invent new problems, when they dont have any, just to make drama.
Try shooting your own leg, good problem...

Shut the fuck up loser

Also, not Jow Forums related, fuck off

>You are a self-governing individual and can do whatever you want.

This isn't true unless you're a pure psychopath. As much as Jow Forums wants to think they're all these cool unthinking monsters, 99% of us are not psychopaths.

If you're normal, you have internalized a moral code. You are subject to that code. While those rules should be considered, then culled and extended, you're still going to feel either good or bad depending on how you act.

If my gf even considered cheating on me I'd be really fucking mad. You shouldn't even think about that shit you cunt.

I hate this board and I hate all of you on it. Youre all a bunch of losers who will never make it. Fuck all of you.

Nothing is ever Jow Forums related anymore its all just a bunch of beta ass crybabies. OP kill yourself

>best friend has been beta orbiting his oneitis who's a mutual friend
>his oneitis is a sweet and kind girl who still hangs around despite his failed advances
>realize I'm falling for her
>never make any move or show the signs because fucking hell it's my best friend
>feels jealous whenever she talks to someone else other than my friend

Fuck, that ain't healthy at all and and an all around cuck behavior. Tried moving on by dating other girl but still find myself thinking about her. Been stuck like this for almost 3 years now

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>bashed my beer bottle into his hand on the table and broke it.
based

Moral codes and who you fuck have nothing to do with each other (unless you're moralizing sex, in which case congrats on living in the 12th century, hope you can get a nice dowry for the one girl you'll fuck in your life).

If you are emotionally dependent on your sexual partner (or visa versa), that's strictly on you. Stop letting other people dictate how you live your life.

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>she goes out with her friends to party
If she goes out to party without her bf she's cheating on some level guaranteed. It's how women work, they are the prey and guys are the hunters. You can't blame the prey for being taken. What you can do is to not get into a relationship with a girl who goes partying with her friends without you because she WILL fuck or make out with or flirt with other guys.

What do you think the guys at those parties will do when she says she has a boyfriend? Back off? Nah he'll kiss her anyway and the moments their lips touch she will say to herself that "well, I did say I have a bf but this is happening anyway so it's not my fault" and that gives her an excuse to go back to his place and fuck him with absolutely zero regret because that's how women work. If you aren't there she's up for grabs, this is how other guys reason and that is how she reasons.

Now it's too late because you've already given up, letting her go out to parties without you. Might as well end this relationship because it's gonna be very hard to salvage. Make sure to keep your next gf under your foot unless you want to get cheated on again.

She begged me to go with her but I declined

Then you deserve to get cheated on and you're probably a closeted cuck.

You obviously seem like a smart enough guy, but I disagree.
Women aren't these subhuman little things with no control over her life.

I'm 26, been with my gf for a year now and still doing as well as if we just met. She goes out to party with her friends just as much as I go out with mine. Don't give her a reason to cheat. Be nice, be respectful and be fucking humble. Treat your girl better than yourself and unless she's a psycho who're you'll never need to worry about her checking out other dudes.

To assume all women are trashbags is a sign you never met a girl that respected you.

Your friend has no claim on her.
Make your move, but be respectful towards your friend.

I've been there and I've lost a friend over a six-month thing.
Talk to your friend about it.

> I don't have an actual response so I'm going to post a "cringe" gif like it's still 2013.

>I bashed my beer bottle into his hand on the table and broke it.

Broke the bottle, the hand, or the table?

Wow there are real Chads on Jow Forums? This is all true. I respect my boyfriend more than any man Ive ever dated and he is totally fine with me going out with my girls because he knows I dont tolerate getting hit on. His trust in me also shows he is high value, confident and secure within himself. Its so attractive I would never even consider cheating.

You want him to dignify the post he responded to with words? The other guy is clearly nuts.

You can tell yourself that you don't care, but jealousy is a part of the human experience you can't easily shut off. It's not rocket science really: if something evokes a negative emotional response you can safely assume it's not right.

Millions of happily married couples prove me right. Your mindset must stem from growing up in a "broken" home.
Correct me if I'm wrong, I don't mean to provoke you.

being overly protective and controlling is a sure-fire way to make a girl cheat on you.
people tend to act the way you treat them.

cheat on her. it will be the best sex ever for you.

>I really want to keep this one.

Then post her fucking tits, ya dingus.

>Women aren't these subhuman little things with no control over her life.
Unfortunately you're largely wrong.

>She goes out to party with her friends just as much as I go out with mine. Don't give her a reason to cheat.
Going out with her friends to party is a very good reason to cheat. It's not a question of how good her bf at home is, it's a question of how attractive and persuasive the guy at the party is. Women are emotional and spontaneous, she's there to have fun and you're not around and won't know.

>Be nice, be respectful and be fucking humble. Treat your girl better than yourself and unless she's a psycho who're you'll never need to worry about her checking out other dudes.
That's like saying your kids or your dogs will be perfectly happy and well behaved as long as you let them run around at will and do whatever the fuck they please without any rules or reprimands. Many parents or owners do it that way and we all know how that goes. This goes for women as well.

Women NEED and WANT a strong man who can make them feel safe and stable and tell her what to do. This doesn't mean you should beat her or spy on her or something, it simply means you should let her know what's okay and what's not and if she's not up for it then you'll find someone else. If she wants to go out partying with her friends you will either come along or tell her you don't want her to.

Emasculated push-overs like you have no idea what girls with bfs like you do when you're not looking. When they're out with the girls and you're at home playing video games you mean absolutely nothing to them. If you knew just how ruthless women are when it comes to cheating you'd turn gay.

>To assume all women are trashbags is a sign you never met a girl that respected you.
Girls do not respect guys, if you think so you're gonna have a real bad wakeup call one day.

The guy you responded to is a degenerate retard, but you're still a beta for not going out with her

Why? What does this bring to the table?
I eat onions constantly and love them but how do they help this poor lad here?

He wanted to post the name of a certain Asian legume that is associated with emasculation and numales but the mods have filtered the word.

Tl;de: I'm projecting past experiences with the other sex towards the troubles of other people because my trust has been broken before. I decide to treat every individual as if they were part of a homogenous group of likeminded people, which makes me callous and unapproachable.

>have loving GF
>we agree to have an open relationship because were not so vain and self centered that we think we are the only thing the other might enjoy
>understand that emotional needs are different than physical needs
>have loving GF and fuck thots on the side
It really is great
>inb4 cuck