How to be more confident?

Not really reddit spacing if he quotes you and writes one sentence under it you dumb stupid fucking gay fag

just be white, 6'3, muscular, big cock, and be sure that all the hot women are miring u. ITS THAT SIMPLE!!!!!111111111111

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just :bee: yourself unironically
its not hard, you aren't pretending to be something you aren't. Just act normal.

A fucking retard and unattractive. No fucking wonder.

Forgive yourself.

The monologue in my head is quite negative by habit, very harsh to both others and myself. When I think back over a stupid thing I've done I'll think "why the fuck did you do that, what's your problem?". I've tried to catch myself and reply with something reassuring, "it's okay, you did that stupid thing, but forgive yourself, you can do this". What does beating yourself up accomplish? Are you better for it after all those time's you've beat yourself up? Show yourself some compassion, you gotta look after yourself after all, and the better you look after yourself, the better help you can be to others, and if you're compassionate with your own missteps, you may be more forgiving to other people's mistakes which can help build mutual respect.

Detach yourself from desired outcomes.

I've been desperate for sex and affection from the opposite sex for many years. Everybody desires, and I desire intimacy very much, so much in fact that I'm completely attached to the outcome. I feel I must get that intimacy no matter what, and that attachment makes me desperate. However, if I were to take a step back, forgive myself for my desperation and accept that I have desires, I can recognise that yes, I desire a girl to be intimate with, and I may go ahead and pursue that desire, but I can do myself a favour and allow myself to relax my grip on a specific outcome and accept the fact that no matter what I do, I cannot completely control what happens, and I recognise and accept that, knowing that even if I do not get the outcome that I am choosing to pursue, I am strong enough to continue on in life despite and to continue to pursue my desires without attachment.

Detached from your desired outcome, you can follow your desire and approach her, but being detached from the outcome you desire, you can approach her knowing you are acting on your desire, but whatever way it goes, you will be fine, and you can continue pursuing your desires & living your life.

is this copypasta

Confidence is something you EARN, not something you suddenly obtain. You're not confident in yourself because you have nothing to be confident about.

You don't wait around asking Jow Forums on how to build confidence to ask a girl out, hold your ground against someone, or do something scary; you do that thing first, and become more confident as a result.

Do it. Whatever you're afraid to do. No matter what, you win either way,

It's something I've been thinking about and reading about the past day or so. I've been trying to get my head around it which is why it may not make complete sense.

>Forgive yourself.
Literally how? I want to but dont think I can.

Connect your self worth with your accomplishments. And then actually accomplish things.

learn how to act. not even joking. I took acting in highschool and learned how to fake it by watching people in movies and imitating.

take LSD