There's a pretty high chance I might be losing my virginity tomorrow. I work as a barback for this college bar, and there's a really hot Stacey bartender who loves to flirt with me. Anyway, after we get off work tomorrow, she wants me to give her a ride on my motorcycle (Ninja 300) and smoke weed at her pad. Thing is, we get off at 3 am, so chances are I'm probably sleeping with her. Now, she gossips a lot with the other bartenders and bouncers, so if I disappoint her in bed, everyone will know.
Is having good cardio and deathgrip enough to not nut immediately in her? I can make up for a lack of rhythm with strong cardio, right? I'm guessing deathgrip might prevent me from being too sensitive as well.
Just tell her you’re a virgin you fuck, she’ll probably think it’s cute anyway
Matthew Bailey
It's all mental. Dont pound away like you see in porn. Take it slow, go easy, and pull out for a few seconds if you think you're about to cum (cool off and go back at it when you get your mind straight)
Oliver Gonzalez
I can't do that. I don't know if she'll tell my coworkers or not, and people will make fun of me.
>Dont pound away like you see in porn What do I do then?
Cooper Allen
Be conscious of your breathing. Breathe in and breathe out. Focus on it
Jack Fisher
This. Relax and enjoy the moment. If you get caught up thinking about your performance, ironically it will suffer. Live in the moment and let the instincts take over. Smell her hair, feel her skin, listen to her moans, soak in the sight of her body. These things will take away from the focus of trying not to cum and other virgin anxieties.
Isaac Lopez
dw, theres no set rules of what to do. all you literally have to do is go with the flow and respond to her body. you cant fuck this up unless ur autistic which u probably are
Colton Mitchell
Don't get too drunk, it's hard to get erect when you are drunk, especially if you are nervous. If you are the type that cums easily, jerk off beforehand. You will fuck up if you smash too quickly and embarass yourself so don't even try it just go at a decent pace. Honestly if you wear a condom it's actually pretty hard to nut you should just wear one
go slow when you're putting it in at first, dip the tip in and then pull it out, then go in a little deeper next time, then back out, then a little deeper again etc etc until you can bury your whole cock deep inside her and kind of mash your hips against hers and grind around - it will feel great
if you try to jam it in dry it will hurt her and probably turn her off.
Andrew Nguyen
> same
Easton Hill
it's a barback job nigger you can get a new one of those any day of the week blind drunk
Christopher Smith
To add to this OP. You can never go straight into a bitch unless she's really wet which is a possibility since it's your first time together. You kind of need to rub the tip of your dick around in a circle to spread the wetness and get the lips wrapped around. Feel free to spread the skin on her thighs (pulling outwards like you were doing rear delt fly's) to open her pussy.
alternatively have her ride you and then flip her after a minute so she doesn't notice your awkward putting the cock in.
However this wouldn't matter if you were with any other girl, but you chose to shit where you eat so now your reputation is on the line. Should have just fucked some random tinder slut or a hooker.
Kevin Evans
Literally the only people who care if you're a virgin are other virigns and high school kids. Don't worry about it, and just tell her - I'm with the other guy, she will think it's cute. She might even be stoked to "teach you"
I dunno how desensitized your dicc is but when I started having sex I couldn't nut at all. Maybe you CAN hammer away like in porn. You'll have to find out
Jace Nelson
Enjoy yourself, but don't rush things. During intercourse remember not to neglect the breasts, hips, neck, etc.
Ryder Torres
dont listen to this literal virgin. Your reputation is on the line and do you really think some thot is going to not gossip to her friends the first thing in the morning?
Tyler Robinson
OP if you are seriously about to fuck for the first time odds are you are going to fuck it up somehow. But you'll have fun anyway. Just wrap your Jimmy and try not to bust in the first 3 pumps.
