How does one even meet girls as an adult without resorting to online or the bar scene?
How does one even meet girls as an adult without resorting to online or the bar scene?
Ryan Johnson
Robert Morris
Post secondary I guess. In other words it's already too late for 95% of us.
Austin Peterson
Kind of figured, I just want an average looking weeb gf, I've tried cons, I've tried anime clubs and I've tried online all are really shitty places to try and meet girls.
Nicholas Diaz
Meetup groups can be very hit-or-miss, but I've had some success there.
But also, what's wrong with online dating?
Easton Smith
Work, volunteering, meet ups, church, maybe a hobby, through friends/family, concerts, sports, etc
Joshua Johnson
Pretty much no way to do it comfortably and successfully other than the way you mentioned unless you have friends that are willing to set you up with people.
Do you have any friends, op?
Chase Phillips
Its not meant for average to below average guys, women get so many messeges from different guys all saying the same shit that you either have to be a chad or have to be really really creative with "le so random pickup lines."to even get a reply and you're lucky if that can even spark a conversation.
I'm not saying this from the outside I've been on the online scene for 3 years and I've tried all the mainstream ones and obscure ones and can barley even get aan actual conversation much less a fucking date.
Angel Torres
>I just want an average looking weeb gf
Not gonna happen unless you're at least a Brad and/or rich.
Cooper Flores
>Do you have any friends, op?
I do and I've asked but the one Chad friend I have seems to not like the idea like he can see from a mile a way that I'm not fit to date/love.
I'm most likely exaggerating but I remember floating the idea by him a few times and he never tried anything or showed many girls.
Jordan Collins
I realized this a long time ago but i'm still trying user....I'm still trying.
Adrian Diaz
I've tried most of these aside from volunteering and sports since I don't really care for sports.
Thank you for the suggestions though user.
Luis Howard
I don't think i've ever heard of two people meeting any other way than through friends, or proximity w/ friends
If you're friendless, proximity via meet up groups or social events like concerts do not work. No one approaches a loner.
Carter Robinson
I have friends but they're all more attractive/more charismatic than me so even if we see a girl and she talks to our group all my other friends normally are the ones shes interested in making conversation with and even when I try all they do is put me down and make fun of me to look cool in front of her and I'm not the best when it comes to banter so I guess I'll just die alone.
Gabriel Rogers
Keep your head up, I am in my first ever relationship, and if it happened to me, it can happen to you
Zachary Ross
Just give up, it hurts much less than being rejected everytime you make a move.
Jeremiah Carter
The best way is on Grindr
Caleb Cook
Thank you user, every time I hear about a robot who made it it makes me feel a bit better, even if the odds are stacked against us.
Cooper Sanchez
stop watching anime you goddamned faggot
Jaxon Kelly
Not really no girl can really tell me shit I haven't heard before, it just sucks being alone I can take rejection since I'm so used to it but I don't know how much longer I can take being alone, I'm gonna be 25 this year and I don't know what it feels like to have a mutual love with someone and that hurts more than rejection user.
Jack Butler
>meet girl on here that lives close
>"date" for a while
>plan to meet up
>bails and meets up with someone else
its not even worth it desu
Brayden Flores
>go out to bar
>not really looking for anything, just want some beer and wings while being around people
>feels okay, relaxed a bit and about to head home, drank moderately and not even buzzed
>50 year old guy asks for and gets the bartender's phone number
>asks something about "that boy"
>Immediately assume it's me since I'm younger and the only other guy there
>he probably asked her if she liked me
>Assume this because of the look of disgust on her face, the vigorous head shaking, and the defiant "no, NO" that left her mouth
>That's the same look every girl gets when any sort of romantic activity with me is even brought up
Wanted to slam my car into the freeway barricade on the way home. I was trying to drink less, but fuck, really? Now I'm heading out to get more so I can pass out at my desk.
David Morris
work, school/uni, cons, groups, hobby groups, specialty classes (dance, cooking, etc), volunteering/charity, church if you're the type, food shopping, tutoring, friend/family groups
public shit, basically. I do stuff that puts me into leadership rolls that require a lot of public speaking, or I talk a lot in classes. not so good at the interpersonal stuff, but the public speaking gives a good enough impression to get my foot in the door.
fuck the bar and online scene. just use those for quickies.