Is being into femdom a sign that either your brain, or your epigenetic profile, has activated some kind of "KEK PATTERN" to make you a useful/expendable servitor for women (and, by extension, healthy males)?
Evidence for this theory: 1. Femdom fetishists are usually not into femdom in isolation, but form their whole personality around being a pathetic little bitch who seriously thinks there are ANY women who like this behavior. 2. Femdom fetishes usually "branch out" from initial forms to other and more complicated forms of submission, for instance going from simple body worship and facesitting to ultra weird shit that doesn't even have anything to do with physical sex. 3. These "branch-out" subfetishes almost ALWAYS include surrendering masculinity or adopting femininity; getting fucked by a fake dick, dressing like a girl, sucking cocks. 4. Over the past ten to fifteen years, femdom as a whole has increasingly transformed from being a "one-on-one" fetish, carried out within individual relationships, into being this weird combination of cuckolding, long-distance low-contact humiliation, etc. 5. Women are not responding to these developments by becoming more dominant. They are responding by being submissive to Chad and dominant toward cucks. 6. Femdom is overlapping and fusing with the more prevalent patterns of nu-males and beta males in our culture, as well as increasing rates of bisexuality.
Result and conclusion: Being into femdom used to mean that you like facesitting and maybe leather. Now it means a slippery slope into faggotry and being a real and actual "cuck" for a sexually normal couple.
Theory: Is femdom an epigenetic mutation of a dying civilization as all its men turn into self-neutering eunuch faggots?
Possible counterpoint: Most men with dominant fetishes are pathetic weak beta males themselves, and tend to be into gay cartoonish over-exaggerated versions of dominance. So there is no corresponding connection between dominance and alphaness.
do you really need to be told that just because someone has 1 fetish, they do not necessarily also have three dozen other fetishes?
you also seem to be very, very worried about this very specific thing. is that because you're worried that you're a cucky little bitch? if you got an erection while reading that last sentence, then congratulations, you are a cucky little bitch.
Jaxon Garcia
>Theory: Is femdom an epigenetic mutation of a dying civilization as all its men turn into self-neutering eunuch faggots? Yes. It's a sad reality.
t. bi guy who likes femdom
Charles Gonzalez
BDSM is general is degenerate
Sebastian Bailey
No, because 1 isn't true 2 isn't true 3 isn't true 4 may be true but idk 5 seems to be false in my experience 6 seems to be true overall, most of your points are false, so the overall theory is false.
Robert Rivera
BDSM is a cancer on normal sexual life
Porn is what ruined everything
Lucas White
I'm into femdom and all the related degeneracy including cuckoldry. I can't help it, it makes my dick hard. Bossy dominant women are just the best.
I've crushed pretty hard on almost any women that had been in a position of authority over me for a significant amount of time at work
You wouldn't know it if you met me though: >well built >not sjw or liberal tard > chilled out but assertive when needed > deep voice > been told I'm a bit intimidating by female and male colleagues >6x6 cock
I've never indulged in any of these fantasies in reality though, but I do desperately want to get into a gentle femdom relationship with my ex-line manager who I still work with but in a different capacity.
And by that I mean I want to eat her out on demand and have her put her feet in my mouth after a long day at work.
Elijah Reyes
interesting post, it's certainly some food for thought. I generally agree with all your points to a large extent and have thought similar things about femdom fetishism/male masochism. One thing to add would be that it's extremely hard to find specific descriptions of male masochistic fantasies in premodern literature anywhere in the world. The first descriptions of these fantasies seem to pop up in poetry and plays around the 16th century (a governor who paid a prostitute to treat him like a dog and spit on him) and later on with beta males like Jean Jacques Rousseau.
I'm into femdom myself and have always been curious about what causes me to be this way and why I have these bizarre desires. I've considered it to be a paraphilic mental disorder for the longest time now
Luke Foster
Have you always been into it? Mine has slowly evolved over last 10 years or so, with the scope of what gets me off expanding.
The latest addition, weirdly, has been feet. I never got why people loved feet so much but then something like 4 years ago it just clicked. Now feet are one of my biggest kinks of all.
Lucas Hernandez
i like femdom and i also want to rape/impregnate every Stacy i see
Luke Bailey
>being a pathetic little bitch who seriously thinks there are ANY women who like this behavior. I'm a woman and I like femdom, just probably not the kind of over the top femdom that most anons are into. It's not that there aren't women into it, it's just that most women who are into it aren't into most men who are into it.
Grayson Torres
What do you view as over the top femdom ?
What do you like and dislike ?
I think the stuff in most porn is trash aimed at utter degenerate. Most anons on here seem to prefer more of a gentle femdom or a female led relationship.
This thread reminds me of probably the most degenerate aspect of femdom, which is 'findom' and being a pay pig. How utterly worthless do you have to be to get off on giving someone money
Benjamin Martinez
>it's just that most women who are into it aren't into most men who are into it. yea because yall want to "dominate" a 6'3" guy like no, that's not how it works. findom sucks idk how anyone can be into that at all, its not even really a fetish.
Ethan Kelly
No, it's a sign that way too many people are addicted to internet porn, which fuels more and more destructive fetishes.
Adrian Anderson
Yes I've always been into it. Some of my earliest sexual fantasies (age 10-11) revolve around the desire to be a servant to a princess and lick her feet, despite no prior exposure to these fantasies I acted out on my foot worship and trampling fantasies with a distant family member (who was around my age) while she was visiting us for easter. I only discovered that other men had these fantasies age 12-13 when I started watching porn
Bentley Edwards
>What do you view as over the top femdom ? I don't want to play the stupid game where I just validate your self-hatred. Most guys into femdom don't really want to serve a woman in power over them, they want someone to tell them they're a piece of shit or that they're worthless or that they're not a real man or whatever.
I prefer women though
Leo Myers
Don't do that idiotic cliche where you think that femdom isn't "real" unless the person actually does whatever you want even if it isn't their kink
Obviously both parties should be pleased and it involves compromise between preferences
Bentley Watson
>Most guys into femdom don't really want to serve a woman in power over them, they want someone to tell them they're a piece of shit or that they're worthless or that they're not a real man or whatever. Thos guys are maledom faggots. They feel inferior AS A MAN and want to use women as a buffer to put them down for their lack of masculinity etc. "You're not a good MAN we'll fuck the real man you pathetic 'male'." Someone like me gets off to true femdom; ALL men are beneath women, there's no such thing as 'alpha' or 'beta' men ALL men must bow down and we exist to serve women as the disposable male sex. Writing that out is kinda weird now that I'm reading it...
Charles Evans
I like femdom. I absolutely hate cucks, sissies, nu-males, and politically motivated fags that plague the communities that are associated with femdom. I'm a shy guy who just wants to be a people pleaser and likes being roughed up, which is why femdom is appealing to me. I don't view it as emasculating because I'm not into the humiliation side of it. I just want someone to tell me what they want and I'll do it with some teasing and some rough shit. It sure as hell isn't easy being into this because the pool of women who are "dominant" is saturated with: 1) paywhores and findommes who just want to leech your money like the garden variety whores they are 2) sjw/political femdoms who are into the fetish because they are towing a progressive line or just wanna sip on male tears and other garbage 3) older people who are at the point where they are just trying to fuck as much as possible before they get old enough for their kids to put them in a nursing home 4) sociopaths who get their kicks from manipulating people and pushing the bar as far as possible
Jaxon Stewart
>I don't want to play the stupid game where I just validate your self-hatred. Most guys into femdom don't really want to serve a woman in power over them, they want someone to tell them they're a piece of shit or that they're worthless or that they're not a real man or whatever.
Yeah that's exactly what I meant by femdom porn being degeneate.
For me it's more like 'her pleasure is my pleasure' and I want to devote my efforts towards her satisfaction, makingn her feel great and whatever else she wants.
Obviously there's back and forth though, things like teasing and denial in the bedroom, orgasm control etc would be all really hot to experience.
Cooper Turner
>I prefer women though then why not be in a lesbian relationship with a small cute sub guy to serve you both?
Jaxon James
I have no idea why you jumped to that conclusion. A femdom relationships works best when you love and care for and consider each other's feelings and needs, same as any relationship. It's about the dynamic.
Jose Smith
She's probably into dominating other women, not dudes
Chase Cooper
there can be both though
Jonathan Jackson
My biggest fantasy is taking a shy qt and over time elevating her confidence in herself as a woman and bringing out her dominant side. Elevating her above my level and thus flipping her from being naturally submissive to me to begin naturally dominant over me.
Although this is unlikely to ever happen. My best shot is probably with women who are already domineering and bossy
Samuel Ortiz
>For me it's more like 'her pleasure is my pleasure' and I want to devote my efforts towards her satisfaction, makingn her feel great and whatever else she wants. >Obviously there's back and forth though, things like teasing and denial in the bedroom, orgasm control etc would be all really hot to experience. Same, dude.
Too bad it's lumped in with cuck and faggot shit.
Juan Howard
yea it's really annoying that everyone automatically assumes sub men must be cucks. I hate cuckoldry.
Sebastian Walker
I like femdom (mostly feet stuff) but in vanilla I like being on top. Being dom is hot as well but I can only get off to femdom nothing else does it for me. What the fuck am I doing.
Thomas Rodriguez
I think in reality you'll be far more likely to find women who would explore femdom than cuckoldry.
I mean I bet you can get almost any woman to participate into some dominant play. The difficulty is finding someone who actually wants to be dominant by default, and not play a little from time to time.
Easton Clark
It's highly unlikely though
Hudson Wood
I think there's something to this OP, not even trolling or playing along
When I exercise more, eat right and sleep more, I have more sexually aggressive and dominant thoughts about women, I think both less romantically and fantasize less about women fucking me cowgirl, and have more niggerlike thoughts about pushing women down and fucking them doggystyle, I also fantasize less about how women would react to sex and more about the shape of their asses or how my erect penis would look and feel TO ME going inside their pussy or ass
I also fantasize more about women sucking my dick when I'm feeling healthy and sexually charged than I do when stressed or otherwise less fit
Cooper Scott
>being a pathetic little bitch who seriously thinks there are ANY women who like this behavior. But there are?
I've been doing femdom stuff with a girl for like a year at this point and she can't get enough of me. Not a penny out of my wallet.
Teach me your ways user! I must achieve this bliss too somehow
Adam King
>Femdom fetishes usually "branch out" from initial forms to other and more complicated forms of submission, for instance going from simple body worship and facesitting to ultra weird shit that doesn't even have anything to do with physical sex it's kinda true i used to only imagine being tied up and made to pleasure her but now i 'm into more weird and degrading shit like eating food off the soles of her shoes etc
Robert Martinez
>I prefer women though why did you even bother making a post to voice your opinion like that would count for something get out
Brandon Mitchell
I enjoy femdom both in a sexual and relationship aspect (I am a male).
The sexual aspect is obvious - relationship wise I do not like to be the one to have the final say most times, I find it attractive AF when the woman leads. But when it comes to something that I seriously disagree with, it usually kicks my testosterone in and I am alpha for a few minutes. That is my experience anyway, just sharing.
Jason Perry
I just want to eat pussy after coming home from a long day at work, have her tell me that I'm a good boy, get a head pat, and fall asleep in her chest listening to her heartbeat. No one cares what you want, OP. Its probably something boring like getting your dick sucked and going to watch TV after she finishes.
Leo Anderson
I'm sorry user but honestly it just feels like I lucked out, I don't know what tips I can offer. She's a rather unique individual and I happened to find her online when the competition was subpar. But do have hope that girls of her taste exist.
My hint is to try and weasel your way into Fujoshi communities. A lot of these girls have major penis envy and want to dom twink looking guys.
Jack Perez
Damn. Thats a shame but I'll keep an eye out for opportunities.
I don't look anything like a twink. I'm fairly hairy, 5ft10, 220lbs dude who powerlifts.
Christopher Wilson
>tfw strongfat teddybear mode and no desperate fujoshi wants to dom me I just wanna be a good boy
Wyatt Young
Teddybro unity
Nathaniel Collins
>Theory: Is femdom an epigenetic mutation of a dying civilization as all its men turn into self-neutering eunuch faggots?
I don't see how that effects civilization in a negative way. Only the top 10% of the male population is needed. If anything, taking betas out of the gene pool by pairing them with normal couples actually helps the civilization genetically. Every couple should have a submissive sissy maid boi, everyone wins, so why not?
Alexander Flores
nah, we could just kill 80% of the males and keep the other 10% as sperm milkers, no need for "normal" couples at all. Women will just be lesbians and have small man servants
Ethan Parker
>tfw lonely beta male and don't even think this deal is all that bad
Owen Wilson
I meant 90% of the males obviously
Gavin Peterson
I want to be dominated by an Asian girl (male)
Jason James
No I want a femdom gf more than anything, but I only want her to be with me if she shows any interest in being with other men whatsoever than it would be over, but I also know that's impossible for women in general into femdom or not so I haven't even bothered trying to find one, women are all unfaithful and the modern world protects them instead of heavily penalizing them like it did in the past to curb that behavior
Josiah Carter
if you consider these as evidence I am genuinely curious about your level of education
Jaxon Scott
t. big fat virgin
Anthony Martin
If you're with modern women you're a cuck virgin shaming just shows how deluded you truly are that you would be proud to fuck used goods
Mason Miller
You need to factor in bad parenting, porn, social media and other recent happenings to determine if it's a built-in mechanism or some glitch in the system.
Never understood how a man could put himself under a woman. Every personal anecdote demonstrates women have no truth or virtue in them. You know the shit civilization was built upon. It's all solipsist rationalizations until a man straightens her out.
Owen Nguyen
>tfw bedwetter >tfw no femdom gf to tell I'm a good boy even though I wake up wet
Jacob Russell
>virgin shaming just shows how deluded you truly are *tips*
Imagine turning down women because you don't want to be one of her many mistakes. Your chimp brain is too grateful for sexual validation to even consider it.
There's plenty of dough-faced cucks in relationships. I'm taking the high road here.
Juan Cruz
>Imagine turning down women I'm sure you do buddy >There's plenty of dough-faced cucks in relationships Ahh, so the only way not to be a cuck is to be an incel. At last i truly see...
