Every day I see a story, here or elsewhere, where everyone has an encounter with the same archetypal girl, and it seems everywhere I go online someone else mentions a similar story, and having fallen victim to it before, I have autistically devoted myself to finding a common root to this, and I want to make a comprehensive list of red flags that you should be aware of so that people can stop falling for this. This isn't some "REEE 3DPG ROASTIES" shitpost, this comes from an actual personal need on my end, and legitimate concern I have for others. Not all of these are neccessary for an individual to be dangerous, and there are certainly more than what I'm about to list here. These are what I find to be the most common aspects of these cases and not every one of these occurred in any story I have seen, including my own.
Words of warning about those who prey on the vulnerable
These are red flags to take note of before or right when you make contact with someone like this
>the girl in question is generally unliked by a large amount of people
>the girl in question is obsessed with cute things, this can be anything from the way they dress to the way they act
Particular things to take note of are if they look put of place all the time. The usual case is a lolita or anime-like fashion sense.
>they have a lot of childish possessions, as in literal children's toys, merchandiae, stuffed animals etc.
>they only refer to their family negatively
>they start talking to you out of nowhere and act seemingly way too nice, this one should be an immediate red flag if you yourself are unattractive/overweight/socially inept and they latch on to any one of these as if it makes you "charming" or "different"
>their voice is "light and airy", they sound way too passive and their voice immediately comes off as an act
They will commit to this fake voice, but it always is an act. This one is the one trait that has happened in almost all of these cases.
>they are currently in, or just got out of, a relationship with someone physically superior to you in some way
These are things you should be aware of during regular communication
>they divulge suicidal tendencies or mental illness early on, and insist it isn't a big deal.
This is their vice and they will always use it as an excuse when convienent. In my personal case it was sociopathy. She would insist that "labels meant nothing" but would say "it's because I'm a sociopath, you can't blame me" when it was convienent
>they make petty remarks about a lot of people
If these remarks about their other "friends", take that as an immediate sign to fucking run, as well as these next two
>they tell you their previous or current relationship either ended or won't last because of abuse/neglect/rape
>they tell you about other friends like you
>they are on some kind of dating/hook up platform, usually tinder, as a "joke"
>they get mad if you do not immediately reply but they will constantly ignore/not reply to your messages
>they go on and on about how you have "a similar sense of humor" or "likemindedness"
>they have actual murderous fantasies
>they start overtly sexual or flirtatious conversations and act like it wasn't either at any time
>they tell you that they love you within a week or less
>they insist they are never wrong and pride you on not talking back to them
Now assuming you're past or at the point of all of those and you still haven't ran, let me make this very clear. Regardless of whether you two actually end up in a relationship or not, you will become the next abusive/neglectful/rapist friend/boyfriend that she will tell your inevitable replacement about. When they're tired of your attention you will get phased out eventually, or they will become maniacally obsessed with your attention, becoming suffocating and seemingly inescapable. Never, and I repeat NEVER, move in with one of these people, buy anything for one of these people or let yourself be trapped by one of these people. You'll just end up as another Jow Forums screencap and continue to fuel their fucking cycle. This is an actual fucking subclass of women at this point and it is actually ridiculous that so many of us keep falling for it.
>not being able to handle a woman
pathetic
this is a great list. i have had experiences than confirm much of what you detailed. good job, user.
keep fighting the good fight
The point is that they target those who can't handle a woman, it's always those who have never talked to one or don't have a clue how to talk to one
A mentally instable or abusive gf
Is better than no gf, especially if it is irl and you get to fuck her
more like people that are dangerously deluded
they wont come here and theres no hope for them anyway. if you can be manipulated just by looks and sweet words, if that just blocks out your thinking, your lost
this is how I feel right now. I'd rather eat dumpster garbage than starve
That's what I thought too until it happened to me. It's not worth it in the end when all you feel afterwards is seething anger and regret. Any time I think of my own situation it actually makes my fucking blood boil looking back on the 3 years I blew on a synthetic person whose entire being was a facade
original bump so others can get a good look at this
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>getting ass blasted by a roastie so badly you make a guide on how to prevent from getting ass blasted by roasties
Its your fault for being too emotional, and stupid
>Its your fault for being too emotional, and stupid
And you probably never even had a gf
>trusting women
This was your first mistake
>"""""depression"""""
>has liberal beliefs, liberal views = whore women who are good for sex only
>short hair
>dyed hair
>insecurity
>piercings
We all know the signs to avoid. Everyone here has almost dedicated their lives to physiology and philosophy. The real danger is that everyone here wants to believe. Even your own post seem to suggest you still have hope of finding a decent woman. I can tell you right now, you're going to get sucked back in again and you're going to be purposefully ignorant and irrational. Screencap this post. Look at it in your next break up.
*psychology orginallallailililililalalalailial
If you get sex who cares?
Thats were youre wrong my friend. I indulge in the fleshy skin of the female body, and quench whatever sociable desire my mind craves when I feel like it. If the partner Im dancing tango with cant satisfy my need then I simply replace her with another.
Infatuation masquerade with love is for beta boys. Love is temporary amd easily interchangeable
>I have autistically devoted myself to finding a common root to this
It's being manipulative. That's what you're describing here. Why they are that way is anyone guess, but i'm guessing they're just inherently manipulative.
Love is temporary, but its usually more temporary on the woman's side.
holy shit user I think you just saved me. I was trying to ignore it but you kind of snapped me out of it
The only reason why you'd say this is because you don't have experience in this domain. To you, sex might be so much of a big deal that you think it holds a relationship like cement, but in the vast majority of cases, sex is not the be all of relationships and many relationships fall apart because of conflict of ideas, ideals and projects even if the sex is good.
Also, sex is a powerful tool of manipulation and sex addicted people are easy prey for malicious people who intend to ruin your life.
I don't really expect you to understand since you clearly hold sex on a very high pedestal, but reality dictates otherwise.
You have 0 idea what you're asking, but be my guest and be the next pathetic sex starved fag who ends up on a sex offender registry because "at least you got laid." There is never enough of these stories to entertain me.
You're probably the roastie in question.
>This is an actual fucking subclass of women at this point and it is actually ridiculous that so many of us keep falling for it.
OK so I started reading this thread at the first post thinking it was complete and utter schizophrenic insanity, then I read all the way to this post and I realized that you're actually right.
I've specifically met two women like this in my life, one of whom I dated the other of whom I almost did.
The one who I almost dated, btw, she tried to get a friend of mine to be her BF. When he said no she launched a brutal campaign of gossip against him. He lost many friends. And she had all the signs too, like for example, she used the fake cutesy baby talk voice and inflated her cuteness by posting pics of herself with cute animals. Oh and she also had the 654268 stories of abusive BFs.
Where do these women come from in your opinion? What is their psychology?
Usually abusive or restrictive families. This is the common link I noticed in all of them.
Holy shit. I never though about this before but all of these bar a few are a perfect description of my ex gf , she was nuts and nearly ruined my life twice
You're doing a good service here, I had the misfortune of getting involved with one of these types and you are exactly right. Never dated her thank god but we were "close friends" for years and it took a severe toll on my mental health, I ended up getting dependent on heroin a couple times throughout and now I'm a fucking alcoholic
Stay away from these people anons or you will fucking regret it
>Usually abusive or restrictive families
this matches up with my experience as well
Great thread OP, was about to ask about this. Faggotry incoming, prepare for cringe
I met a girl from here and we exchanged discords. Within the first 2 days I jokingly asked her pic related and this was her response. We have not been lewd, thank god, and she shows no signs of instigating, but we say ily and gay shit like that a lot. She has never brought up mental illness, but she did once mention in passing how shit her life is and generally acts really shy and overly friendly. I really like her (or at least what she seems to be at face value), but i am not sure what im seeing is actually whats happening. I have my suspicions. What would you recommend.
Stop, that's what I reccomend. Meeting a "girl" through r9k isn't a good idea to begin with
show us more texts
This. Fembots are the male equivalent of a robot and while many here don't mean harm and have a good nature, they are not here for healthy reasons so thread carefully when dealing with people with a negative pessimistic outlook and troubled upbringing. I'd say the constant gossiping and negativity is the strongest red flag amongst them all because it's usually a sign that these people can't have hope for any form of happiness and are just looking for an emotional dumpster in which they can vomit their excess anxiety and stress. Sa8d dumpster usually taking the form of well-meaning, but naive and insecure guys who are likely to become emotionally dependant.
I'm a girl who has these two qualities in great abundance:
>they start talking to you out of nowhere and act seemingly way too nice,
>they start overtly sexual or flirtatious conversations
But I completely agree with this:
>I'd say the constant gossiping and negativity is the strongest red flag amongst them all because it's usually a sign that these people can't have hope for any form of happiness and are just looking for an emotional dumpster in which they can vomit their excess anxiety and stress
Good people hardly every take any interest in pointing out others flaws, but they talk about ideas and philosophies on greater scales instead. It's more of a indicator of a small mind but small minds are almost always toxic.
Cluster B personality disorders. Histrionic, narcissistic, borderline, etc.
>outright telling you she's a sociopath
why would you continue to talk to her in this situation
>not having kiling fantasies
pleb
here, update
So I added someone she sent me a screenshot of a convo with, and I asked the guy if she had been flirting with him too. The guy said she hadnt, but he tried to hit on her and she had told him she had already found someone (me) . I think im in the clear
good thread. hard truth itt