>that crippling fear of rejection
That crippling fear of rejection
Getting ghosted is worse than rejection. Even if she says yes, it could still be a "No"
>tfw can’t get hard because too anxious because not laid for such a long time
>tfw Chad helps me get so many bitch that i don't care about rejection
>get rejected or ghosted
>go hit a new PR that day
>dont give a shit anymore
HOES N TRICKS
>tfw virgin that rejected 3 girls openly approaching him
Every time you dont talk to a girl out of fear you're pretty much rejecting yourself.
I couldn't tell if this girl in my class was looking at me in class a few days ago. We made eye contact, but it happened when a guy in the middle of the class was talking so I figured it may have just been cause of that
But yesterday she was definitely looking at me. I was gonna talk to her, but the problem is after class she always puts her headphones in and even if I talk to her idk what to say
Wir sind alleine
>she forgot about you already
only pain can give us gains
I don't get afraid of rejection, but after my ex left me I've become a retard. I used to chat with anyone, now all that goes through my mind is "what the fuck do I say?" I can't create or hold a conversation anymore.
why did you let her take your confidence
No, this assumes that randomly asking girls out has no social repercussions. You'll very soon become "that guy" and no one will want anything to do with you.
don't ask girls in your own social circles
>work in sales
>get rejected every day
>have no problem with getting rejected
>still can’t approach a woman in a non work setting
I literally have not approached a girl and opened up a conversation since I was in the 8th grade
What’s wrong with me?
you fear the unknown
>tfw was rejected so many times I became numb to it
Damn.
just be yourself
How can one thread have so many?
Lmao why are you trying to pick up at work you nonce
Nice quints
Thing is as a kid I approached a lot of girls and even had girlfriends. Then around the 8th grade my personality changed and I became autistic. I think I developed autism/wall within myself to block all the blows of getting rejected all the time. I feel exhausted everyday and have no energy. As a kid I was wild energetic little fucker. Now the only way I can return to my pre 8th grade self is with alcohol or 4/20
perhaps the chemicals and the grind take your energy
I had more energy after I quit weed
I had no energy before the weed and alcohol
I have a friendzone fetish. I fell in love with a girl who got off sexually to rejecting betas. I hope she didn’t fuck me up for life boys.
do you lift
She would tease me and made me believe that she was interested in me, then when I asked her out she rejected me harshly then had sex with my “best friend” right after
I swim. But the effects only last for a few hours for me
Just came into this thread to let everyone know I am making it, and you can too. tfw friends with benefits mang
But it’s complicated. She’s a co-worker of mine
this is unhealthy
please get out of that situation
I need to ask her out just so the thought will stop torturing me every waking moment. I almost hope she rejects me, then no further effort is required
There comes a point where rejection cannot make your life any worse than it already is. That is how low you have to sink into misery, friend
there must be something that can be done
Have you tried religion/mediation
>trained myself on tinder to accept rejection
moved into clubs where i'd cold approach girls >dancing like a dickhead to get rejected
>eventually start talking to random people in the street
>managed to approach a girl at the library and we've been going out for 2 years
stop being a vagina user
When I was with her I was quite happy speaking to people. For the last year I got out of the habit of going out, put on weight, I really just hit a downward spiral.
I don't know how to feel good about me anymore. I'm hoping working out hard will help but I just don't fucking know anymore.
wake up at the same time every day