Is having a gf even worth it?

>I'm afraid that when I get a serious girlfriend if I will get miserable
If that happens just break up with her and go back to how you like things. Don't be afraid to try it out though. They can be time-consuming, however.

Thanks man I'll take your advice

It may not but you should keep up your social skills otherwise you'll end up socially retarded. At that point, whether a gf is worth it will be the least of your problems.

>toss away your prime years fucking sloots
>complain that all women are sloots or taken
>complain that women do the same thing

Search for what makes you happy and fulfilled in life. Have high standards. Find a good woman who reflects that. The right girl will come when you've sorted yourself to your most primal and pure essence. Take care of her and she will reciprocate. You will get what you put in.

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You are stuck here forever m8 and the people here are your only friends...

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>tfw got a GF
>She was clingy af, got in the way of work, school, lifting, etc, but it was my first GF so I enabled her clingy tendencies by agreeing to whatever she said about our future, marriage, kids, etc
>6 months in and idk how to break up with her without her an heroing
>Also developed love for her
>Literally can't stay with her because of work and school oppurtunities I would be an idiot to turn down across the country and I don't want to be a long distance cuck

Dating's a jewish meme. Ideally you'd meet eachothers families then marry and breed. But these days you can't even afford your own home so you're fucked anyway.

Only if you plan to marry her.

>have to sleep in uncomfortable positions
>have to put up with irrational bullshit and arguments
>greatly reduced freedom

>but you get sex

I guess I’d you care about societal expectations and having a partner getting married whatever. I find it boring and a lot of work plus i don’t even like sex anymore. My whole goal in life now is to make some money and live a semi neet life off passive income

This. I’ve been with someone for the past 5 months and honestly having experienced life with and without a gf, I’m just not the type. I much prefer being left alone. I can at least make that choice now with the full understanding that I’ll be a bachelor forever. It feels good knowing your family/friends know you’re not gay or a pedophile also.

When i has gf i wanna be single >:(
When i be single i wanna gf :(

Fucking this

Men don't lose value as their partner count goes up like women do

this right here, wait until you're 25+ before you take it serious, people get busy and tie the knot before 24 and then they divorce in a few years because they're stupid and poor and just wanted to fuck

DUMP

Flexed my tricep jokingly while mine was rubbing my arm and she said "don't get too bulked up, I don't like that"
What did she mean by this?

Where do you even find a girl that's "gf material"?

Yes, yes it is, but you have to be careful who you choose.

No.

Solid 7 year relationship here.

Just no.

They're everywhere but they're the ones that aren't throwing themselves at you, because if they were they'd be sluts by default

She's afraid you'll leave humanity behind

>want thickfu white gf
>want thinfu hapa gf
>want them both
>can’t get either

Why do I even bother being human.

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It's not the answer to all of life's problems like some of you think it is, but it can be a healthy enhancement to your life if you're not an obsessed beta.

This means your GF is low test and estrogen.

Mine encourages my bulking, even encouraging me to eat more. She should want a thicc robust man.

>have to sleep in uncomfortable positions
this
>have to put up with irrational bullshit and arguments
this
>greatly reduced freedom
this
>but you get sex
not for long

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She's a gains goblin that wants you to get a dad bod

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I think Its worth it, but you need to find a good one to be worth it. A bad relationship is worse than being single.

The only complaint I have is that with women everything seems so emotional and a huge deal

Ok but then you have to marry a woman much younger than you. Waiting only works if you aren't a fucking retarded (((modern man))) that thinks he can build a family with a bitch who has hit the wall.

That's how things worked for most of history

I sleep infinitely better when I'm next to someone. I don't know what it is but it's probably something to do with their warmth and the regularity of their breathing. You sleep worse?

>You sleep worse?
When they want to spoon all night, yeah.

>is having a gf worth it?
No, but having a wife and children is

Spooning is comfy af you faggot

W-WHERE MY INTJ BRAHS AT

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Depends. A good partner can help build you up, and you can help build her up, to levels that would be more difficult by yourself. A bad partner can really bring you down, though

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Yeah for a few hours sure. But all night every night? Fuck that. I am not a manlet so I need to stretch for good sleep.

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>start to really like a girl
>want to date her
>she says that every time she gets into a serious relationship she wakes up one morning and realizes that she never loved the guy
>Doesn't even want to bother with me

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God I wish that were me

>tfw no gf to wrestle then kiss then fugg

facts

I roll around a ton and usually spread all my limbs around. I don't know if it's my grandma's RLS coming back for vengeance or if I just have the Jimmy legs, but I need a lot of free space to sleep well. I'm 6'2 and sleep diagonally on my queen.

Really depends on who you are. I’ve never wanted one, all I want is puss

She is worried you are going to become more attractive and leave her.

>27 year old virgin
>after all these years of fapping i dont really care about sex anymore
>all i ever wanted was a loving relationship with a woman who cares about me

this world wasnt made for me, i need to die as soon as possible

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she knows a fatcep when she sees one, time to cut fatty.

Trips of truth. My ex was worried I'd leave her for some cardio bunny.

I'm almost at 24, but pretty much same. Anime is starting to rot my brain though setting my expectations to unrealistic levels and also increasing the disappointment. No end in site either!

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Just get a dog

and fuck the dog?

Find a weeb girl. I met a girl at a jazz festival and started dating we're still together four years later. She's a koreaboo but she's loyal and faithful and has an insatiable sexual appetite. Her circle of girlfriends are all cute black NEETs too. They have no social skills and talk about how they wish guy would talk to them. Go to non-degenerate events and ask a cute girl for her number.

Just lol at not fycking random whores

>Go to non-degenerate events

Suggestions? I don't go out much and am basically introverted and socially retarded. Basically gym and uni are only times I go out.

If you are at uni, just join some club or intramural sport.

Any other suggestions? I'm thinking maybe an online dating site where it matches based on interests/ hobbies or something. All I want is a girl I can talk to about things like anime with that also doesn't drink or smoke and isn't a total whore. Honestly, is that a lot to ask for? I don't even know.

maybe you shouldnt be such a judgmental asshole. yes im sure fit will greentext me for this and call me a roastie whore, but believe me, being judgmental with girls will not win you any favors with them. maybe you want a girl who isnt a whore who drinks and smokes, but if you're like that with that stuff, im sure youll judge even an anime girl on something

if you just want a weeb girl, go to anime conventions

>Surprisingly large amount of girls (they love dressing up). CGL is most active female board.
>easy to socialize with people because you have common interests
>great way to show off gains
>great hobby with unlimited creative potential

There are lots of cons every year, super fucking fun desu.

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*shrugs* maybe. Should a partner not hold similar values to me? I think similarly of guys who drink, smoke, and fuck all the time, I just don't care as much because I don't want them as partners. I don't know why you are so ticked over this.

Thanks for the suggestion. Is there like a site that keeps track of those in your area or similar?

Just google "(city name) anime convention" and you'll see a couple pop up. There are usually a couple major ones and couple smaller ones in most large cities. On /cgl/, you could ask in QTDDTOT.

Your city may be on here.
animecons.com/events/calendar.shtml/000018018

Thanks user.

I should add to this for , when I say don't be a whore, I don't mean never had sex or the like. Just don't be the type who has had a bunch of sexual partners before. I'm not going to turn someone down because they have had sex before. Just don't be a whore.

Sounds like every relationship I've ever been in.
Trust me user you're better off this way

t. roastie

It’s called having a standard. Why would anyone lower the bar 6 feet under for you, just because you have a pussy? While an alcoholic whore of a girlfriend would be fun in bed, there’s no way that’s a relationship longer than 2 weeks.
Also
>tits or gtfo

tits or gtfo

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This is my situation right now
>Dont even want to sleep with me because I’ll get attached
>Implying im not already attached

are you me?

>have no moderate opinion or feeling in me
>go hard or go home mentality
>want to either do nothing or do it fast as possible
>hate stretching out work
>want to either stay in one place or run
>hate walking
>want to be either alone or with soulmate wife 24/7
>hate the dating game
>life doesn't work this way

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Are you also me?

no. women are unironically dumb as shit

This is an absolutely prime feel, finishing a great meal and a couple of drinks so she's energetic and wants to play fight, then wrestling on the sofa and floor before you pick her up and carry her to bed where she's desperate to fuck. Seems pretty worth it to me

No.
No dear god no.
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnoooooooooooooooooooooo.

cringe

You aint used to it yet is all

Unless youre a teenager, you should be looking for a wife, not a girlfriend

INTJ-A +High functioning Autism right here. Fortunately I'm transitioning to full sociopath mode so I can actually have some relationships even if I'm faking half of it.

Go reverse psychology on her ass and act beta enough that she breaks up with you on her own

We're all around you fren
>1st time on Jow Forums
>pls no bully

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this is why porn and fapping has to be dropped asap

t. day 5 user

yes.
if you think it isn't worth it is because you haven't found a good gf for you yet.

she wont an hero, shes a woman

GAINS GOBLIN ALERT

depends on the gf

I’m not your friend though

>ex gf jumps on me
>starts wrestling and tickeling me
>put her into submission and start kissing puss through her thong while tickeling her
>she starts laughing and struggleing
>accidentally kicks me in the face
>for a split second mad as fuck
>punch her in the leg as hard as i can
>she cries
>"sorry i was trying to slap your ass"

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Most likely what she considers "too bulky" is mass monster bodybuilder mode. The majority of normies think that if a natty lifts long enough they'll magically turn into Big Lenny.
Keep lifting. Either she likes it, in which case great, or she doesn't, in which case you've dodged a bullet.

All of of those depend entirely on the girl. Stop dating immature sloots.
>but all grills are immature sloots!!
Many, yes. Not all.

If you're a klv it's better than nothing. If you're drowning in pussy ignore her.

Many unis have anime societies or similar. If not they'll almost certainly have a society that's sufficiently nerdy that you'll likely find a weeb gf. Just don't go in expecting to find girls, because they can smell desperation.

>apparently i didn't kiss her for long enough when dropping her back home the other day
>she gets insecure we didn't make out today
She thought I was trying some kinda pua game strat, gf's are crazy mon'amie. Nice, but crazy.

There is any hope for neurotic guys to be happy with a girl? This is my the biggest flaw. Second I am not good provider/beta guy.

In my experience?
Not really no.

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