How can I cum faster during sex?
I was always worried about cumming too fast during sex, but now that I'm getting laid regularly, my issue is I can't cum. At all. I get hard but then can just keep going and going, without cumming.
The girl I'm with actually cried last night because she thinks she's unattractive now or something. It's fucking everything up.
I rarely masturbate. Are there any supplements I can take that would make me orgasm quickly or give me premature ejaculation?
i have the same problem sometimes dude, i think its just anxiety
choke her, spit in her face and fuck her ass without consent etc. if you want to cum faster
have her stick her finger in your asshole while doming you up.
I know it might sound weird, but you clearly have advanced beyond regular vanilla sex
she sounds completely retarded if she thinks you can stay hard for an ugly girl. marry her immediately
Do you watch porn?
Quit porn and do nofap. It's that easy
Not much. Maybe once a week, but I've stopped now.
the pornographic jew claims another victim
take ZMA for more cum, sleep well and lift
if this fails start doing fetish shit
Wew lad that titcow.
I'd bust in that too quick.
Try not touching your dick for seven days and get back at it with your girl.
On my seventh day of no-fap I find that I bust really quick on round 1 but then all subsequent rounds I'm in control.
The conventional way is for her to blow you first, bust a nut, then get to business.
this. but with consent. do to her what really floats your boat, if she's not into it you gotta find someone that is.
ALWAYS with consent
also stop porn
>supplements
Nope, you just maintain healthy lifestyle and sometimes you come and sometimes you don't, that's just the way shit works. The older you get, the less likely you are to blow on command. Girls with no self esteem suck because they blame themselves so either spend forever complimenting her because she's a retard or just find a total slut who's been around enough to know not all men splooge every single time.
Start fucking girls under 18. They are way tighter and the smell of their pheromones will make you cum inside a minute.
He says he doesnt jerk off you retard
You can use condoms and fake an orgasm. I’ve done it before when I can’t finish on round 2 or 3 but want the sex to end without hurting the girls feelings.
jej this
zinc
>wear condom
>can last 20-30 minutes easily, sometimes even have same problem as OP
>no condom
>cant last more than 2 minutes
how do I fix this? its extremely embarrassing. is there anything besides kegels, because i cant figure out how to do them. Is this because I dont fap that much?
It is common in other cultures to come as fast as possible. For example Japs, the dick size is not important, it's how many times you can blow during a sex session as a test of your manly fertility. So don't fuck with anything and just try and come twice.
Stop fucking ugly girls.
I have the same issue as you. I found that the prone bone position works pretty well. Keep your legs spread outside of her, while she keeps her legs together.
It also helps to wipe off some of the wetness from the vag once in a while to get more friction.
You should also not masturbate or change the way you masturbate. I changed my masturbation to be extremely light. Just take your time and be patient and just have a very light grip, focus on friction over massaging.
thats the only thing that works actually. round two (sometimes) and three im good to go, but I still dont wanna bust in 45 seconds man baka
I had a fwb for a while that I couldn't cum with, initially. Our first time she gave a terrible blowjob and a sad handjob, though. Same thing happened; she never cried but she thought she wasn't attractive. I don't know how long you've known the girl, but after getting to know her better, I was able to cum. I guess I just got more comfortable with her.
stop masturbating and stop looking at porn...like right now. be honest with the girl
if she's cool she'll work with you
my ex and i had to deal with this and it sucks but i just had to keep ensuring her that i enjoyed the intimacy of sex and still derived pleasure even though i didn't always cum
pretty soon you'll be busting fat nuts in her op
I feel the same way. I never cum with a girl the first time. We have to have sex several times before I cum, but after that I cum every time.
i have this problem even though i have a fuckbuddy who lets me do whatever i want with her body. i usually end up jerking off and then sticking it in her ass or pussy or mouth or whatever.
now i have tried actually asking women out IRL and having healthy relationships but the results are inconclusive. at least i have the gym...
Just pretend to cum and if she asks to see the jizz, spread mayo on your hand and show her, it works 100% of the time I promise
Yeah, luckily my next fwb soon after her was different. We were both drunk as fuck and obviously I had whiskey dick so I couldn't cum. Next time I did though. That was an easy way out of that one.
How do you explain that to a girl - that you don't typically cum with a girl the first time? Might be meeting someone this week and I'm curious.
I've had the problem as well user, it started just as you said with me as well.
Choking my gf and actually getting "mad" at her to power fuck the shit out of her helps a lot, I take out my frustrations in fucking her hard.
Also user, check out if you're "flexing" that muscle between your balls and anus, it's what I did to help not cumming, and now I do it without noticing, so I'm keeping myself from climaxing by default
Don't watch any porn, at all, ever.
This is a psychological issue. You can stay hard, but your brain just isn't giving yourself "permission" to nut.
It's OK, it's totally fixable, and frankly it's much better than coming too fast or not being able to get hard.
What you have to do is let go of your neediness around orgasm. Focus on the moment-to-moment experience, the sights and sounds. Try to enjoy it as much as possible. I know this is easier said than done, but it's how you will beat this.
I have the opposite problem. Literally cum in less than 30 seconds. But I'm gay and love to suck dick so it's not a problem lol
get a tight cock ring and find a grinder angle if you know what I mean, it should feel like each thrust almost hurts if you're smashing the g-spot right, get real low so your perenium is nearly gliding along the bed as you thrust forwards with strong pelvic tilt, clench your kegel
Hahaha that’s pretty gay haha
based faggot poster
how are you holding on to a bonedog after nutting? I've never succeeded, duck just deflates immediately.
Lecithin makes me cum faster. I actually had to stop because I couldn't enjoy a good wank session.
I'll take the left all day long. Nice mogg
you are putting too much pressure on yourself. you just need to adjust after more and more times having sex you will cum easier and easier until you wish you could fuck as long, i went through the same thing. as for the girls mental state yeah that can happen oh fucking well, nothing you can do, you cant convince a woman of anything other than what she already thinks when it comes to things like that.
Sometimes it stays, most times I wait five minutes.
The common refractory period amongst men is fifteen minutes but I'm still young enough to only need 5.
I call doggy style "old faithful" because I cum easiest with it.
haHA gay!
just relax, and breath.
don't over masturbate, and even go without a few days if you know you're gonna get laid.
If after this you still can't cum i'm afraid you might be a homosexual.
Not that its a bad thing, find what you can cum in and cum in it, but dont be such a faggot here ok?
>didn't even had sex with first gf
>couldn't get hard with second
>couldn't cum with third
WHEN WILL THIS END?
That sounds rather homosexual.
If the pattern continues, probably the 4th.
Must be nice man, my libido is nothing so when i want sex maybe once a week that bone ain't coming back.
Fuck you, OP. The longest I've ever lasted is 1.5min, and that was with my Gf 's help controlling my breathing and heart rate. It's not unusual for me to bust before penetration, I'd kill to have your problem.
You say that only because you don't know I'm a 24 yo with his v-card.
Recovery from 'batin is easy.
I was that way with my first/only girlfriend. I've been doing nofap to remedy it but i'm not sure if thats the solution. it's probably anxiety or something. I'm going to start dating another girl now and I hope I don't have that problem again
>consent
My problem is that I can't nut to anything except my imagination, no matter with who I am in bed.
So I basically just use my partner as a fleshlight, roll my eyes off and have a fap session.
I rarely cum during intercourse except if I'm drunk and horny as fuark (e.g. back from a party with plenty of hoes visual stimulation), most of the times the girl has to end it with a long handjob. And sometimes if I'm out of stimulating mental imagery, I can't cum at all.
It sucks.
I blame pron and deathgrip.
>For example Japs, the dick size is not important
>smallest dicks in the world after koreans and chinese
>i-it's not important
My sides
Hey bruv, I’ve had the same problem and it’s hit or miss.
I’ve learned to enjoy it. That’s the main thing. As much as it sucks getting to 90% of the way to cumming and not.
If you aren’t worried about it they won’t be and if it’s a regular thing you’ll end up fucking more because she will want you to cum too.
No fap helped me. But I cum faster than I’d like lately.
Eating healthier has helped. I’m going to be trying that cum supplement stack that gets posted here every now and then.
Changing how I fuck helped. From positions to pace.
tell her to suck your dick natty style and stick her thumb up your bum
Bro just shoot sperm out your dick wtf lol
Fuck off schlomo.
user, stay away from degenerate fetish shit.
if that chick on the right was sucking in any harder she would be shitting herself
>natty style
Kek
How do I last longer than 1 minute?
I had the same issue with my girlfriend once we started. Keep at it, you will eventually come in a reasonable amount of time with practice. You might want to switch positions and figure out which is best for you.
I actually cum more readily from boobjob than vaginal, anal, hj, or bjs. It's fucking odd because otherwise I'm an engerizer bunny who just keeps going and doesn't cum. Sadly when girls WANT me to cum on them it's like "Oh oh..."