I need motivation to get Jow Forums
Post your best pics/stories.
Motivation thread?
if he got a better haircut, and got better glasses, he'd be a JAWN
If you lift you might get pic related, probably not though.
i am beginning to doubt looks theory when i see pictures like this. sure looking good is important, but being nt is even more important. a good looking autist will not get a gf, an average looking nt guy will have several by the time he reaches 20
i'm glad that guy made it, the girl looks qt.
DELET THIS
Yeah, this is one of my issues.
I'm hoping lifting might get rid of my social anxiety.
>Motivation thread?
Why do we still lift? Just to suffer
Doms of the heart is the worst doms.
You see that's the thing with not having a qt3.14 who loves you, the turmoil, CHAOS that's left on your psyche is bloody tremendous.
nt?
Neurotypical.
Normie, basically.
Right you are bucko, but the ideal qt3.14 that loves you for you is a platonic form. She's in your imagination only to be yearned for. Reality can't live up to it. Men across time wrote stories about the perfect women, look at Shakespeare, and modern times it'd be anime and waifus. It's a projection of man's subconscious want for the ideal gf, that can never be reached. Hold me brahs. It hurts.
if youre still on this website you will never make it.
Fuck, read it in his voice. gg
user...
HOLY FK IAM SO LONELY PLZ END IT
Everynight I feel my dick, my balls, even my nipples, the cuddles we never had, the vacations we never had. Won't. Stop. Hurting. I'm going to get her back what I lost to myself.
At least, you didn't lose her because you plowed hoes on the sides, and being so dumb to even send her a screenshot of you setting a date with some tinder roastie, because she was testing if you were jealous or not.
Not that that happened to me
Damn, isley got a gf?
If only.
Man, I would skin myself alive just to have a gf like that.
XBOX DELET THIS
I guess there’s more than me who used to browse r9k, huh?
bet you still have to hire mexican gardeners to fuck her right though, eh white boy?
his tattoo looked like cancer to me
no. NOOOOOOOOOOOOO
As a nigga who just split with a gf like this, you motherfuckers need to pull your head out of either the clouds or your ass and realize that people like this don't ever have the drive to do much outside of being a homebody.
Look that word up on every dating site and all you'll get are extraordinarily mediocre humans whose interests consist of the internet and Netflix.
You don't need someone putting more wood on top of you if you're trying to light your fire. You need a bottom bitch who will fan that flame.
the ideal was reached once...
no need to.
work out, personnal development, change your habits, get valuable friends, and in 2-3 years you have her.
How do I get valuable friends?
literally no person would say shit like that lmao u guys are faggots
have human interactions
Realize you are, at some degree, emotionally stunted/underprogressed
Embrace your subsequent fears, meeting people, reject you name it. Just fucking realize that fears are part of you, and let them run over you
While you do that, have even more and more meaningful human interactions
That's it, really
Eventually, from opening up to a number of people, you'll emotionally bump into someone that apreciates your company and yourself in any way and grade
After that, you get into relationship handling, which is a different course, but at the very least, you should have a friend
Or a potential romantic partner you can't still develop because you are just emotionally developed yet just to have friends
>If you lift you might get pic related, probably not though.
I'M HEARING YOUR REPROACHFUL WORDS
WITHIN SECONDS MY RAGE IS BLACKENING ME OUT,
THIS FEELING IS WAY TOO MUCH FOR ME
I'M CRYING OUT IN DISBELIEF
>Well I think you'll be a great comic book artist someday!
lost me there desu senpai
fixed it for you
we're all gonna make it though. some day...
DELET
There's this 30 yo guy at work who is funny as heck, he makes anyone laugh, men or women, and people always greet him and have chitchats for minutes. He's balding, has a leg discrepancy, really average 5/10 face and is skinnyfat. But he has a cute gf and is super popular, always confident and smiling despite his looks.
It's a shame lookism has overtaken this board, here you can see good looking 20 something's nitpicking every little thing in their appearance when it's clear that's not the thing preventing them from getting a gf. It's simply that they're impossible to deal with on a social level. That or strangers don't even know where or how to approach them because they rise up this impenetrable wall.
Lifting for yourself is a meme, I'm 6'2 195 lbs, and I still empty on the inside. I always believed that once I got Jow Forums my life would change for the better, it did for a while, but after hookups stopped being exciting and fun, how the appeal of girls mirin' me became stale and dull, how people treating you differently from when you were a sad pathetic fuck, and most important of all, how now whenever I try to approach girls who I used to be great friends/ interested with, now see me as a meathead with no dreams or ambitions other than lifting pieces of metal and eating chicken and rice for love. I would've unironically an heroed if it wasn't for DDLC and KS, the idea of one day finding a girl like Natsuki or Emi is one of few things that gets my ass to the gym. But yeah, we're all gonna make it, right brahs?
Once you realize that you can't outlift tism is all downhill from there, as you said even a guy who's nt. with a mediocre body like the fella you mention will get laid more and more often, than a guy with a 6pack who's na.
>worries about other people thinking you're a meat head
>stumped on spiritual growth and stopped being interesting
>becomes the meathead
yea dude fuck off with this gloomer boomer. if you can't lift yourself you'll never be able to lift your life up. we lift for ourselves so we can lift the world.
Seems incredibly counter intuitive m'l80
(You)
I never said I was stumped in spiritual growth, I do meditate for a bit every time I go to bed and when I wake up in the morning, I do have other interests aside from lifting, what I was referring to was the fact that, by just being relatively big, most people expect you to be nothing more than a meat head, they consider you vane and uninteresting as you mentioned yourself. I know there's little I can do to change this, but this does bother me more than it should, most girls that I've went on in dates with couldn't even mention decent books, or even worse, as soon as I start opening up a bit and letting a bit of spaghetti run free, I might as well just get up and leave, since that's not what they were there for. And I have lifted my life up, I was 210ish 5'6 when I started, I was also a khhv, had little to no friends, and my only hobby was vidya. Now I'm far better than before.
Is it true if you look too perfect or 8+/10 people will approach you less because they feel inferior or have the wrong idea about you?
I agree, when you get with any girl you should expect to both help each other grow, and you know what mix real well with that? Love and understanding for one another, but most often than not you end up with the girls you mentioned, this pic isn't meant to reflect that, it's meant to reflect what a healthy relationship should be based on, read the second last paragraph to see what I mean.
>you will never have this
WHY GOD
Maybe, I don't consider myself an 8+,maybe a natural 6.5, but I bump it up to a 7~8 with clothes/accessories, hairstyling and smiling/acting like the coolest kid in school. To compare, when I was skinny fat, I'd go up to shy/nerdy girls and have a blast, and now I just get blown off because I'm just one of "those" guys. Another thing is that I've noticed guys looking at me more often at the gym, I'm by no means big, but I'm bigger than most gym-goers . Another thing worth noting is that loud obnoxious fatties tend to approach me more often, I think it's kinda cute really but it's just masked cope from their part. But by far the biggest thing I've noticed is that most girls, get all jittery when I talk to them, hair twirling, lip biting that kind of thing.
The only time someone felt inferior to me and didn't approach me, was this 5'2 Vietnamese girl who thought I'd never give her a chance,because she was asian, desu she's been one of the best girls I've been with.
you grew 8 inches? did you start at 15? no wonder you have so much angst
>gf is sitting next to me on couch
>open this pic and laugh
>she hears me laugh and looks at pic
>she laughs too
>ask her what part of it made her laugh
>"dude has his hand's over the alligator's tits"
>mfw
>comic book artists
lmaoing at your (fantasy) life Jow Forums
What's a jawn, Tyrone?
This guy would look a lot better without that shit hair style
Dump her! How could she?!
Fucking kissless virgin larper
>all these thirsty retards unironically wanted le quirky reddit girl like this
jesus fuck, even if ignoring everything else, it straight up says she's a cutter. Those bitches are crazy and will go psycho on you sooner or later. STAY AWAY
I used to browse Jow Forums regularly and this is really my first time checking back in a long time. Never heard of this lookism autism until now. It's one of those things where there's a lot of good info in what they're saying, but then they go off the deep end with their conclusions.
The stuff where they break down exactly what contributes aesthetic facial features is important, and I wish that sort of analysis was more common instead of the"eye of the beholder!" nonsense. But they also seem to obsess over these things to the point where they think that anyone who doesn't look as good as Gandy is destined to be an incel with no recourse, whereas a normal person would be able to recognize that attractive people certainly have a big edge but that the scales aren't so ridiculously tipped that the lower 99% of men are hopeless.
jawn is just what niggers use to mean "thing", at least here in Philly. as in "give me dat jawn". It's just means "give me that thing". It can mean anything.
>tfw this is my gf
>tfw 6' tall bi sexual into femdom gf
She has a kid tho, but I don't mind since I'm infertile
Fuck. I pussied out on saying a word to 2 girls today. I feel like such a coward and I know that the longer I go putting off talking to women, the further I’ll be from finding this.
This is all I want. Jesus Christ, why is this so hard to find? Does a woman like this exist? Did they ever?
this remind me of her
HOW MUCH DO I NEED TO BENCH TO HAVE THIS IN MY LIFE????????!!!!!!
......fuk
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>That or strangers don't even know where or how to approach them because they rise up this impenetrable wall.
That's me. I was told by my ex that we wouldn't have met if we weren't both drunk because I'm way to intimidating normally. Thing is, i don't know how to fix that, so I'm just the guy at work that no girl talks to except a lesbian and older women in their 50's and 60's
I should just end it all. This shit is getting old.
I got that problem too. I have a hypermasculine look (very large brow ridge, strong nose/jaw, hunter eyes, etc). I'm always friendly when people strike up conversation with me, but people also tend to think I'm brooding when I'm not.
Lol ok
Ayo dat inspiration
Give me some dat Walmart and some dat single
Females like that literally do not exist.
How is this board not living proof that looks don’t get you laid?
My girlfriend is basically that
WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME. ILL LIFT WHATEVER YOU WANT JUST GIB, pls just gib
You know whats weird is my current submissive is like this. I am about to confront this bitch about how crazy she is though. Don't let thiat cutesie shit get to you.
>getting inspired by your perception of other people's shortcomings
ngmi
the lookismfags will claim that anyone who doesn't literally look like Gandy is uggo and that's the only reason they can't get laid. And then if someone actually does come in who's a legit 10/10 aesthetics, the lookismfags will just claim he's lying about not getting laid. They have this entire system all thought out that allows them to completely dismiss all data that doesn't fit neatly into their limited worldview
They do though
t. guy who dated two of them
I go to the same gym as him. He is 4 ft tall
Ayo when will I get an average gf and a cobalt? Yeah all I do is lift so nothing else will happen
Post you and him together posing by a door or something or you're full of it
>I posted a screen of fb in which we are friends lol
Clearfield ymca PA
Reality of most fit posters compared to other humans
>be me
>notice cute girl at gym, anxiety for next 20 minutes deciding if I should talk to her
>force myself to approach her, practically shitting my pants
>initiatecoversation.exe
>*taps on shoulder*
>"hey do you remember me, we had class together in highschool, remember? Mr.user, he got fired for drinking booze at school remember?"
>she barely remembers me, doesn't recognize me
>spaghetti everywhere
>"haha well I better get back to my workout"
>say I'll talk to her on facebook later
>she says cool
>her and her friend disappear shortly after
>realize I dont have her name
>get home and spend the next 45 minutes literally searching on google "top female baby names 1998" and typing them into facebook search
>her name is rebecca
>message her "So you may have realized I forgot to ask you your name
uhhh
I literally just spent 25 minutes typing random names into the facebook search bar
Im not proud
fucking hell
end me tb"
>she leaves me on read
>send her the "just fuck my shit up" face, pic related
>a day later she responds "Hey so you seem really nice but I’m actually not looking for a relationship right now or anything of that nature, so I’m sorry I kind of led you on at the gym, you just sort of caught me off-guard."
JUST
the moral of the story is, you were better off not trying
I wonder if the twins ever switch places prestige-style to fuck each others' wives without them knowing
You must be a real virgin if you think the girl wouldn't notice. Maybe that shit would work on a girl you've been seein for a couple days, but your wife? No.
Wtf..
I remember a fat Indian kid In high school pulled way more tail than me and that was the moment I realized how little looks matter. It definitely helps, no lie, but unless you’re physically deformed you can definitely score with 8/10s with just personality. Ofc most people here aren’t willing to put in the work to improve and will use lookism as a ‘get out of work free’ card.
>So you may have realized I forgot to ask you your name
Dude come the fuck on.
>send her the "just fuck my shit up" face, pic related
What the fuck people actually buy cobalts?!?!
Real talk op, there is no hope for you just go gay.
Autism
thing is I'm not even a virgin, I've had sex with 4 different girls and gotten 2nd/3rd base with 3 others
Or just someone who doesn't understand what it's like having an identical twin
Exactly. And that's also why they always set up these false dichotomies between some of the most attractive men in the world like gandy and the most ridiculous examples of deformed literal 1/10s they can.
I just looked in the mirror and told myself I’ll becer make it in that state.