Saturday night browsing the chan, eh? Come on, sit down, have a drink on the house. What's on your mind, user?

I'm so bored man. None of my friends want to do anything. I have no women in my life (and never really had any). I'm a 20 year old boomer who lives in the burbs. Wat do.

Ive got no friends so going to a bar is not an option
Im just trying to have a good time
Yea i always seem to get nervous when visiting hookers but its only been a handful of times where ive gone limp and they couldn't do anything about it

Seeing a girl i really like, she's way out of my league but doesn't seem to think so. Hope it goes well, want to make her my gf.
also econ exams this week
>just fuck my shit up

be safe user

Man all I wanna do is get my dick sucked by a chubby chick but im away from college and dont know where to meet women

DELETE

reeeeeéeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Fucking blew it with a girl I was fucking bc I couldnt get it up, now shes totally gone cold over the phone and shes hanging out with other guys. Feels fucking BAD dude

lmao she just texted me and i quote
>you busy
>im not looking to do anything tonight except hang out

is this a shit test or should i tell her to fuck off

That is a “maybe if you play your cards right you’ll smash” type thing.

She could also just think of you as a friend, but that comes with the maybe statement above.

If you didn't get it up chances are she'll think it's because she's gross. May need to rebuild her confidence a bit

I’m asian though, would small town folks in Tennessee accept me?

Sunday morning here, coffee with ginseng tea.
Planning my morning out, going to get some housework done before visiting my mum for lunch. Always a calorie nightmare, she’s making sticky date pudding for dessert and giving me ‘the family recipe’. All the goddamn family recipes are sweets. But I have so much respect for her, I can’t say no, she’s been through some real shit the past few years (and I put her through some of it) and she always kept her head up high and powered through it, never played the victim. Can only hope I turn out to be half the woman my mum is.

Don't worry about the exam bro, I got you covered. Just draw pic related for every question.

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kek thanks based econanon

Maybe or maybe not. It depends on the person. That’s just how the South is. Most people are super nice, depending on the church they probably won’t give a shit who are what you are as long as your really pious and into it. But there are assholes everywhere.

I feel like shit because I have plans. I constantly want to cancel on my plans
Why am I like this

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>No friends
>Can't make friends because anxiety + autism

>Ask girl on date this week
>She says yes
>Initially happy
>Realize i have absolutely no fucking clue what im doing

FUCK FUCK FUCK ANONS WHAT DO I SAY HOW DO I ACT.

>tfw i didnt think id get this far...

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posted this yesterday but still relevant today

>26, typical Jow Forums autist, one you might think of when you think of Jow Forums, i guess im funny since i always make people laugh, but i am weird and have ADD so i just end up being annoying and has left me a friendless virgin
>get along i guess with a small group of coworkers who are similar aged, like 29-33, who i've worked closely with for like a year
>sometimes they invite me to things they do, usually going to a bar or restaurant and when i go i usually just sit there not doing or saying anything, i just completely shut down for some reason
>even when they invite me to things it's like an obligation rather than wanting me there, like telling me on friday afternoon a few hours before they do it

>friday at work decided to intentionally stay calm and quiet and serious instead of my usual somewhat talkative, nonserious, joking self
>all day: "user whats wrong with you, why are you so serious, why are you so quiet, are you feeling okay, user how are you you seem off today, are you sick" so now i cant even try to be normal without coming off as abnormal
>find out that this same small group had plans to go to a restaurant friday night, told coworkers in a different department about it, yet just don't tell me about it at all
>i am there awkwardly at the end of the day as they are all sitting around waiting for everyone to be done to leave to go , again still ignoring me

Found out that my meal plan meant 1 cup of cooked rice, not dry rice. Been eating rice cups of rice for dinner for a year

Just got a blowjob from a close (female) friend. Feeling pretty good, but also weird, first sexual contact since breaking up with a long-time ex.

Didn’t expect the night to end this way. Lying in bed listening to The Smiths for the first time since I was 16.

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Small town Tennessee here. You’re extremely welcome mate. Everyone is nice to everyone as long as you don’t like, fuck up your yard and bring the neighborhood value down. Welcome :) I recommend the middle part of TN

I'll probably hit the gym after a light dinner. Either that or go for a really good run.
Let's see,if evens I'll run. Odds I'll lift

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You're just maximizing jaw/facial gains

Just marathon Mad Men and then do as Don Draper does

First reply decides what I do tomorrow. Literally anything, I have nothing holding me back, religious or moral or whatever I’ll do it. I’ll make a thread too

Go to church tomorrow morning

Go to an art gallery

I'm absolutely shit at self discipline and I constantly blame it on (diagnosed & medicated) ADHD among other things. Whenever I try getting down to cleaning my apartment, I constantly get distracted or start feeling pain in my ankles or back.

I've gotten fat since I don't have a gym membership. I'm moving to a different state at the end of the month for grad school. I didn't get into a PhD program because I piss lots of people off, apparently. Even though all I have to do is clean, pack, and get ready for my working in a new research lab, I constantly lay around, stay up late, and avoid cooking.

Whenever I'm laying around, I'm in a sort of trance. I can't just say "what the fuck am I doing" to myself. It's like my body forces me out of control while I'm not looking.

I don't want to be such a sad sack of shit. I know I have the chance to reinvent myself, moving where no one knows me. I feel like I'll just piss everyone off again without even knowing it.

Eat ur poo haha

Lads lately I’ve just straight been staring at a girl I think is attractive and saying “you ‘bout fine as hell do you have a boyfriend?” And it’s yielded me about a 75% success rate. Also when sitting on the couch or in the club with these girls I’ll just stare at them until they stare back then I pull them in and kiss them. Wtf lads I’m like a 5/10 but man you can literally do anything you want in this gay world. I read too much Linkola and no longer care about anything except I’m also horny all day so this is what I have discovered. Use it how you will, whatever. I’m about to go to the club down the road and find a girl to fuck.

Good answer, I was going to say the same thing.

Any church will welcome you with open arms OP, don't be afraid to just show up. There is often some coffee afterwards but don't have to feel obligated to stay.

You better go OP! God is calling you.

Set up concrete plans with date/time/place all set in stone so there is noting left up in the air. Then dont text her unless she texts you and keep it short. While on the date focus on asking her questions and keep it positive. Try to have the ratio of her doing 80% of the talking and you do 20% but dont freak out if its not that. Toward the end if you feel its gone well go for a kiss (look into her eyes then at her lips then back at her eyes over a period of a few seconds, if she does the same thing she wants a big smooch).

burb life is fucking trash bud. You near a big city?

>Club down the road
This is how I know you're lying.

go to your local ghetto and ask out a thicc black girl

>managed a 36 ACT
>full ride to college+free housing
>graduate with a 3.8 GPA in resource economics
>I AM CURRENTLY HERE
>enlist in marines as artillary man for four years
>use GI Bill for a masters in education
>teach comfy high school economics and coach soccer in my small hometown in the southeast

What are y’all up to?

The gym is empty on Saturday evenings

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So you never went to college?

I live outside of NYC. It's ridiculously cluttered and smells like trash but I wouldn't mind sucking it up and going there if it meant I had something to do.

>every time I go to bed with a new girl I close my eyes and see Her

I can’t help it lads. All those memories haunt me. I’m so lonely now. I’d give anything to see her smile one more time, to see the light catch her hair and trace her lips as we stared into each other’s eyes. Anything for that calm she gave me deep within myself, and that confidence I felt knowing I had her by my side. Everything since she’s gone feels empty and unbalanced. I feel as though I’ve been cut lose and am now drifting in a vast ocean.

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you should stop fantasizing about dogs like that, you filthy canadian.

Call her user, and let me know how it goes because I’m ducking dying over here with that same shit. It’s been three years and 12 girls yet I dream of her

That's not bad at all my guy. You live near one of the biggest metropolitan hubs in the world. If YOU can't find shit to do, what hope is there for the rest of us? You need to step out of your comfort zone a bit.

All you gotta do is look up some music shows in your city, plenty of bands touring NY all the time, big and small. Look up some meetup groups for your interests. Hell, you can probably find nerds to play DnD with once a week if you're into that stuff.

I am exactly like you, just a bit older. Live in the burbs near one of the biggest metropolitan hubs in the country. There's a lot of shit I never even seen until recently. Doing stuff by yourself sucks but keep in mind there's plenty of people like us.

Just gotta have a bit of self confidence to go at it alone for a while.

Like a week ago I was in kikebook and started chatting with my girl from high school when we broke like 8 years ago I completely lost it. Stopped talking to her, she moved out of town and I have never talked to her much, I literally lost my shit for her back then it a sadness I haven’t been able to replicate ever again. Well ff 8 years we were talking on kikebook and we made a videocall, I was shirtless, she miring hard and telling how I looked , I was skinny fat back then. I’m creeping her fb today I find out the fat piece of shit she is with pic related, not sure if feel happy she ended with this idiot or sad for her, anyways another Saturday night in Jow Forums

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>coach soccer in my small hometown in the southeast

bro i sometimes referee soccer on the side please tell me you are nice to referees

If you befriend the refs, they won’t send your lads off :)

i lose a lot of respect for people who post photos of people they know without their knowledge online especially Jow Forums. ill probably get called some cuck for this or whatever

Man I know that feeling. I'm now fit, decided to meet up some of my exes for old time sake. Turn out I met one who really fucked me up when she left me for someone else (I'm good now hence why I wanted to see her again) and she nearly dropped down when she saw me. I got startled by her too.

Apparently, even if she didn't mention me being fit, she told me I hadn't aged a day (after 6 years I still look young and sharp) while I didn't want to tell her but she seemed to have aged like an alcoholic chain smoker. She's now at a dead point married to a guy have dead-end life plans while I turned my life around to a whole nother degree. I frankly dunno of she's happy, according to her she really doesn't seem to be but I hope she can find happiness.

Sometimes I’ll just be walking around, sitting in class, lifting, whatever... and suddenly the ending of It’s A Wonderful Life where George’s war hero brother flies into town on Christmas Eve during a blizzard and calls his George the richest man in town and then they’re singing Auld Lang Syne pops into my head and I well up. Today I actually cried and had to go to the bathroom. This happens like once every two weeks. I also can’t stop having dreams every single night where I’m a child again and I wake up crying. What is wrong with me I’ve got tons of friends and family and have like no stress in my life

Learned to trust my insticts

So there was this cute girl i worked with. She seemed super quiet and shy when we were introduced. And my inner chad was unleashed and i talked to her after our shift, got her number and made plans all on the same day. So she cancels but as a consolation invites me to her house, which i politely decline.

So eventually i do get over there. She tells me her entire life story, and i mean her entire life story which pretty much destroyed the cute waifu i thought she was. She's jewish and despises it praises black culture and is a major liberal which honestly didn't really bother me. She eventually tells about all her failed relationships, her drug habits and im just trying to keep a straight face. Telling me how all her one night stands never evolved into relationships and she wondered why. So eventually she invited me to stay, saying that her elderly father sleeps in and wouldn't catch me. I just leave. So eventually she quits, months pass, and i obssess over her. Angry at myself for not losing my virginity when it was handed to me on a silver platter.

So today, of all days she returns her uniform its been months. Being friendly hangout for a little bit. Even got food. Realize the girl im seeing isnt the one I've been fantasizing about and that i honestly made the right choice.

Sorry for the blogpost.
>She drank from my straw too, you guys dont think i caught anything right?

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I'm preparing to move to Washington DC next weekend. First job after school, I'm dealing with it pretty well I think but I'll probably have a good amount of anxiety before my first day. Gotta find a swimming pool and a gym brah

I feel you user, we need to move on, past is in the past. I wish her the best, I still see her beautiful, but my old feelings for her are long gone for good. I just feel pity for her. Even if in a remote future i'd be with her again, I don't think i could look at her without remember all the pain and sadness I went through.

How go to bar if I don't have any friends? I keep asking what the protocol for a solo bar experience but I can't get a straight answer.

I went on the beach today for a jog and helped 2 qts pull their jet ski on the beach. I didn't know those things were so heavy. I had to flex both ceps. I didn't get their numbers cuz i'm beta but it made me feel good.

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>barely know girl
>she tells me her entire “tragic” life story
>it only serves to make me hate women more and more

strangely enough this happened to me as well, was a girl that was raised at a horse farm though.

based

Get shit faced then go to the bar. It’ll sort itself out

I guess with a good body and mind you can live comfy even with just a blue-collar life.

Late night lift. Either now or four days from now due to work. But in just looking for another field of work, since mine has lost its appeal in the last few months

Feel you there brother. I myself wish her the best too. Even though there was a time when I would have rejoiced to see her miserable because of how miserable she left me, nowaday I would never say that karma did this to her. Hope she get through those hard times as it is most likely that I'll never see her again

Just work another decade and then import one from the homeland when you have money

make her pay but

How do I become a South American warlord

I got a gf recently and keep getting worried she's cheating/balancing multiple relationships. Seems like she's just getting stalked by a guy instead though. Last night he randomly showed up in front of her house when she said she was at work. Pretty creepy.

Also I have speech problem: I stutter/babble or mumble. It's one or the other and it usually increases with my heart rate. I can speak normally with people I'm comfortable with but when I talk to a new person. I turn into an idiot.

Woah dude, we're almost the same except I enlisted Army infantry.

>be white

Just hangin out.

Decided to cut ties with my friends; They're not the people I'd want to be with.

I've been working hard to be successful but nothing sticks to the wall for long.

We're all gonna make it tho.

You have to breathe user. Most vocal/speech issues, especially with public speaking or other uncomfortable situations is made worse by forgetting to. Slow down, breathe deeply and pause if you have to. I promise that going slow isn't as weird and noticeable as you think, especially compared to babbling on.

how do you deal with the following:
1) my friends think I’m a retard for doing it
2) my parents wont stop telling fucking everyone my business, I keep getting random texts from strangers saying thanks or saying how proud they are of me and I hate it

Fucking tired of my OCD, bro. Real fucking tired. I'm having literal bouts of rage at that part of me, because it feels like there's a loud scrawny little faggot chained to my ear that keeps whispering shit to me until i'm anxious and stressed, and I can't hurt him no matter what I do. No matter my gains, nothing seem to dull those pains.

for the past two months or so I've been going through the motions, but I've really started to slip these last few weeks. Stopped counting calories, stopped working on my room (painted all except the wardrobe and windowsills, haven't progressed with it for a few weeks), haven't been as strict on myself for getting to the gym and am feeling apathetic towards my job even though it's at a good company.

Just made pic related to try and light that fire inside, but honestly I just don't see the point anymore. I haven't truly enjoyed life for 8, almost 9 years. There have been some great times, but it's mostly been tough going and shit.

I'm 24 and have only ever had sex with escorts (a really bad habit and I'm wasting so much money). I look like a skinnyfat dyel, but at least the last escort I saw noticed straight away that I work out and complimented me. Tried Tinder this past week and have gotten matches, but hardly any replies. IDK wtf I want out of life anymore....I used to have goals/hobbies I wanted to delve into (sailing, motorcycles, acoustic guitar), but I can't see the point.

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Day 16 nofap and I broke two of my knuckles and my wrist punching a brick wall because a 6/10 walked by me in Nike shorts. I wish I was making that up

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Most of my friends graduated yet are doing very little (throwing most of their income away in high rent areas like Los Angeles, San Francisco, and Manhattan) while working boring office jobs. So I don't feel as if they have much room to judge.

My mom is pretty annoying about it too, but I very rarely see her now so it's whatever.

The military benefits are more than worth it for the easiest job ever, (gi bill, VA loan, fitness, etc.) so in the end even if I get out after 3 I know it will have been a good use of time.

how do all your friends live in the most expensive places in the country

>She's jewish
should have left there, all jokes aside jewish people are unpleasant to be around

They're just millennial upper middle class memes

Lad we have the same life wtf

>Most of my friends graduated yet are doing very little (throwing most of their income away in high rent areas like Los Angeles, San Francisco, and Manhattan) while working boring office job

>tfw 25 and live in bay area (with parents lel) but work in san francisco at shit paying job
>coworkers are late 20s-early 30s in hospital but live in SF or in bay area
>they work hard and make decent money but literally have to live basically paycheck to paycheck because of the rent prices

> Instincts tells me something's off about girl I've been seeing but can't but finger on it

Fuck this gay earth caught some feels already, world easier with only lifts and waifu

> Friends invited me to club but rather stay in and go lift later, fuck clubs
> Hating 9-5 shit job, need cash to do shit but procrastinating on job hunt.
> Jealous of one of best friends who seems to travel often, seems liberating.

Chilling with doggo then midnight lifts. Ran out of whey, send help

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I've been doing stuff by myself for years and it never bothered me. It just gets boring. I feel like everyone I'm in contact with is sedentary. At least during the summer.

>>>>>>>it only serves to make me hate women more and more
Where'd you get that from m8?

>Girl I've been interested (at least to fuck, unsure about relationship)
>Always hangs out with the faggiest looking guys
>pink hair, piercings, tattoos, skinny af, smoke cause it's cool
>"artists"
>Aka they take gay pics devoid of anything artistic and upload them on their instagram
It angers me. Yet they're the ones hanging out with her on a saturday night while I'm alone as I have been for the past 100 saturdays

>see ex gf hanging around group of extremely fat, short, overtly Christian losers
>work with one of them
>conversation is about what our friend groups get into
>he tells me my that ex gf (he doesn’t know I know her) is the most boring person he knows

I just wanna fuck her again lol

Twinks and beta males are in rn

Iktf breh. Seeing dyels, drug dealers and even sometimes basedbois (usually the tall ones) hanging out with girls while I have almost no experience whatsoever with the opposite sex makes me want to kill myself.

Hey I just wanted to let you guys know that the best imaginable job is 0811 in the Marine Corps.
>get jacked
>spend all day every day camping with your bros
>comfy training out west
>press button, blow shit up miles away
>come home with giant ass arms, slay puss
>war hero, ancestors and dad proud

>Planned on maybe going out but remind myself i don't like to talk so stayed at home instead
>Binged on porn instead once again
>Watching Speedruns and shitposting on Jow Forums once again to escape my shame

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