>Oneitis is now in a relationship
Oneitis is now in a relationship
Ryan Morris
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Matthew Bell
Let fucking go already you fantastic idiot
Oliver Barnes
Lmao okay
Luis Moore
I feel you user. Use it as motivation when you're lifting and channel the emotion
Jackson Lee
>oneitis gets dumped
>laments to you, one of her only friends she can lament to, about how much she loves the person that dumped her
i want out this hell ride
Carson Davis
>letting yourself stay in that situation
Never gonna make it
Ayden Moore
be honest with yourself, relying on an extrinsic force to improve your life wouldn't have solved your deep seated issues that 20 years of social conditioning and brain malfunctions have caused.
Chase Gonzalez
>thinking about asking out neighbor
>have to hear her get fucked every weekend
Xavier Watson
That would be fine, I'd just let fucking go.
But
>not interested in anything right now
is far worse, it means some Chad could appear from the thin air and you're just a Schrodinger potential boyfriend who can lose it any moment.
Tyler Brooks
>finally meet cute girl when drunk and slightly high
>she's russian and we have a long talk about the language, literature, etc where (at least I think) she was impressed with my autismt
>she's miring and says we should hang out
>the next day invite her casually for a coffee
Cut to today
>talk about almost anything over a coffee
>try to be flirty and touchy, the works
>realise it's not going anywhere
>towards the end I push my luck and try to get an answer from her
>"you're a great guy user, but I can't decide. Besides, I'm not looking for a serious relationship"
>Drop her off at the train station with my car
>pecks me on the cheek
>try to reciprocate
>end up tangling myself in her hair
>drivers beeping behind me so too late to salvage
>realise she probably isn't into me at all and sit on facebook waiting for some response for her
Why do I even try
Nolan Rodriguez
She's a fucking whore user. Only viable option is to kill her, her bf and then yourself. Don't forget to livestream.
Thomas Ramirez
>in a relationship with my oneitis for 1.5 years now
Its ok.
Ayden Foster
>want girl
>don't do anything
>surprised the world moves on without you
You're pathetic
Austin Hernandez
>Ask out my oneitis 3 years ago after being friends since high school
>she says "not now but down the road when we are both ready"
>9 boyfriends and numerous flings later she is still not ready
>"I just need time to heal and be on my own, but when i'm ready you will be the first to know. love you!"
>She talks to me openly about her activities when they happen
What do I do, i'm at a loss.
Thomas Hernandez
>oneitis is asexual
Life is suffering
Camden Evans
Get out of there. Cut her off. She's a bitch and doesn't care about you
Ryan Adams
mentally ill*
Ftfy
Thomas Ortiz
You're the reserve, in case she can't find a guy that she really wants to settle down with, she'll settle for you.
This is not ideal. There is no solution to this situation which ends with you and her happily together. Cut her out of your life and move on. If she asks why, there's no reason to lie. "I'm still really into you and I can't handle being friends and hearing about all the other men in your life, I think we need time apart."
Brandon Garcia
Honestly that fix isn't even wrong. She needs therapy for sure
Again, life is suffering
Although I'm not nearly as into her as I was before. She's just still around in my mind because I know LITERALLY no other girls
Thomas Garcia
you can't be serious you fucking cuck
Thomas Martin
oneitis said shes too busy to have lunch with me
Carson Ramirez
LEAVE
Isaiah Williams
Kill yourself. A worthless beta like you does not deserve the wondrous beauty of existence.
Michael Wright
>Oneitis is now in a relationship
>with me
Eli Price
Fucking drop her ass and tell her that 9 boyfriend in 3 years is indicative in her ability to judge people and how it made you disgusted with herr.
Aaron Baker
Josiah Clark
Big if true
Ian Bell
Can't win them all user. At least you can chat to and hold a conversation with a chick which places you above half the folk here.
Best go no contact and just forget her. You'll catch another one.
Henry Martinez
It sucks op but out of the billions of people there is more than one that can make you happy provided you give them the chance and dont obsess over something that was never real to begin with
Michael Lopez
how are you pussies this weak for a woman? jesus grow a pair of fucking balls
Aaron Richardson
Jack Nguyen
Never give up dude. I was in the exact same situation as you for 5 years and at the end I told her it was better if we move apart (she was my flatmate too which made her bringing men home a fucking experience) She then told me that this is what she was waiting for, for me to grow a backbone and wanting to be independent and we have been pretty happy together since in an open relationship arrangement which while not ideal is better than nothing.
Justin Baker
wrong. nothing is better than YOU settling for HER desired open relationship. you are just a meal ticket to her
Tyler Brown
>wait 5 years
>growing a backbone
>OPEN RELATIONSHIP
>better than nothing
Ooh nononononononono
Owen Jenkins
>open relationship
Congratulations, she tricked you into beeing a cuck and at the same time beliving you have a backbone. (In case it is not clear, being a cuck does mean automatically that you have no backbone, I repeat, you have no backbone.)
Angel Carter
oh my fucking god. you cant be serious
Ryder Cooper
>Getting yourself in that situation in the first place
So many guys try to be friends and then move to fucking. Never works
Blake Myers
:(
Asher King
>no contact with exgf for nearly a year now
>found a new girl and made her my gf
still think about my ex tbqh
Cameron Jackson
wtf is this thread? What has Jow Forums become? Is this fucking Jow Forums? You guys are acting like fucking basedboys. Just go fuck other girls holy fuck the absolute state of the modern male
Aaron Scott
we'll be seein you once your relationship ends or your oneitis breaks your heart
Hunter Jones
>be me
>go out with a girl tonight, spend some time at a coffee place, and walk around a park for a good hour
>seems to be genuinely into me and laughs at the things I say, even if they aren't funny
>beta orbiter she's known for a while is supposed to meet up with her for a coffee after our date
>shes stands him up for a little bit while she's with me instead, he starts messaging her saying she's probably sucking me off in the park
>we laugh about it and i make fun of him for being such a beta
>she laughs even harder and says I'm right
>put my arm over her shoulders as I'm driving her home, she leans against my shoulder
>get to her house, walk her to her gate and say our goodbyes
>put my hand on her hip and lean in closer, abruptly change it to a hug
>she laughs nervously and says goodnight
>"y-you too"
Why do I do this to myself bros? Why do I cuck out?
I feel like such a fucking failure right now
>we snap a lot, so I send her a quick snap making fun off the awkward goodbye
>puts ton's of laughing emojes and says she's sorry about it
Atleast it still seems like she's into me, but god I'm a fucking cuck, will probably see her again tomorrow before she leaves for a few days
Anyway, what's your favourite row variation, Jow Forums?
Matthew King
Godspeed, you can do it, you are very close to making her your gf, just be a bit more confident and bold.
Classic cable row, narrow grip.
Kevin Gonzalez
>does something
>gets rejected
You know how bad it hurts when your oneitis since u were little rejects u?
Ethan Bailey
i have been in both scenarios. I dwelled on them for a while but eventually moved on. dwelling on a girl who doesn't give a shit about you is destructive. it's time to take control of your life and be a man instead of crying over a bitch. My life improved ten fold after I moved on from my oneitis. it's your turn. You don't want to be in your 50s thinking about your younger years with and realizing you wasted them crying over a girl.
read this
therationalmale.com
Josiah Murphy
Blake Powell
Based
Ryan Sanchez
Owen Torres
Can't believe people aren't seeing obvious bait. Well done, you've tricked the greatest retards ever to post
Andrew Allen
>oneitis breaks up with me
>meet a new girl
>she's great and all but ultimately
>she isn't her
Jayden Smith
So much easier to let go if she's in a relationship
been there, just forget about her dude
Parker Anderson
>trying to test and train my game/chatting skills online while i'm on cocoon mode
>go to chatrooms/attempt to speak with female friends online
>right before I start the conversation, all desire to learn about them or even talk to them completely vanishes
What is happening, bros? Sometimes I just go full ''I can't be assed to do it'', even if some other times I'm lonely.
Jordan Powell
Well try fucking killing yourself for a start
Samuel Brown
In a similar situation OP. Not so much hung up on her, but the fact that I'm 23 and my options are getting lower by the days within my community.
Easton Russell
Just move on man. It may hurt, but you don’t want a reddit-tier fate, do you?
Anthony Bell
>In a relationship with my oneitis for over 4 years
>realize she not the one anymore
What to do lads? I still love her but after knowing her, we just dont click like we should. We live together and desu i cant afford to live on my own...
Thomas Bailey
>Oneitis is now single
Grayson Rivera
>my community
Can't go out of your community?
Eli Miller
good, retard. now you're free
Alexander Gomez
>only had a crush on my oneitis because she seemed obtainable.
>fail to obtain her
Isaac Morales
>tfw no oneitis
Noah Flores
I'm not a very serious Muslim, but I did once. I think in the long run it would be best for me to find someone of my own kind. I dated a girl and while we did get along, after it ended I noticed there was nothing in the relationship beyond us. Our families wouldn't be compatible with another, our ways of raising kids wouldn't be compatible, and I don't think we wanted the same things in life. Also she was kinda fucking crazy.
After I moved on I had one girl in mind but yesterday at work my friend sent me a picture of her celebrating some guy's birthday with the caption "tall, dark, and handsome". 99% sure she's taken. The lake is drying up for me and I think I'm going to die alone.
Joshua Young
Cucks a fucking unbelievable. The mental gymnastics you have to do to still believe you have a backbone... All while supporting a slut that fucks other dudes. And you still call yourself a man. HAHAHAHA
Carson Butler
Forgot to ask... How many hot bitches did you fuck while she was fucking all those dudes?
Brayden Diaz
>>So many guys try to be friends and then move to fucking. Never works
I've fucked plenty of girls who were friends first. Just treat people normal and don't obsess over them. It's really that easy
Brandon Robinson
>get out of a shitty relationship
>single for several months, get with a few girls but not interested in relationships
>get with this one girl who is really cool, hot, etc.
>we end up dating and i tell myself not to be too emotionally invested in it
>fast forward a year and a half
>everything seems okay, the relationship has its ups and downs, but all together we both seem to love each other
>after a while I have become resolved that this girl is the one and that we will always be together
>out of the blue during a minor fight she has "you know what, user, I think it's time you know how I really feel"
>tells me she "doesn't feel right" in the relationship and wants to be alone for a while
>tells me she still sees a future with me but not for a while and that she doesn't plan on seeing other guys or hooking up with other guys
>this comes only two weeks after we took a "break" for the same reasons
>adamant that i did nothing wrong and that she feels bad doing this to me saying she still loves me
>i know that she will probably start fucking other guys within a couple weeks and that i should just move on but I can't bring myself to do it
>it hurts, losing weight, numbers going down in gym
Jackson Powell
I just want to say that I'm right there with all the anons ITT and that we are all gonna make it bros, whether it's with HER or not, we are. Just keep at it and make yourself into the best man you can be, even if it all feels hopeless. We all gonna make it
Nolan Jenkins
Focus your thoughts on something more useful than what this girl's doing with her life, user. Your attachment and delusion will only make your life worse.
Caleb Moore
Don't forget about us when you make it user...
Hunter Ward
>oneitis is engaged
Michael Thompson
You think that's bad just wait until you start to become a boomer
>Oneitis is now engaged
Liam Cooper
thats what you get for having a oneitis you little queer, there are 3.5 billion women on the planet, find one that likes you back
Jason Scott
am there, good feels only
Jose Wood
If you and the rest of the goddamned gymcels in this place would GROW THE FUCK UP ALREADY AND GET OVER YOURSELVES maybe someone would want to be with you.
Angel Wright
>turn your emotion into muscle
>get huge
>oneitis breaks up with bf
>confidently walk up to her
>punch her hard in the face
Thanks Jow Forums
Nathan Price
>started lifting out of spite because that bitch turned me down when i was no one and had nothing
>got a job, an apartment, a car, fit
>also got a gf and "she" stopped mattering
>mfw i won the proper way, by succeeding and forgetting
I'm still mildly hype when imagining the possibility of throwing it all in her fucking face. I know she's still lower class poor and gaining weight.