I only go the gym. I've no friends, no real companions. I just go to the gym, come home, browse fit/yt/fb and walk my dog.
Rinse, recycle, repeat.
The worst part is seeing your youth slip away. I'm 20 and I look 18/19 year olds go to concerts and have the time of their lives while i'm inside riddled with fear, since most people in my near by town want to beat me up.
Met a girl, had the time of our lives
went out, had fun, was a human
Started browsing fit, started eating healtier, lifting my ass off for almost a year, started buying decent clothes to wear, just to look good besides her. The only real thing ive ever had
But still she decided that her ex is better than me, now they go to concerts hold hands and im again back to sitting behind 3 screens, browsing memes and watching pointless movies.
I'm 20 aswell. No real friends, no real relationships. And im pretty sure i dont want any anymore.
You make your own fun, watching by thinking that everybody else is having it better than you just drains your soul away. I know exactly how that feels.
Just keep liftin. Make them all envy you. Go enjoy concerts by yourself. If not, they win and you just beat yourself.
I'm sorry dudes. Know that you can always start your life anew. Try again, even though it's hard
Dumping some fitfeels
comparison is the thief of joy, user
you're only 20, you have a lot more to go through
Not really having any bad feels at the moment, but I just want you to know that we're all gonna make it
>The worst part is seeing your youth slip away
don't worry, the bad feeling about this will go away when you are 30+
>most people in my near by town want to beat me up
The fuck did you do?
>saved
>tfw you use the thoughts of inadequacy that led her to leave to fuel your work outs
>Tfw she text you sometimes and even tho you're almost over her, your heartbeats rise when you see her next in your phone screen
>Tfw she said I was "everything she was looking for her entire life" to not being sure about the relationship and eventually leave
>Tfw no gf
I’m in a similar situation as you except nobody takes me seriously or respects me too. I became a Christian and became saved a while ago but still have been living lukewarm, I’ve been meaning to go to church to expand my social circle, I would advise you to accept Christ as your lord and saviour and do the same. God might be the answer to most of your problems
I've saved it from a thread time ago, this user was pure wisdom.
How's everything my man?
If it's good for you I'm happy bro, I really do.
But I know it won't work for me, it won't be honest because I don't believe and I just wanted to believe like when I was younger, to believe that somewhere upthere was some good guy watching over us taking care of us but I just can't believe anymore
Hey, most of here are in the same boat but we don't even have the gym
>most people in my near by town want to beat me up.
Why is this?
You don't really need a gym to get started user, begin with a pull up bar and then advance from there.
You can do this bro, we're all goin to make it
>tfw in love with older woman (20 year difference)
>she doesn't see me in the way i see her
anyone know how to deal? how do i get over this?
Give up, youre not going to change her mind.
>Go to get some food with a few bros
>qt behind the counter was kind of chatty with me
>"Bro she was flirting with you go talk to her"
>N-no
>Go pee, as I'm coming out she smiles at me
>Fuck it, go talk to her
>People behind me listening in, straight up say "I'm user, what's your name? You're cute do you want to go out with me sometime?"
>"Ok!"
>Awesome
>Text her for a little while
>She is fucking 16 years old
Why the fuck am i crying
Get over it, find someone or something else to occupy your thoughts
Why do I feel more and more disconnected from society? Is it normal to feel disdain for this perverse world I'm living in.
>Rape her
Jokes aside just don't put yourself in that kind of hell user, it's better for you that just tell her how you feel and your intentions with her (older woman like straight forward shit) and telling her that reach out for you if it's fine with her, if don't forget about her and try to occupy your mind with hobbies and whatnot.
>Been there and done that, never again
what's the problem here?
Dude, I just got over a girl I spent about 7 months still tearing myself up over. Know how I did it? Found a different girl.
The best way to get over a bitch is to get a new one. Just stop giving a fuck and cold approach qts. You're gonna get shot down a lot more than you'll get numbers but I'm telling you dude one success gets you higher than the 10 rejections before that got you low.
Wow
Im in that boat right now. Part of it for me is not having friends. When im at uni i only leave for lectures, food and the gym. Im gonna try to improve, I think we just need to latch onto any friend we can
Go for it bro, who cares if you don't do nothing wrong with her it's fine.
Plus she must look older if you and your buddies don't notice her age, so you won't feel weird being with her in public
16 is the age of consent where I live. What I wouldnt give for a cute 16 year old malleable GF. And Im 26.
It's always the same thing over and over again. You hang out quite often at first and you slowly drift apart until they stop messaging you. I just want someone to actually care about me.
I got dumped on sunday, and my appetite has been fucked since then trying to scarf down even a snack is a mission. Hide the pain with weights gentlemen, a tunnel can only be so dark for so long before you eventually see the light. Were all gonna make it someday.
2 more years
Ffs are we the same person? They slowly stop inviting me to get togethers. I obviously dont take that as a cue that i should involve myself more, but instead assume they hate me. I shut myself in even more, stop talking to anyone even family for a few weeks. Only go to the gym at night when no one can see me. I dont know how to stop doing this
thanks brehs
i think i'll address my feelings for her directly, and if nothing works i'll be downloading tindr again, lmao. definitely going to be spending a little more time in the gym to keep my mind (and body) occupied
>You make your own fun, watching by thinking that everybody else is having it better than you just drains your soul away. I know exactly how that feels.
underrated dont compare yourself to others. im a 21 yo khhv but i try not to dwell on the fact that i am a loser with no friends. A long as i focus on what i have which is a loving parents, a healthy body, decent degree and access to the internet where i can shitpost, watch anime and play vidya gaem, everything is ok
This is literally me, when I met a new girl, don't know how but I seen to do just fine, telling her jokes, flirting with her and all this stuff, it's not rare that they say something like this "user you are like the perfect boyfriend material, I just can't understand how you are single, better for me I guess" but when it's getting more serious they just seem to get bored or some shit and they just leave, maybe I'm too clingy or I'm not funny enough but this pattern it's getting me depressed
Honestly man thats the foundation. Im in a similar spot, except i dont play vidya
We’re gonna make it
>she said it was only as weird as I made it...
Holy moly user she said it's fine, don't blow this. Maybe it's weird at first but just try
We’re here for you bro
It might be something you can change, and looking for and changing that thing might be worthwhile in the long run, but dont beat yourself up about it. Being funny isnt what keeps relationships going. Most likely it was something fundamental, or the girls may have just been dumb. The point is, as long as youve got the will to keep going, youre gonna make it eventually
Do exactly this user, keep the mind and the body busy with all you can, but if things don't work out don't try to just ignore the pain (done that in the past and it's just worse) but let it come through you, welcome it like an old friend, smash shit if you want but don't just ignore it.
Go for it glorious bastard, you got this light weight baby
It sounds fucked up but you need some drama bruhs. Girls thrive on that shit and it makes relationships last longer and stronger. Make her jealous, talk to other women. Argue over pointless shit. I'm not kidding boys. That's how it works with keeping the relationship going.
>t. 32yr old married boomer
I'm that user, and holy fuck bro you might hit the nail right in the head, I'm exactly the opposite to what you posted, I rarely get angry at her, don't make her jealous and all those stuff and don't get me wrong I did those things because I'm like this, I don't like drama.
Well maybe in the future I will try to not to be as accessible with them, what do you recommend?
You don't know how much I needed to read this user, I have two exams the next week and I can't even study because I keep thinking in why or what I could do differently but I just know this isn't realistic and she would probably leave anyways, the worst thing is that this wasn't the first time like I said this pattern repeat itself every single time.
>Tfw watching a movie with a girl
>I got feelings for her, know that she have feelings for me
>Mid movie she is looking directly at my face without saying a word
>Say fuck it and go for a kiss
>She reciprocate and into this
>The first and only thought while making out was "here we go again, let's see when she get bored of me"
>Tfw it was a self fulfilling prophecy all along
Why do they want to beat you up
It's funny, I did everything opposite of most people. I got married when I was 19. I got my own place when I was 20. I was working full time and going to uni full time. I literally had no time to do anything outside of work and uni except eat and sleep. Fast forward to now, and I'm a 27 year old NEET that lives with his dad. I never leave the house unless I'm going to the gym or a yoga class. I'm on the verge of losing the ability to socialize completely. I hate how our society works, and I hate how shallow most women are now. They all just get fucked up at bars and clubs and play on snapchat and tinder. I'm not a misogynist, I love women. But the chance of me meeting a compatible girl might as well be 0% at this point. You're only 20. When I was 20 I didn't have a care in the world. Now I have a better understanding of how the world works, and trust me, it's not great. Everything revolves around money. Greed is the mark of our age. The more you learn, the easier it is to fall into depression. Monotony is bullshit. That's why I can't keep a job longer than about 6 months. Doing the same thing over and over again drives me fucking crazy. I've experienced the feeling you're talking about. Sitting at home alone and thinking about people having fun at shows or festivals. You should force yourself to go to some shows, it will give you perspective. You may not like it after all. But I don't know anything; I'm just a jaded NEET.
Oh I have a gym membership. I just don't work out. Do you? I think like 10% of posters do
y-you too thanks bro
>The worst part is seeing your youth slip away.
user, I'm 28, I've seen this. Don't be me.
Honestly, its not life consuming, every moment you're living is a new moment to get out and live, but don't waste the time you've got.
Sounds like you might need to move
>used to be 5'7" 195 pound fat fuck
>hated myself
>started working my ass off to feel better about myself and be more confident
>eating a lot less and working out every day, feelsgoodman
>got down to 118 in a year
>byebyemenustralcycle.png
>family starts to worry about me
>"please eat some more user, you must be so hungry!"
>"you're getting so skinny user, are you doing ok?"
>truly don't know how the fuck anyone could see me as skinny, when people tell me I am it honestly baffles me
>look in the mirror and see all me spooky bones
>still see my body as the fat mess it used to be
>still feel like I need to lose more weight
>still hate myself
Everyone says after you lose weight you'll feel better about yourself but I think I just developed an eating disorder instead reeeee
Oh well then, just go and lift some heavy shit user.
I don't have a gym at the moment because I live pretty far from the gym a liked (all others are shit) so I just built a dip station with a pull up bar in my garden with my old man help, so far it's going great and people are starting to mire my progress so I'm feeling good.
Pic related it's how it looks
Associate. Join a club, do team sports, get out of your comfort zone.
>boss gives me a project to work on last year
>do everything for this client and i absolutely fucking hate them
>have to help them through major issues this week and i can only think how embarrassing this is for my ego
i fucking hate this customer
what the fuck did you do to to get an entire town to hate you
Start bulking and lifting heavy
Youll make gainz like crazy
I want the gains but I'm afraid to eat any more than 800 calories a day now
Not gonna make it bros I fell for the anorexia meme
Sorry bro, I was on a few other threads, but I thought id come back for one final word. Bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks. Your exams are more important. Put all that shit behind you, and turn over a new leaf. Rome wasnt built in a day, Einstein had mediocre grades, and Caesar was like 30 when he actually got his shit together and conquered Gaul
You built that? Holy shit hell yeah. That + running is really all you need
Fucked a virgin girl and completely lost all the feels I had for her. I thought that it would be a good thing to meet someone like her, but turns out I was wrong.
At the same time my oneitis keeps approaching me even though she knows nothing will happen because we like 1000 km apart and with no way of meeting each other.
My thesis is also fucking me up. I have 5 months left and ffs the subject is getting too hard and I'm not feeling motivated to study.
It's on the field of optical communication and god damn, everything is going wrong.
All I want is to lift and see gains, honestly.
>just go to the gym
go get a job you useless piece of shit
Einstein got mediocre grades because he was fucking stupid.
Man was a fucking imbecile and a massive fraud and the entire real scientific community at the time said so and wrote hundreds of books and letters and scathing words about him and the relativity hoax.
But the fix was in and well, we all have to deal with this.
who moderates these threads? you're doing a horrible job
>relying on an imaginary friend
no, thank you.
Thanks a lot man, I'm gonna to do my best in my studies and in my work outs.
Hope everything is going well for you my man
Literally just eat and exercise, now that’s yout weight is down you can control it, gain a little bit of fat and muscle. Women are different than men in terms of what is needed, but you shouldn’t starve yourself like a retard. Starving and decrepit people stand out more than chubby people
I study physics, no he wasnt a fraud. What people on this shitty forum dont realise is that mathematicians and physicists build on each others work, very rarely does one person achieve as much as we give them credit for e.g. Newton “standing on the shoulders of giants”. Einstein still formulated the end-product so to speak, so he gets the credit. He was a genius, and you complaining about him just makes you the low test omega male you already know you are
Yeah, this is a picture from the internet but the thing I've built it's literally the same.
I'm very happy with it, now I'm focusing in the basics and in some cool tricks just to show off, now I can do the pull over the bar and skin the cat, practising the back and front lever tho
In 30 years people will romanticize the hell out of the Jow Forums lifestyle. A group of lonely young men with chiseled bodies who wander through the night to gyms, only to come home and discuss life and philosophy with their fellows spread out all over the world, desperately seeking true companionship, filled with dreams and aspirations.
This is kinda poetic in way, thank you so much user.
Now I will think of this when I'm feeling low.
Shit yeah you're right. I'm gonna start trying harder to eat more.
Thanks, user
What on earth are you smoking dude
This is a feels thread faggot. If you don't like it you should know what to do.
Careful with that edge boi. I'm not a believer but I don't shit on things that help people improve their lives. Fix your shit before you criticise others
if only thats what it were actually like
you are still completely able to make it. it's a mental and physical struggle, but overcoming those struggles are makes life worthwhile.
in reality I just come back from the gym and post spongebob sniffing images in response to photos of women with big asses but alright
C-chris?
You're afraid of your youth slipping away because you aren't accomplishing anything. Get a hobby, start learning a skill. Find some meaning in your life or you'll feel like you've wasted it
I'm confused by our times lads and I don't know how to deal with this.
Both the media and Jow Forums would have you believe that every single woman is ready to drop a rape accusation if only she doesn't like something or regrets having sex with you.
At the same time, even if she doesn't she can divorce you taking your kids with her.
It seems there are literally millions of people in the west who hate me just for being a straight white Catholic.
That can't be right... right? Let's drop the Jow Forums-edginess for a while but let's not submit to MSM bluepill.
What is it really like, lads? I'm a 29to khv, I don't know what relationships and sex look like.
>tfw I cannot escape the fate of living life as myself
Does life ever have a weird feeling but you can't explain it? Like right now my days feel weird, my feeling about my life currently has a weird feeling. I don't like the feeling of my life right now, the things I'm having to do. It's hard to explain but I've felt this a few times in my life.
I'd give you relationship advice but I've never been in one. Don't forget that the truth often lies somewhere in the middle, and the ideas perpetuated both here and in the MSM are outliers.
I just spent 8 months prepping for a health program at school and found out I can't do it anymore lmao just lmao. Now I gotta wait another year for some other health program and do more prerequisites again or just start some boring degree like computer science. I'm that boomer in school, I did military for 6 years and just did 2.5 years of school with prereqs and getting my AA. I hate these delays and annual applications because I'm gonna be 30-yr-old boomer when I'm done.
t-thank you, user
You're right, I guess if I was able to overcome my struggles with being overweight then I can do the same with being underweight
if it helps him to go through with his life, fine. just don't try to push that shit here, this is not a church.
keep going bro, better a 30 yr old boomer with a degree then a 30 yr old boomer who's an hourly paid greeter at walmart
I know exactly what you mean (I think).
There are times in my life where I'll wake up and just feel different. That will then change after a while into a different feeling. Out of nowhere there will just be a change where like everything in the world changes or looks different.
Shit's weird. I don't know how to explain it.
i was talking about the needlessly deleted posts,
fuck
Has anyone ever quit a wageslave job semi-recently after starting? I have an interview tomorrow where I know I'll only be able to work for 2 months until school starts again (obviously I won't be saying that to the manager). Not particularly excited about it but I'm really fucking tired of sitting around the house on days I don't go to the gym.
considering the current state of things? Yes. The modern world is a globohomo zog capitalist hellscape.
Everyone has been reduced into no more than a consumer; social interaction to images. When you become aware of it, it breaks you. Because even though you might save yourself with enough will power, you probably can't change the rest of the world. Everyone lives in constant alienation, and those who are aware suffer the most.
The spectacle is everywhere.
God help us all user.
not your safe space, snowflake
Yeah pretty much. Like I'll be laying down and think "my life feels weird right now" I hate it. It'll last for as long as it lasts. Which right now it has been like this for at least 3 weeks. I think it's my job. Hopefully it'll change when school starts up
>tfw all those years of being straight edge will finally pay off
Not sure how similar it is to your weird feeling but I'll describe the feeling I have about life.
It sometimes feels like I'm standing still while the world continues to move around me. The days gradually feel shorter and shorter like times counting down to something. This happens even when my motivation is at it's highest.
Every task feels like a puzzle that I have to complete in a certain order for it to matter (not sure if that makes sense)
If I can get the order right then the task feels like it "fits"
Not sure "task" is the right word to describe this properly but I can't think of one that works better.
Ever since I decided I would enlist in the marines after I graduate college next year a supreme calming peace has covered me in a blanket of comfy. Nothing bothers me anymore. I feel like my life path is figured out. I can’t believe how good I feel, and when I look back on how depressed I was only a few months ago it’s nearly laughable. I hope everyone ITT will be blessed and find their path soon. :) enjoy ur day
[THIS POST IS AN IRONIC JOKE POST. IT IS NOT MEANT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY, NOR IS IT EVEN HYPOTHETICAL. IT IS MERELY A JOKE EITH NO TRUE MEANING @FBI]
I lift so I can lead the derp ecology terrarism movement when it happens
yeah, once you realize, and i mean really understand, not just know, that there is NOWHERE you can go to escape it, it fucks you. the fact that all the space is "owned" and that you can't just pick a spot in the woods to call your own is so fucked it drives me crazy. i used to think at some point i could carve out a spot for myself if i worked enough and made enough money, but you can't, there's always some law that will fuck you. you can't run from it, you can only try to fight it, but you could never kill it. i think i'm gonna go the way of mishima honestly. at least then i'll have some honor
fuck off faggot
I know, it sucks though. I just spent this whole year working and not doing any school just doing all the steps and getting my acceptance letter and all these screenings/orientation. I had no backup plan because I was 100% in already. I have a wrist issue so I get military neetbucks for that so I was concerned and talked to the teacher and I just noped out the last minute after they talked about how much physical work I would be doing in the clinics/hospital. It was my fault for not researching, I thought I could just look at the screen all day in diagnostic imaging but they briefed us we would be slaves moving patients(even bringing them to the room) around a lot while taking images after. I just wanna finish something and get a real job.
got friendzoned by the girl i am deeply in love with
want her out of my life completely yet a part of me still clings to the hope i can make her love me
if nothing else it gives me motivation to be the best i can