>mfw lifting won't make her un-reject me
Mfw lifting won't make her un-reject me
OH GOD OH FUCK
> tfw people tell you that rejection is no big deal
>literally every rejection I've been dealt has resulted in mutual friends and acquaintances holding it over me
Fuck this gay earth
>tfw she posts a new photo of her in bed snuggled with her bf
>tfw you tell her how you feel about her and she says "i'm sorry....."
Don't look at her media bro trust me. It will crush you. Block all that shit and it will speed the process of getting over her.
She had the courtesy to let you down nice and didnt call you a psychotic freak? REEE normie
Get over it lmao. Live your damned lives for yourselves.
Honestly brah, you're going to get rejected more than you won't be. That is just the nature of the game. Women have tons of guys chasing them, they can be picky. If they don't wanna go out with you forget about them and move on.
No where will you find a rule that says you can't be a dog. Try and get it in with any girl you find remotely attractive. If you try enough times, you will have successes. Who knows, maybe one of the girls you smash is cool and you'll want to stick with her.
It might be a blessing in disguise that I've never had any kind of relationship with a woman. I don't think I could handle actual heartbreak and I would just use it as an excuse to kill myself.
>tfw you say we should take things to the next level and she says "LMFAOOOOO you thought there was something between us?"
unironically this
Delete this
Fuck, dude....
This. But not ironically
What do you mean they hold it over you?
Not him but it opens you up to teasing and ribbing ahout your failure. I guess it's some sort of shit test to see if you're a bitch
It gets easier OP, each rejection hurts less. One day it will get so easy that you will realize what a idiot you were for caring about that in the first place.
People who say rejection is no big deal have not had to deal with the effects of cumulative rejections. Over time it wears you down to the bone.
Resident Jow Forums 53 year old boomer here,
She rejected you because you're a whiny little needy clingy faggot and she's too young to be your mommy.
>Get heart broken 4 years ago
>tfw haven't pursued or even trusted a girl since that time
I feel like that's gonna be me soon, help
Then make he regret it, and move on
>tfw lifting wont make me unreject her
i want to end it lads
I never do friendship with those who rejected. I just don't talk and give them silent treatment. This is the best thing to do.
>Then make her regret it
Exactly how Einstein?
petty
haha just be yourself
Maybe don’t hang around shitty people? Honestly you sound like a pussy. My friends try to do stuff like that with me but I just throw it back at them and we all have a laugh
I have been rejected probably two dozen times and have had maybe one or two success. It has gotten easier for me
criminal activity
Success is the best revenge.
Im not (you) but, its not even being petty, sometimes its just not appealing to befriend the opposite gender that you're clearly sexually attracted to but they aren't attracted to you. Youl have nothing in common with normie level non intimate chemistry while they cuck you by eventually fucking someone more attractive than you. Literally no point.
That's cause you shit where you eat
>I have been rejected probably two dozen times and have had maybe one or two success.
Yeah, and there are people here who have been rejected three, four, five, dozen times with NO success.
only a fucking beefer would consider that petty
>rejects you after series of advancements on her part
What the fuck did she mean?!
you were a bench nigga
Saddest dubs I ever had to check.
>be me
>last summer finally /make it/ with the software I constantly develop and ship
>drop out of school to do it fulltime
>lift and run literally all day bc I have nothing better to do
>get in the best shape of my life
>suddenly realize that I've stopped talking to all of my friends and now I'm completely alone
guys help
>go out with girl
>shes a shitty gf (always working, depressed all the time)
>break up with her
>she asks if we can still be friends
>"I don't see the point"
was I the asshole in this situation?
checking you back because I been there too nigga
thinking you could break up and stay friends is naive at best, idiotic at worst
This is true suffering
nope. Giving a beefer a dose of the same ruthless pragmatism they use to exercise hypergamy.
Checking you checking him for checking you
>tfw she gets a DUI and her cousin dies in a car accident
Fuck this is getting pretty based.
Check'd
Not check'd
>tfw same feel but her boyfriend is 40 years old with a dad bod
>*Nervous smile after you ask her out* Sorry user I have a boyfriend
>Oh ok *nervous smile back and say goodbye*
>Hear your co workers laughing on your way out
And thats how I started my conquest to be Jow Forums. Fuck lowering your standards just bring your self up to a standard.
I know that feel.
>co-workers
and this is where you fucked up
take the Jow Forumspill user, anything you do for an employer can be done as a freelancer
>tfw losing my v card today
i made it
When she cancels because she’s “busy” but is hanging out with Chad later that day
>She rejects you, but asks if you can still be friends
>No
It's a bittersweet feeling.
>tfw just threw out my body pillow because it had yellow sweat staind embedded on it
>Dating coworkers
>the next time she's around you she pretends to be talking on her cell phone and not notice you
living rent free in her head while she lets a 40 year old guy climb on top of her with his loose skin and old balls. gross. don't even give a fuck about deleting her from social media I just want to watch this train crash.
My friends were trying to hook me up with one of their qt friend
"Come on he's lonely"
"And forever lonely he shall be"
Still stings after all these yrs.
Lel, been there.
>ex dumps me
>"can we still be friends?"
>"no"
>despite saying no, she messages me often afterwards
>end up getting together and doing fwb for a month
>she gets all clingy and wants to get back together
>"no"
What guys say is true, they always come back at some point. It kinda fizzled out when she got tired of me literally never messaging her. Women are one big meme.
I had a golden rule to never do this but she was leaving at the end of the year because of college so I figured it'd be okay. Still mad I fucked up that rule and chances are she'll be back when she goes on summer break next (hopefully i'm gone by then)
>Rejects you
>user we should be friends
>Also user I will secretly distance myself to prevent my future bf from getting jealous of our friendship and thus killing it.
This is fucking great advice. Seriously, there's literally no reason to keep up on what your ex is doing. Out of sight out of mind. It is so much easier to forget about them when you aren't seeing them and don't know what they are up to.
Your friends are jackasses. Saying bullshit like he's lonely instead of talking you up.
Seriously, almost just as dumb as when you're like the fifth wheel in a group and the women tell their fat ugly friend to meet up and they try to force you to engage so that they can feel good about themselves.
This. Checked up on my ex 3 or 2 uears after we were done and she is dating a fake ass wannabe slim shady and has been getting fat.
>What guys say is true, they always come back at some point.
I'm waiting for mine to come back so I can show her my fit new body and say 'no' again. When she starts crying and tries to hug me, I'm gonna start autistically dabbing.
I'm still going to hate it because I wish [spoiler]she was the girl I knew when I first met her[/spoiler].
Yeah, that too.
>says she’s too damaged to date me
>want to date a guy because he’s pretty and got long hairs
Why the fuck did she accept my advances in the first place. I instantly got feels after knowing her more closely.
>friendship with women
Who would want any of that one-sided bullshit? Every other thing they say starts with "user, can you do me a favor"
Get fucked. Only friends I have as girls are chicks I've stuck my penis in or my friends' girlfriends/wives.
>>TFW
This thread is now a post girls that rejected you thread
Are you me?
You did the good thing. I said yes and im a fucking moron.
>the feels never go away
>the more you’re around her, the more you suffer and the more she see you as a friend
>We’re too good friends to block contact now
I regret it so fucking much. I feel like a beta orbiter.
Some woman are more than a hole user. I miss our friendship more than the potential of fucking her again. Probably one of the few people I met in my life that weren't normie nor a sheep.
would you two stop being each other for once
Feels good knowing someone knows that feel bro.
>tfw my abs did not impress her
I feel similarly. I think I'll have to give it some thought if/when I make some social gains. Stay strong m8, life doesn't end at 40.
>ask her to go somewhere and she gives me a bullshit excuse
>steps around me and bends over
>sperg out and start walking away
>she freaks out and looks worried, says maybe another time
not sure what happened, but I wonder if I fucked that up. She had a boyfriend but we were flirting.
>tfw your gf left you for a friend who talked shit to her behind your back
And they're doing better than me. What do you know aboug suffering?
Aye they were drunk. And they didn't know I was eavesdropping.
Yea, but usually I get treated like a surrogate boyfriend and that's when I drop them.
Saying yes is always a mistake. Just prolongs the hurt. You should cut it off now, user.
It hurts.
>five years since oneitis rejected me
>still khhv
>invit her at my place
>she arrives late and look nervous as fuck
>’tell myself damn she’s really into me!’
>confidant as fuck
I now realise she didnt want to be there and was uncomfortable because of her past trauma.
>Surrogate boyfriend
Yikes, that some shit I should of realized sooner. Thanks for your wisdom fren.
If she really is depressed that's the best thing you could have done
that's disappointing. those traumatized whores usually feel more comfortable around older ass guys that look like the dad that never gave them attention.
BASED
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>Who would want any of that one-sided bullshit?
Got two good girl friends. Neither friendship is one-sided. The rest of my female """"""friends"""""" try that but I just ignore them.
>Never lose virginity in high school because weird, acne riddled teenager
>Because of this, my self esteem was ruined and I view myself as incredibly unnattractive
>Had multiple girls pursue and initiate with me
>Never end up fucking them (Even though i could have) because I was afraid they'd notice I'm a virgin
>Afraid word would spread if I fucked them
WHY DID YOU MAKE THIS THREAD OP?
WHY DO YOU HAVE TO REMIND ME?
OH NO NO NO
WHY COULDN'T SHE LOVE ME BACK
>lifting won't make her straight
she confides in me her advances and deep feelings with women
feels goodbad man
>be alone at café
>girl come and sits with me, start talking, maybe things are finally looking up
>female friend comes over and sits with us
>the girl leaves
>friend jokes that she just cockblocked me
>she came over just to show me that my ex is now engaged
Get a new perspective dude. I was in a deep depressed state for around two years after I got rejected when I was certain I had it. It's been almost five years since it happened and that event in my life gave me so much fire and drive to better myself in multiple areas of my life. Rejection can be a big deal depending on the situation, but any negative event in your life with that much impact has just as much potential to change your life for the better in the future.
Also try looking outside your social circle.
man I was about to be angery that you're complaining when a girl comes up to you but you got boned there
don't give them any headtime my man, her ex is gonna have a better looking partner too
user it's only been 2 years since I've been heart broken and I'm going down the same exact path, i think I'm gonna ride this one solo
do lsd
>run into qt I haven't seen since the semester ended
>try to get her number
>says she doesn't give out her number because she's not looking for a relationship
I mean, at least I tried right?
In high school my sister told me "just go for it user, it's not a big deal don't worry so much!"
Then I asked out one of her friends while she was having a sleepover and suddenly it was a big deal.
*high-fives you*
exactly
>Two years without the smell of her hair
I have meet nothing but thots ever since.
Maybe this is the year...
>while she was having a sleepover
that's the issue user
get rid of your actual autism