Gf of 5 years died suddenly yesterday

Thanks bros. I just dont want to go to the gym and break down crying. She was the same age as zyzz when he died
House fire

Sorry man. Keep your head up. You are gonna make it.

she would have left you either way

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>i just don't want to go to the gym and break down crying

dude, if you break down crying it doesn't fucking matter honestly. You're gonna need to cry A LOT over the next few months. Anybody who judges you for crying over your lover who passed away isn't worth caring about.

that being said, please, just please get therapy. I can't and most human beings in the western world can't comprehend the type of pain you're feeling.

>implying he wasnt the chad

holy fuck user. it's alright to not go if you prefer to stay away for awhile but it's also fine to break down crying.

Incel detected

it's gonna hurt user, probably for years

fuck man, hang in there.
Speaking about it helps as other user said go to the therapist or share your feelings in here there will allways be someone willing to listen.
Love ya bruh!

so how long was she usable downstairs if you get what im implying here fren

I know that feel bro.
Had a good friend commit suicide one night. Find him hanging there when I knocked on his door the next morning. We used to lift together everyday and were housemates.
No one can deny that it hurts friend. I reccomend seeing an counselor and doing your best to continue going on with you life. I cried in the gym a lot when I started lifting alone. Continuing on with my life was hard but it helped a lot. Please start seeing a therapist for me user, I promise you’ll feel better.

>mfw thinking of you crying

jesus thats though.

Are we suppose to sympathise or sth?
Fuck off faggot

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Fuck man that's sad. Fight on

Why would you ask here? Most of these people never had or girlfriend or any meaning relationship for that matter

Wtf happened user? Story? Rip

The Armenian dude? Damn

So? Loss is something most people experience at some point in their lives

kill yourself user
for real
i guarantee no one will miss you

It's good you are asking for help OP, but Jow Forums is not the place for it despite how unsurprisingly supportive the people have been so far.
Speak to you friends, parents, siblings and a councillor if financially viable for you. I'm sure there must be free helplines available for people who suffer sudden bereavement.
Do not worry about missing gym sessions though friend, your mental health is far more important.

Being in a relationship for a long time is like walking hand in hand into a valley. Over time and day by day the valley gets deeper the longer the two of you have been together walking the same path. It's hard dealing with loss like that. There isn't any way you can remain emotionally stable when suddenly you look up and realize you're in this deep valley without your loved one where everything seems so foreign and detached. Grieve as you need, go outside and be with people who care about you and if you can live your life as the best man you can be because you know she would want you to do that. Take care user.

>gf died suddenly in a house fire

I don't believe you but sorry if it did happen

I don't know what to say, user. If it helps, try to keep busy and still go to the gym. Don't become a shut-in. Only a sperg or incel will judge you for grieving for your gf.

Last words were:
"We don't need no water let that motherfucker burn".

It's tragic.

>that edgy zoomer in his first summer on Jow Forums

"yeah im starting highschool and im pretty sure im the strongest one there"

Fucking running to pay some stranger to hold your hand. Embrace your emotions and process them. Time will heal your little pussy ass.

Mad normie lmao

>normie

See a therapist and talk about it with them. People here won't know what to tell you to help get yourself back up.

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we are here for you user

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>House fire
roastie got toastie

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i swear to god these fucking zoomers, everything is therapy. 2/3 of fucking kids these days go to therapy for the most retarded reasons

not saying for OP to stay alone, best thing is seek comfort being around people who care about him

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Holy fuck user

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>How long do these feelings usually last?
literally the rest of your life

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i'm sorry for your loss user. it's okay to be sad, it's normal especially after a loss. all that maters is that you don't give up. it's cliche but true. she wouldn't want you to give up. she loved you user, go live your best life possible and do it for her. she'd want you to be happy

>same age as zyzz when he died
the fact that this even came into your head shows how Jow Forums you are, possibly in body, but for sure in mind
Talk to people. Take your time, but don't make it last forever. It's alright to feel everything you're feeling.

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fuck user I'm sorry. F

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The day my dad died of cancer I went to Jiu Jitsu training . It's almost like hyper emotional people act irrationally

Only fags cry pussy

Sorry user, truly. Stay strong. Check out meditations by marcus aurelius.

Best wishes

KEK

> BURN MOTHER FUCKER, BURN!

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Idk, an anonymous forum is a good way to vent to the world.

this is disgusting, and you should feel bad

F

>My gf and I have been together three years and I don't know what I would do without her.
what a fucking loser. then i guess youre gonna be pretty crushed when she breaks up with you huh

agree. Friends and shit will say the basic stuff. What they are saying is "this is the response a good friend has and I'm maintaining our relationship". user board makes it so people with 0 interest in you can just connect on the principle alone

Dont be sad its over, be glad it happened.

>i swear to god these fucking zoomers, everything is therapy. 2/3 of fucking kids these days go to therapy for the most retarded reasons
Yeah, agree. We boomers were so much better on our own, never resolving any of our issues and just internalizing them and making them our "quirks".
So what if I beat my wife every week, it keeps her in check, heh heh. And my sissy son doesn't deserve anything he doesn't earn himself. Yeah, my father was a banker, why? Yeah, I inherited this big house, why? Well, I WORKED for what I have! That lil motherfucker gotta learn to respect his elders or else his ass will end up on the street. God I hate kids. Why did I ever make em.
Oh, no, no, you don't understand - kids are the most wonderful thing in the world! :^} you will understand one day, bucko.

Brb gotta binge drink and beat my wife again

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>what a fucking loser. then i guess youre gonna be pretty crushed when she breaks up with you huh
T. Never been in love

Fucking hell. That is nightmarish.

My condolences.

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You might not eat for a fortnight, but your body will just kick in and force you.

Plus you will look great on this cut, you might even get some sympathy sex!

This is terrible man. You are stronger than you think, fight

I've never had someone close die to me, but recently went through a rough breakup where I had to cut off a girl who loved me so much but just couldn't trust me, no matter what. But I can tell you that when it comes to loss you just have to keep going through the motions of life. Get up. Make food. Lift. Go to work. Others will understand and having other people to talk to helps so much. People are social animals, and any sentient animal feels loss. When I was a kid we had 4 pet rats, and when one of them died, the other ones would regress socially and only cuddle with each other and never really want to do much for awhile. People are pretty much the same way. Nothing is going to change the fact that she's dead and you'll want to hold her in your arms every second of your life for the next few months, but eventually, you have to get back on your feet. Your future isn't up, and it is now your duty to live your best life for your sake and hers. We're all with you OP

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You'll never get over it.
But if stay in shape, hike with lsd, and date you'll find someone who is awesome that you can fuck