How does a woman know when a guy’s worth dating?

How does a woman know when a guy’s worth dating?

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they dont.

women dont think they act on impulses

Care to expound, friend?

Until you put forward the effort to look approachable, presentable, and can hold some command over social interactions without losing your spaghetti the ones worth fucking around with probably wont. Also important to come off as a individual person who has interests and facets beyond trying to get into some thot's pants. You know, more than "whoa, really? totally! we're sooo alike!" That's well and good but you have to understand sex and courtship is a process of elimination for the few you -actually- want to have your penis or bank account near to. While this retard is correct to an extent there isn't some mysterious combination of insertions, clothing and manerism that will allow you to land a girl you actually want in your life to any extent beyond your average thot. You might have better luck with said thots if you focus solely on things like fitness, modern fashion and being able to interface with the average social circle/interaction of the modren day, but you have to ask yourself if that's actually what you want. If it isn't, you're going to need to focus on making yourself as a whole a better person; physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, whatever. You can settle for thots or go for the gold, but one way or another to be around someone all the time, to give a shit about their feeling or comfort takes effort. Consider that too, to give a shit about another human is a performative emotion, and that strain only increases the more you care. How invested to you want to be, and in return how invested do you want your parter to be in you?

tl:dr You're being a fucking frog, stop it.

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I don't know about other women, but I observe how he acts when he is not trying to impress me or get in my pants. I observe how he treats people he can't get anything from.

Boy what a relevant thread, blogging time.
>be friends with girl at uni
>one day ends up sleeping over
>continues a couple more times, tell her i like her
>says she got out of a long relationship and isn't emotionally available, but will continue to hang out and fuck around and if something comes from it so be it
>told me I was her 12th partner
Now this is prob where I fucked up, knew I shouldn't have invested, but did anyways
>knew she got out of a 2 year relationship so i figured she could commit if she wanted to
>go on more dates
>have to leave over summer for 6 weeks teaching english
>continue talking on sc the whole time, sending each other hearts, kissing faces, etc
>came back, went on a date Tuesday, acted all cuddly and shit
>just told me today she slept with other people while I was gone
Fuck bros all I did was show how good of a partner I'd be, guess she was still "emotionally unavailable"
/blog

When he shows up in a nice car.

This nigga right.

>told me I was her 12th partner

You're a retard. "Emotionally unavailable" translates to "I'm going to sleep with other guys, including you, until someone I like, that's not you, comes along." Are you surprised? If you never agreed on something exclusive, you're a retard for being surprised and hung up about this. What were you expecting? You're her 12th partner. Did you magically think she'd wait for you, not having sex with others?

>Fuck bros all I did was show how good of a partner I'd be, guess she was still "emotionally unavailable"

Did you think she'd magically change her mind? You sound like one of those "nice guys" that's some girl's emotional support and puts up with her shit, hoping she'll dump her ass of a boyfriend when she realizes just how nice you are.

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When he's already with another woman.

why do women pretend guys want to be just friends

never trust a woman bruh, specially one that has over 5 partners

When they feel that he is desired by other women, too.

This, fucking hell. Why do woman have such herd-mentality?

quads of truth

The mate selection process is much faster if other people have already validated someone as a good mate.
Before someone argues the reverse, women are the choosers, not the other way around. Men are designed to be the disposable sex.

Checked.
And its true, never trust anyone especially girls until they have proven their worth

How would a female know that a guy’s been validated by other females? Do women have some sort of telepathic ability that allow them to know if other women like a certain guy or something?

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Through social media, duh.

millions and millions years of evolution.
It's literally what they are best at - picking up clues if other women regard the male in question as high status

They don't, it's bitter men here who got their feeling hurt trying to write shit

>told me I was her 12th partner
>have to leave over summer for 6 weeks
>just told me today she slept with other people while I was gone
So surprising.

>How would a female know that a guy’s been validated by other females?
If he already has an attractive girlfriend.
Other than that reputation.

But what about in different circumstances? Like, what if the setting were at a gym?

Imagine two identically looking males. You don't know anything about them beyond the fact they're both tall, handsome, dressed well, etc.
The first guy has a beautiful girlfriend and other attractive women flirt with him.
The second guy is single and you don't know anything about his relationship past.

Which one do you think a woman would consider a better partner?

>But what about in different circumstances? Like, what if the setting were at a gym?
She won't be able to determine these things at the gym. She can't see if you're desired by other women. She can't even determine your financial status by your clothes or car or watch or whatever.

Actually there's one scenario. If that man is visibly being orbited by one or a couple of attractive women in the gym, looking for "advise", they're approaching him, that could signal to that other woman that this man is desirable. He has already been approved by other (attractive) women.

your mom

Good post

If a guy has a girlfriend he is more desirable. I know because whenever I'm single I can't get any casual pussy but whenever I have a girlfriend it gets thrown at me by different women.

There's also talking amongst friends..in a group women will rate men and they will start playing games with each other to get the best man for themselves to show they have a higher standing in their meaningless little group.

Because in some cases they really think it's true. You have to understand what behavior and social interaction a girl associates with romance and courtship is chosen ages before you're ever in the picture. I know as a man it seems really obvious to you what constitutes the difference between social interaction and social interaction with intent to smash, but in reality that's honestly a grey area that's determined by everyone's individual perspectives on romance or courtship. What you might think is coming on strong might be her jovial social interaction. This is exacerbated by the fact that some girls are aware of this(that other girls are clueless retards) and bandwagon that psychological perspecive as a defense mechanism. It's all fun and games until you make the wrong move and then it's "Oh I never even thought you thought about me like that!, sorry im not looking for that/etc". So that's where that comes from.

>Did you think she'd magically change her mind? You sound like one of those "nice guys" that's some girl's emotional support and puts up with her shit, hoping she'll dump her ass of a boyfriend when she realizes just how nice you are.
Kek this

Stfu niggers

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based riley poster

>wow, like, um, if he treats wait staff good then he's a good one xDD

As if basic human decency is an exceptional trait.

You sound like you're a pussy s o i b o i

Same. One of the things I like to see how they treat other people who aren’t his family or friends.

Pretty much completely absent on Jow Forums, which strangely correlates with the unusual amount of (bitter) virgins on here