The feels bar is open. Come on in

Not him, but i guess it is snapchat what he means.
user is about to send some nudes

>meet ex-gf after a year without seeing her
>she says that no other man she’s been with since comes close to me and that she’s worried that she’ll forever compare every man to me and that they’ll always lose
>accidentally admits she’s still in love with me
>she asks me if I feel the same way
>I say ‘no haha’
>tfw I really meant ‘yes haha’

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It is better this way, user

Finally found the courage to ask out a qt in person and it worked.

We texted for literally a day and she already stopped texting me. I didn't even think it was going bad.

It's only been a day since she hasn't responded so maybe there is still hope but I don't know why she'd wait.

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Based tbell

it's highly unlikely i'll ever find a girl like her again.

The only woman I've ever had strong romantic feelings for hasn't talked to me in a month. We started out as friends, I fell in love, things got sexual, but she never felt anything for me. She led me on, used me, cheated on me, and I kept coming back like some kind of retard. It just feels awful because I've literally never loved anyone before, and the one time I do fall in love it has to be with a deranged, psychotic, bipolar, nutcase. I'm not even sure why I feel so strongly about her. It's all subconscious. In my head I can't justify my feelings. And even after everything she put me through, I'm still madly in love. Guess I'm just too weak for this earth
youtube.com/watch?v=xuqYe2zjwZ8
The only thing that helps anymore is lifting and black metal. They're cathartic.

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No. All I want, is her love

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I dont know whether I should cut or bulk

Also feeling anxious as fuck right now, don’t know why. The chest pain just keeps on coming

In the end I know you’re right. Tearing yourself away from something like that is hard and can take years of effort. Even now as I try to forget her, she still lingers behind every thought and every dream.

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Based

Then you can only lose, think about it

If you aren't at 1/2/3/4, bulk

Don’t text, just organise date, much better friend.

Girl text friend all the time. You want to be friend of girl? No! You want to fuck girl! Fuck, not friend, friend!

I didn't even know her, I cold approached because I knew she worked at a store and I thought she was a qt. You can't just walk up to a girl you don't know and organize a date, can you? How?

Based mongoloid

It's been 2 weeks since finger sprain recovery. I can fully open/close now so going to start forearm shit for now with legs. Gonna start doing some boomer mowing tomorrow as well, I have a driving mower, but I'm gonna do it old-fashioned to train my wrist.

Look, what is problem? You meet me, you meet Sergei, we are all friends now. Wait, hang on…please! Another drink for my new friend! Anyway, like I say, is one hour maximum drive only. I take you in my car, no problem. Is BMW five-series. We take pills on way, you feel very, very good when we arrive. Like on fire, but nice. You know? Vanya is also my friend, he is very good DJ. He is spinning best house music and we will dance all night. Best music, best pills, best girls, best champagne, everything the best. We go now, okay?

Oh shit user, i know that feel.
>New girl shows up at work
>Great another woman I'll never talk to
>She keeps hitting on me
>Get very close together
>Spend most of our day together
>Tons of sex
>After two months she leaves
>Calls me and tells me she was cheatong her boyfriend back at home with me
>Pathetic old me kept trying to get back at her

I actually made decent advances and i believe she broke with her bf, however i started to think that if she cheated on me once what will stop her from doing it again? Also, i was devastated when i received that call and I don't think it would be healthy to be in a relationahip with someone who is more concerned about her happiness than yours. She still texts me every now and then, comments in my normiebook, but i decided the best thing to do is to let go.

I know how you feel user, seems lile she was the only one that could ever love you, you think of her every waking minute.
Be strong, think logically, use this time for professional, spiritual and physical growth. Remember the great moments you spent with her and learn from the bad ones.

Based. Protip with women, if she cheats once she'll cheat again

I don't know man. It seems easy on paper. But every time I look at another girl I find myself comparing them to her. I can't stop thinking about her, I dream about her at least every few nights. I genuinely thought I was incapable of love before I met her. And now I have no confidence or motivation to talk to other women. I feel like I'm stuck. I mean, I know it's literally as simple as stopping being a little bitch. That's all I have to do. But it seems so daunting.

I know that feel

I've had it, Jow Forums. I'm sick of being tangled up in this world of degenerates without any sense of morals, duty, or even self-worth. And I'm sick and tired of being a slave to this system that consistently hates everyone involved. I want out. I want to transcend all of this. I want to go beyond all of the pornography, masturbation, chemicals, plastic, asphalt and all the onions. I want to live as a man, not a cog in some machine, made to be replaced.

You have to stop being a sad cunt and start to being more like a sick cunt breh, jokes aside you have to fake it till you make it my man just keep doing the things you would do if like this never happened I'm sure you are still going to feel bad and all but this is to keep you busy, keep lifting and eating well, use your anger to fuel your work outs and be the best man you could be, if you can do this you will not only make it genuinely but girls 10 times better than the former thot would fall into your arms, godspeed my friend

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>get girlfriend
>love her
>she loves me
>its all great
>but..
>gets lots of attention on social media
>she likes the football (soccer) players pictures on instagram from her school and they like her back
>forever insecure but don't show it, just eats me away from inside

>Been 1 year of consistent lifting since my ex broke up with me.
>Confidence was slowly building up throughout the year
>Hit it off with QT at college summer party
>Forget to take her name/number
>Find her on FB
>She rejects me

Oh ok..

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yikes, instahoe is a red flag

I know this exact feel.

le spotted cow pepe

The rarest of pepe

>kicked out of army for injuring myself, they give me nothing for two years of service
>my shitty personality deflects all girls who were interested in me
>fucking alone all the time, have nothing to do but lift
>Constantly think about my fuckups and still look at the profiles of the girls who used to be interested in me and pray that I may have another chance

Why do I do this to myself. Why can't I just act like a normal functional human being and not be an asshole to my friends. I don't mean to be but I just end up alone all the time

I've decided that I want to homestead in rural Maine. I'd like to start my own town, a ways away from all this garbage, but that requires significantly more capital than I possess. I just want a loving wife, several kids, and a nice brick house. This society hates that idea and that disgusts me to the core. Everyone I talk to tries to talk me out of it and it only enrages me and makes me more determined that my dream is true.

I only started working out in February and I'm trying to keep positive but everyone around me is being really sarcastic when commenting on my body and lifestyle, I feel good about myself for the first time in years but I can't shake the feeling that I just look like a goober to everyone around me
Fuck dudes I don't know

Sam Adams. Not as depressing or major...

So 4 days later after getting support from his friends (same friends who told him his last 2 exes were indeed a good option to date, even though he hate both of them now), my friend/roommate wants to take me up on my offer that I could clean our apartment kitchen in 45 minutes when we leave, minus the oven cycle. Fridge, walls, floors, cabinets, and so on. Proposed this offer when he suggested that I don't clean and it'd somehow take 3 hours. I originally thought he dismissed it, and now he's saying all his tard friends thinks it's stupid. Now I'm in a struggle to actually take the offer as A) I know he'll go bitching to those same friends to try and win, and B) I have to figure out a way around them. Gonna talk to our front desk and see how the fines work for things that aren't cleaned up. If I can't get the office on my side, then I don't wanna take the offer cuz of his Jewish tricks. At the ame time, he won't ever STFU about it and he's THAT guy. The guy who bought a Challenger and CONSTANTLY talks about how he wants to rub it in our class's face at our reunion. The guy that thinks he's hot shit for making 50k at 23 (I'm around 45k and most of our other friends are in the 40-45k range as well)

Might sound like a bitch, but if it's the worst thing I complain about, my life ain't too bad

I know its hard, it's been two years of that encounter and i still think of her every day.
But like i said, think logically.

Eventually something will happen that will make you forget her, no reason to be deprrssed about it until that happens, women dont like pathetic cunts.

okay

Can fake it till you make it help if you're 21 and you've never kissed a girl? Like let's say I manage to get back to a girls place, but I have no clue how to initiate. Do i just fucking wing it? I feel like that would end with her laughing at me and kicking me out lmao?

Had one of the most fucked experiences of my life happen last night.

>be dating summer gf for 3 months
>she gets hammered last night, crying telling me she loves me
>gets more hammered, tells me she cheated on all her past bfs
>later in the night shes more drunk, outside dancing by herself to music from her phone
>refuses to go in unless I fuck her, strips butt naked
>starts giving me head, falls over and bites my dick, hurts like hell
>keep banging, go inside to living room area (I live in barracks)

Wierd part:
> shes talking about how when I find out Im fucking her im gonna kill me, to me, while im having sex
>literally "hes gonna fucking kill you" over and over again, the lights were out for this
>nut, turn on lights and ask her wtf shes talking about
>cue stuttering mess
>drive her drunk ass home after more stuff happened

So wierd, third person talking about me killing me while im fucking her.

drop it like its fucking hot dude, jesus

Yeah that's wife material

same but sometimes the feels come back and catch me off guard

I get that. Nice to hear you're determined though, and I hope you keep that positive attitude moving forward.
Personally I'm trying to blast myself into space.

You learn from it, bro

Unless you're both a teenage couple who dont know what the fuck they're doing, everyone had a shit first date.
Anxious, saying stupid stuff, not sure what to do next

You dont learn how to use a bike as soon as you ride it, you fall a lot before learning what the fuck you're doing, then it comes natural

>Have no girlfriend
>No motivation to do anything, just laze around all day
>Have a girlfriend
>Suddenly I'm fully motivated to improve myself and my life

Why does this happen?

Going to join a bunch of clubs and try to make friends when school starts back up. Any advice?

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same man. exactly same dream brick house and all
i'm studying for a high paying career and will just dedicate to acquiring land and making a small haven for my family and friends who want to join me

Because you like girls you retard

got burned by a couple women last night.

Why not move to the suburbs, guys?
They are still a decent option out of this 1st world shithole

Maybe even iceland/Japan

That's the entire point of fake it my man, I'm a virgin myself and I can talk to girls just fine now, I can make them laugh and flirt with them, even managed to have 3 girls interested in me. What's worked for me is to get into nihilism, what's the worst it could happen? She might reject you, she might laugh at you or anything that you are afraid of but, so what? We are all going to die anyway so just go for it my man. Godspeed bro

Seems like the more I get fit the less i'm interested in fucking women and actually chase traps
So, pretty bad

that was my idea too, but it seems like it's just not gonna work out. Who knows though

I have my first girlfriend in 4 years, so that's nice.
I already know she's bad with money. Like REALLY bad. Like she works at Starbucks and leases an Audi even though she's going to have $100K in student debt when she graduates.

If I knock her up I'm FUCKED.

Snap streak with oneitis right after she broke up with her boyfriend. Thought I was in for sure so I asked her out and she dodged the question. Still snapped with me every day, morning and night even when she was with friends so thought maybe she was still interested but just unsure. Tried asking her out again like a week later. Dodged again but still not denied. Accepted I was in the friend zone and started opening up about my problems and shit, probably a terrible move. She still flirts with me in person and looks at me lovingly but at this point I'm starting to force the feelings away. It's like playing tennis against a wall. Gonna ghost her for a few days and collect my head. Women are not worth this crap.

Is pussy really worth all the potential trouble? Just saying

i live in a 3000 people town in argentine grasslands already
sounds gross man you should just quit her that's fucked up man. sounds like she just wants you for attention, i'd tell her to stop messing around

You are being used as a crying shoulder. She is using you. Don't beat yourself up, not your fault

i was walking my dog in a park and i saw this young couple kissing,I thought about those videos of Elliot Rodger, it gave mee a fucking laugh attack srly, they stare at me like WTF!!?i sperg out and almost go running to my house with my dog, latter i feel sad as fuck. wtf is wrong with me fit???

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I'm tired of being a loser, bartender.

I'm tired of being a beta, a weak skinnyfat, a lazy shit, a shy faggot, I'm tired of being everyone's bitch. I want to be alpha. This year I will be alpha.

I can work on my body and from tomorrow on I'm going to the gym again.

But what can I do to stop being autistic?

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you should have started taking pictures of them and telling them you will put them in your cringe compilation

Well I need to take a dump but the upstairs toilet is broken and my family is all hanging out downstairs.

stay away from those people, find new and real friends

Yea that was my initial thought that she was using me as a bf simulator to fill the void. Of course I like her and I want to make babies with her so I convinced myself otherwise. Should have just used my brain.

Even now when I'm getting rid of the feelings and stopping snapping her I can't help but think that maybe being unavailable will make her want me.

Übermensch here.

Typical women don't meet my high standards. Attractive women expect me to entertain them and waste time on developing a social circle, etc. I have no time for that bullshit because I have a higher purpose in life. I don't have the patience to talk to women anymore, but I still have the urge to bang them.

How do I out of this paradox?

Yeah, I know that feel. Just try and ghost her asap, if you need to block her do so. It hurts like a kick in the balls but it's better to cut contact for your own good

Good luck user

how do I convince my gf to start squatting. she says it hurts her knees too much. i just want her to be a braap hog

you should be at a point where your life is better than hers. only then is steady, casual sex is easy and inevitable

dude bartenders can make good money. you should be perfecting your craft each day trying to become the best at making drinks. then try and score yourself a job at a prime location. if you are a good enough bartender you could work anywhere in the world. people always need to drink

how are you autistic if you're a bartender

She messaged me this morning and I didn't respond. Won't see her again until Wednesday night and don't plan on talking to her until then. Can't really block her because we work together.

Then quit texting and give the cold shoulder treatment. Start distancing.

BEWARE: Whenever you see her you will subconsciously try to win her again, fight that as if you were a heroin addict quitting it.

She will probably notice and ask you about that, dodge her questions as best as you can.

No I think you got it wrong. I was referring to OP as the bartender. I'm not a bartender. I'm a NEET.

A lot of things on the mind user

Mostly wanting to be stronger & not being stronger. And I just moved out of state by choice, which is either terrible timing or great timing bc I'm about to start my senior year of high school. One of the big reasons I moved is bc my stepdad lives up here & I always feel like I get treated better when I live with him. Not to mention he's dating this grill who's got kids & it's nice to feel like I'm part of a family for once. But I feel like the worst friend ever for just leaving at such a random & unexpected time. Another reason I moved is bc I had the opportunity to train at a real nice powerlifting gym instead of a run down YMCA, and I didn't wanna let that opportunity slip by. I'm in my senior year of hs and I still don't know what I want to do with my life yet. I just tell all the people who ask that I wanna do a trade. I have a job interview tomorrow at Target and I don't know how to prepare or what to expect. On the upside of things, I just got back from a real nice vacation with stepdad's side of the family. And just before we left, I ended up finally climbing my way back up to a 405x5 deadlift again (too bad i weigh 270, but im in the process of cutting, was 295 back in may)
I got so much more on my mind but I don't wanna spend all night typing it out. Thanks for making this wonderful thread (i mean bar) user

oh lol, fucking get a job pussy

If I had to do it over again I would try and go for a trade or work on a deep sea oil rig. There are a ton of manly fucking trades you could pick up that pay good money. You have literally nothing to lose except gaining a fucking cool skill you stupid fag

really want her to go out with me bros
doubt shell want to

The only patron is you. The frog is the collective conscience of fit.

I have put together some stressful facts about my life and the reason why i am the way i am

I have unlocked the key to my mind, and i can only think of ending it since i am so mentally behind everyone else i am tired of life

Wow rude. I'm Jewish so I would have to become a doctor or a lawyer or something. Manual labor is for the goyim.

You should just become a banker then, you make money through usury, definitely your style

Ooh, how nice to see Frogs and Feels Bar opening up again. Haven't visited fit for a couple of years, good timing.

I want to take the time and thank fit motivate me throughout the years. I went from scrawny to ottermode, shy to confident, virgin fappster to cuntslayer and eventually, my first relatioship.

I made it, fit. What I was originally terrified of attempting became reality. Fail repeatedly, learn along the way, keep improving and you'll get there, familia.

I love you bros,

can you elaborate on how and why you've done this? i experience similar

Forgot my face

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i just wanted to be important to someone or at least feel like someone remembers me

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>tfw 30 yo loser still living at home

idk wtf do guys

I do not want to be made fun of, but what i have discovered is pushing me to suicide and i worry what others will think since they may know this before i realized it and now i can only think of all the respect i have lost from these people because of my mind

at this point, i have observed this event in my life through multiple angles and the proof is so disgusting i am a sick fucking piece of shit

>tfw hate college but a job doing what I love would never pay me enough money

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Jesus loves you bro

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get her to do ass isolations
women shouldnt be lifting too heavy anyways
man nice good for you i'm on my way too
same reeeeeeeee
i wouldnt even mind being poor by myself, but it is my duty and dream to have a family and i wont do that to them
many such cases, they usually live like manchildren until their parents die

What do I say bros

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Solid. Good luck at the interview, user