Some girl at the gym was deadlifting, and she came upto me out of nowhere (never seen her before) and asked me if I could help her strap up, I did, and she asked kept coming and asking me for every set.
It was awkward (but also felt good) for me because she would get into position and I would kneel down and her tits would be in my face.
Why would she do this? did she legitimately need help doing this or was she trying to make hints for me? Sorry I've been a shut-in NEET for a long time, most of my 20s, not much real life experience.
>Why would she do this? did she legitimately need help doing this or was she trying to make hints for me? the answer to this depends on your body fat percentage and your bench 1rm
Ethan Adams
This.
Carter Rivera
30%, 125lbs
Leo Bell
165lbs
10% bodyfat
255lbs 3x5 bench
but I am only 5'7, she was shorter than me though
I think I am just being autistic though, I always think everything is sexual
Chase Morris
rippetoe would be proud
Jaxson Lopez
Ask her in a date next time you see her. >do you want to get some coffee after this? >do you want to get a drink sometime? I'm a dyel neet and this works even for me. All about numbers/trial and error. If she wasn't interested in you who gives a fuck.
William Harris
Try talking to her instead of just being her strap goblin retard. She's giving you the opportunity.
This, give her advice or compliments on her form. Start a casual talk from there
Caleb Kelly
>125 holy wut Weight and hight now
Blake Diaz
Don't sperg out and profess your love to her or ask her out. Just talk to her in between sets about literally anything. From there offer help on any of her other lifts and tell her you're cool with helping her deadlift. Then after talking to her a few times see if she's down to grab food or a drink outside of the gym.
Have you considered interacting with her as though she were a human being? I know, crazy, but it just may work. You may get a gym buddy, maybe even a gf.
William Jackson
Tell you'd like to help her with her strapon too.
Luke Wilson
>maybe even a gf Dont even think about that OP. Go step by step and don't get too hyped up about this, stay level headed.
Leo Anderson
She would come upto me before she was ready for her set and ask me again
I just autistically said “sure” and went over to her and helped her then left and went back to my thing, and she came back 4 or 5 times.
Jace Moore
>I think I am just being autistic though, I always think everything is sexual I fucking feel that
Tyler Jones
imagine being this autistic
Jaxon Ortiz
>Go step by step and don't get too hyped up about this, stay level headed. forget it, OP is already in the clouds
>I think I am just being autistic though, I always think everything is sexual If you are an attractive man then in dealing with women, everything is. No joke. You ain't autistic you just can't believe how deceptive and indirect women are about this stuff. Trust your intuition.
Women are very aware of their bodies at all times, she knows if her titties was dangeling in your face and it wasn't on accident. She would not do that with a inbred nasty uffer
Jaxon Diaz
Did you even get her name? If you didn't do that you're fucking done, pal
Josiah White
no it doesn't her asking for help isn't a marker for her being interested in you, she might be she might not be just the same. do this to find out why she's asking you for help and gauge her response to judge attraction of course. flirt and see if she flirts back this is exactly what you should do op listen to this response only people who don't get laid think girls are taking advantage of them immediately
based reply-all poster, out
John Allen
She gave you 4-5 chances to fucking strike up a conversation, hang around between her dl sets (let's be real, a DL set doesn't take very long), get her number and set something up. You blew it this time, better hope you get another chance/see her again.
Don't get autistic about it, but she's obviously interested. If she's there again at the same time as you, go up to her, talk to her about literally anything relating to what happened ("Hey by the way I'm user, I never got your name. Stacey? Right on, well Stacey I'm on my way out but what's your number? Let's do something sometime" and then text her to arrange a date)
I read al your posts but honestly this shit is too overwhelming for me
I’m 30 and haven’t even had a gf before my mind is locked in the perma HHKV prison and I can’t see myself ever doing any of that stuff
I’m gona be avoiding until death
Robert Richardson
Do you think one day your 10/10 waifu will step up to your door and ring the bell to ask you out? You have to put in the work if you want something, in the end it's your decision. You got a bunch of very good advice ITT, it's up to you to make something from it. You make your own luck.
