G-guys I approached this hot girl sitting in the mall after the gym on pull day with a pump
I was 96% sure I creeped her the fuck out and she even asked how old I was I told her too guess and she said 25. I said 26. Mfw I'm 27 She said >well im 20 Then she just stared at me as if she were creeped out implying something was wrong with that I said >I-its cool with me if it's cool with you Which is a shitty fucking response and spilled spaghetti
Then she asks for my ig >you're probably going to think I'm weird but I don't have one Pretty much dead now
I got her number for coffee sometime and would have bet everything it was fake but WhatsApp verified as real and she responded with enthusiasm
QUESTION should I build some rapport now after a very brief encounter and ask how her summer has been, any trips Or Go direct for coffee date
What would a 20 year old college girl most likely respond best to?
I know nothing will come of this and ghost town is around the corner but I should try
you'll probably sperg out over text like you are right now, just ask if she'd like to go out for coffee or a bite to eat sometime in the next week
Parker Nguyen
ask her some questions and get her talking. dont try to meet up until after you get all the spagehtti out of you.
Robert Howard
considering youre talking to her, its ok
Jonathan Long
>so how long have you been lifting for
David Flores
but dont take too long, by wednesday or thrusday ask her to meet this weekend.
Connor Green
this. Time/place. Remember the rule of 2
Lucas Edwards
N E V E R social text unless she is forcing it. Texting is for arranging dates.
You will never make progress in any relationship with texts. And don't lie you spastic.
Joshua Campbell
>Then she just stared at me as if she were creeped out implying something was wrong with that I said
thats because it is. you're 27 years old stop trying to get girls who cant even drink yet because you want naive ones with daddy issues who cant see what a loser you are you aspie
Ayden Gonzalez
It's not ok. This means nothing. One bad text sends you to ghost town. The margin for error is 0, unironically
Luke Allen
if you got her number, that means she is attracted to you. Of course tho, since you're here asking for help, I doubt you'll even make out with her. You barely had the guts to ask her out. You lack too much self-confidence. I'm not sure if you do deserve confidence tho. That's up to you. It is your own responsibility to know thyself.
Andrew Ortiz
not necessarily. Wait about 3 weeks and then text her again. It show's you dont give af, which can get you back in the game.
Tyler Flores
no its not, shut up boy.
shut up boy
Ryder Perry
>meet person >ask for his instagram
pathetic society. OP, you know she's some instathot. have some self respect
Xavier Torres
t. roastie who already hit the wall
7 year difference is mostly nothing in your 20s and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING once you're over 30. Imagine thinking a married couple at 47 and 40 is weird.
Enjoy your pending suicide at 30 as a childless used up whore. AND IT'S BEAUTIFUL
Caleb Butler
Jesus this isn't hard you autist flirt a little then set the date stop overthinking it girls run on feels
Camden Harris
No matter what happens OP, im proud of you for cold approaching a random girl, vast majority of men can't do that anymore.
Colton Roberts
>grown man in workplace >haha y-y-y-yeah my girlfriend is 20 i cant hang out with her because she has college classes, also i cant go to a bar with her
Wyatt Edwards
You sound like a retard OP. Especially if you consider that "enthusiasm". If she asks you to buy booze for her bounce or just fuck her friends. But you'd probably just be an orbiting faggot
Xavier Morgan
>yeah the only important things for my reliationships are that I can hang out with my gf when she's off work NOT OUTSIDE OF CLASS THAT'S CREEPY also that we go to bars together
what are you a fucking 35 year old brit
Zachary Watson
You've done more than what 99% of guys will never do. If you've done it once, you can do it 100 more times. So don't worry about fucking it up.
Just set up a coffee date for later in the week.
Isaac Bennett
That's pretty much the same situation all through the courting process, you sperg. That's why you're supposed to have made like three more attempts that day.
Justin Ross
>only important things in our relationship oh my god almighty lel what "important things" can a 20 year old slut give a 27 year old man
Ayden Sullivan
I'll just ask her to coffee tomorrow evening for a meetup date of Thursday
Rapport texting after a limited encounter is probably a bad idea
So would it be acceptable if he was 27 in school for his PHD? I don't see what her having college classes has to do with anything, this isn't highschool.
And who hangs out in bars with their girlfriend..that is the last place I'd take my girl for on a date.
Julian Kelly
if she gave you her number and didnt pull the i have a boyfriend treatment she obviously didnt think that badly of you, wait a couple days and text her to take her out. if she says no it doesnt matter, you had the nuts to ask her out the next one will be easier, once again if you creeped her out shed make some excuse and would not give her number. also don't say stuff like your going to think i'm weird, say i dont that kinda shit makes it look like your scared of her approval. you probably are but she doesnt need to know it lmao
Liam Taylor
sex
a good time together doing literally whatever
potentially having a family and future
literally what else can a woman of any age give you, you tryhard faggot
Robert Bailey
because being a grown man nearing 30 and dating a fucking TWENTY YEAR OLD is pathetic
Luis Butler
Just give a Day for the Coffee date that suits you and see if she think the same
Guys on Jow Forums think that the younger a girl you get to date you, the more alpha you are. Guys on Jow Forums would actually like it if America was like Middle Eastern countries where you could marry girls at the age of 9 as a 40 year old man because it would mean "she wasn't a used up past the wall roastie" yet
Angel Wood
Your used up vagina flaps are showing.
Eli Hill
Absolutely literally no guy will ever feel embarrassed to say that. That topic wouldn't even come up. It also implies you hang out constantly with your co-workers and go to bars on the weekends. What kind of a fucking fat loser cunt are you?
Listen to these anons OP. The cold approach is wicked hard. My percentages are pretty low initiating by asking girls to dance at country bars while emboldened by alcohol. They'll be even lower at malls and other commercial spots like that. Just accept that it's a numbers game and even if you get digits/dates you'll still fuck things up. Over time you'll get better though and start slaying keep at it brother you've inspired me to start working on my grocery store pickup game again
Cooper Davis
all me
Hunter Clark
>hanging out with your coworkers makes you a "fat loser cunt"
Graduate high school you child.
Chase Ward
Man you are one butthurt boomer femanon. I'm 28 and my gf is 21 it's really not that big a deal.
Nolan Morgan
just not really true though, women love chatting about stuff.
Logan Evans
Your text implied you frequently go out with co-workers and their partners on the weekends, making you have to explain why your 20 yo gf isn't there
THat scenario, although completely who gives a shit, doesn't even occur for people with normal social lives who have friends outside of work. It also implies you're fat and old in your 40s and go to applebees for happy hour with your co-workers as drag your fat bald hubby along as your big night out of the week
Unironically fucking kill yourself you piece of shit cunt
Carter Butler
Women are just jealous that we aren't slaves to our biological clock. We can focus on ourselves and still date younger/prettier girls than those of our own age.
Adam Martin
Wow, fit sure does get trigged by trolling about an old guy dating a young girl.
I mean shit, I know you guys do it because you are all aspies who were virgins until 25 so you want to try to make up for the lost sex in high school and college by using your money to get them, but holy shit lol
This may be, unironically, the most autistic board on reddit and that includes r9k
>girls younger and prettier than you >you post on Jow Forums
LMFAO
Carson Butler
anyone have the screencap of that guy able to spot/analyze a woman poster, got some telltale signs right here
David Butler
>h-haha I was just pretending joke's on you
while I'm sure everyone here accepted this was a genuine possibility, you basically just outed yourself as being way too emotionally invested and, actually, may genuinely be a woman.
Bentley Thompson
>men dating younger women is a new and recent development only round on fit
Absolute peak delusion and cope from a worthless childless female
>Those in their early 20s have an average age difference in their relationships of about two to three years, but once people get into their 40s, that average age gap increases to about seven years.
Landon Reed
Fucking love when Jow Forums tries to give advice on girls lmao
Bentley Sanchez
> Hey user you got a girlfriend? > yea > how old is she? > 18 > Aren't you like 30? > Yea but it's working out great
All the guys at work secretly or even openly wish they were you and all the girls at work get jelly as fuck and will hop on your dick as soon as it's over.
This is called the dream boys.
Angel Parker
Lmao@ the roastie posting ITT
This. Told my male cousin (who married someone his age and is already 30 now) that I was dating an 18 yo (I'm 26). He was jelly af and says he misses all the prime pussy back in college. Gf also told me her friends wishes they could date someone like me (handsome, fit and financially secure).
Fuck age gap.
Easton Bennett
ask her out for a drink or coffee
Aaron Lee
HAHAHHAHA this fucking coping autist
> iiiiiiiiim 26 dating a hot high schooler and all her high school friends want o date someone as handsome and fit and rich as a 4channer like me
Dominic Barnes
>Implying anyone who browses Jow Forums is a loser >while on Jow Forums
Why are roasties so dumb.
Nolan Sanders
why are you projecting so much? not everyone here is stale like you and some of us have improved a lot in all aspects thanks to this board
Robert Collins
This thread makes me want to focus on younger girls just to piss my own generation's girls off. 28 btw.
Charles Taylor
Just gotta keep your eyes open. There are good younger ones and good ones your own age.
I once filled out a job application form for a ‘young’ startup company where you had to link your ig and fb pages. Needless to say i stopped filling it out