I'm done

I 'm done using porn. It's not fair for my girlfriend and I'm sick of it's grip on my life. I know I'm going to get reported, but I need to make this public.

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ill give you one day before you're back at it

huh that's funny since I'm on day 7

Eat an actual white dog turd
Rooting for you pal, literally just dont watch it

Fack yoo

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:) Just the motivation I need :)

so if I have a fetish for BDSM (male dominating female) where the fuck does that put me. that shit has turned me on since I was little even watching disney movies wit damsels in distress

>my gf doesn't deserve it
Brother I hate to break it to you but while you guys have been dating it's highly likely she's played with herself and thought about hundreds of other dudes who she knows or has seen.

Can't really be mad at her I did the same. We're agreeing to do nofap together.

How do I make this not drive me up the fucking wall? I literally want to kill myself, not exaggerating, when I think about this. I've been going to counseling but my counselor just doesn't get it and wants to focus on social anxiety instead.

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That was my point: she's doing it too so why should you feel guilty
However that fact that you both are doing it together makes it far less cucked.

Realize that sexual desire is animalistic and base in nature and just because you feel desire doesn;t mean you act on it

I don't really feel guilty per say, it;s just kinda wasteful to put so much time and energy to pixels on a fucking screen.

Adapt your expectations to a point that accounts for it so that it reduces cognitive dissonance. All you'll get from a counselor is shaming language since "you're a man who's trying to control your girlfriend's behavior. So you're actually the bad guy, not her." Fuck shrinks.

i already fucked your girl dude, just ask her

>tfw still a virgin
>there's a huge chance, some girl, who you've known at sometime, has flicked the bean about you

What's her name then?

That's almost statistically assured. However the question is whether the woman was hot or not.

I know this, but people do not make the distinction themselves. Wanting a romantic partner is animalistic in nature, wanting to have a considerable social position is instinctual, etc.
What's kinda been working for me is considering the similarities between sexual pleasure and something like eating good food. I don't know why but it helps a little.
The meme that they won't act on it and I shouldn't feel threatened just doesn't help.
You can be with someone that you really like but still wish they were different in some ways. I wish my ex had a nicer ass, was more affectionate, and spat in my mouth. But I didn't fuck different women because of that. So I know it's not threatening. I just don't know why.

Fuck off, some shrinks are great. My counselor is one of the kindest people and has never used such language.

really sorry for derailing/blogposting.

good on you OP, porn is absolute shit for you. I watched hours every night from 13-16 and it definitely fucked me up.

He may be kind but I assure you that he's on the woman's side whenever it comes to relationship issues. That's how it is for every counselor because that's how they're taught to think by the colleges.

He isn't, my man. I know that jews, SJWs, leftist propaganda, etc have a large systematic impact on the perceptions of professionals in general, but with this guy it has never shown.

Any tips on being in a good relationship in general? This is my first relationship

didn't think to ask ;)

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Hi user, first of all it's great that you're asking this in the first place.
One thing that I have learned that I find to be quite important is talking openly about your feelings, and doing so in a way that is not accusatory. So if you feel like, for example, she's been ignoring you, don't say "I feel like you're ignoring me", instead say "I feel kind of lonely sometimes" or something, but maybe word it less faggy.
Communication really is the number one thing. Ask her how she feels about things.
With my last ex, about a quarter of all of our conversations were about our relationship - how we felt how it was going, things we might not like so much and want to change, etc. Never fought once because we settled everything like this.
Don't be afraid of showing your feelings for the sake of being manly/whatever. This is the one person you want to be able to open up to.

Not trying to sound rude or anything but why did the two of you breakup?

Is that the info-pic the one where he starts going off about "the jewwwwws" or is it worth reading?

It's pretty funny. She's gay. Thought she was straight cause she had never been exposed to any gay media etc. Didn't help that she was extremely nervous about physical stuff so it took a lot of warming her up to get to the point where she realized it wasn't her thing. Hope this doesn't invalidate my advice (obviously not my only relationship)

What if I just love normal porn? big tits, ass, etc. I dont know if blowjobs and certain positions i like to see count as fetish or not

It isn't actually that bad on the whole but you still have to look past some Jow Forums bullshit

I just want to know what it's like to reset my dopamine levels. I just want to be able to focus without using stimulants.

But then I remembered that 4'10 thicc Asian qt at the gym who can squat 2 pl8 and fapped to kya tropic who looks close enough.