>want to be big, fit, dominant, masculine, eating right and lifting all the time >also want to be a lazy degenerate trap that just fucks around and does meme cardio
How do I expunge the brain poison of wanting to take the easy way out and embrace the hardship of being a real man?
You could try to do the whole pretty boy thing, like take care of your skin and hair and at the same time get ripped. Then crossdress at cons to fulfill your unwanted pleasures.
They're just fetishes tho, I don't actually want to fuck dudes, I just want a hot chick to dress me up like a chick and shove a dildo in my ass. It fucking sucks too because I enjoy all the classic dom stuff too but it gets exhausting having to be in control all the time. Also anal orgasms are hands down the superior experience.
u gay breh. find some other trap that wanna do this kinda stuff, you can dress eachother up and do shit
Grayson Cook
Pay a dominatrix to do this for you.
Cameron Morgan
>I just want a hot chick to dress me up like a chick and shove a dildo in my ass Oh, I thought we were talking about fucking traps, not being the trap user, you're gay
Angel Ross
i used to get aroused by shit like this i think ive been cured anons i did it
I'm only lifting because becoming a cute trap/twink is impossible. It's the next best thing to me rather than my first choice
John Morgan
you have autogynephilia srs
Ryder Reed
Stop watching porn now
Jaxson Sanders
This is one thing I've actually been a lot better about recently. I used to watch it daily and now I'm down to about once every other week.
Easton Cruz
Are you me? Doesn't help that I'm 196cm. I won't bring Jow Forums into this discussion, but there's a specific reason I feel this way and none of my older family has even heard of this.
Brody Garcia
nofap although most of my fetish was made worse by porn, and there was a couple of underlying factors that made me get it in the first place. once i get rid of them, i should be completely cured
Samuel Bell
This is something I have been doing recently as well, and actually makes the urges more prevalent because of how horny I get. I fap 2 -3 times a week. I think it's also how easy it is to indulge. My collection of clothes and toys aren't going anywhere and there are tons of degenerates on the internet to chat with.
throw everything away before you start fight the urge to look at porn you really have to put your mind to it
of course, your fetish might have been caused by different things, in which case this might not work. but throwing everything out is definitely a good start
Elijah Brown
I feel ya. There's no way I'd ever actually want to indulge this 24/7 because I'm not a mentally ill tranny but it's fun to pretend for a couple of hours at a time. Its definitely a gains goblin fetish because once you start you ain't doin shit for the next few hours.
You guys are retarded. Anal play isn't gay. Liking men is gay. If a woman puts a toy or finger in your ass and you like it = heterosexual. If a man does it = bisexual/homosexual.
Aiden Wilson
To be honest it just sounds like you have FOMO. You should work on your discipline as well as come up with a plan of how you want your life to proceed, then it's simple to follow through. Fucking about is going to get you no where friend.
Brody Ross
>anal orgasms are hands down the superior experience. How does one get one of those? Asking for a friend.
Austin Wright
I hope she's not a trap, because she looks perfect.
Christian Roberts
these
Alexander Thomas
Are you cute? If the answer is no you won't be a qt trap, so you can give it up and follow the healthy dream instead.
Jaxson Roberts
I was raised where the media I consumed actively condemned masculinity, promoted the idea that females deserve (and would even be better in) positions of power. Strong men are a poison, weak men still get the hot girl, and society+laws will attempt to destroy men that doesn't submit. This mindset of being dominated and "you deserve to be punished" eventually seeps into sexuality. I'm not attracted to guys, but I get a subconscious pleasure from being dominated and shamed, so I think a lot of people transition because they can't cope with the paradox of being biologically dominant (as male) but mentally submissive (as female) on every level. The ratio of MtF to FtM being as overwhelmingly heavy as it is makes me think that it is simply social/developmental, not something in the brain like bipolar or genetic like autism.
Ethan Brooks
Ya I guess this is the only real advice I can follow. Like I said earlier I don't actually want to be a trap, I just like role-playing as one.
Stimulate the prostate. Takes about a 6-7 incher to get what you need. Forceful strokes, steady rhythm. It'll give you a new understanding of how women experience sex.
Thomas Gray
>Look mommy, I posted it again
William Jones
Used to like shit like this. Then I started nofap and eating raw onions. No joke it went away overnight.
I have an aneros clone, feels nice but no orgasm. Something to pound with is better in your experience then?
Daniel Miller
Yeah I got a prostate massager hoping for a better experience but it doesn't really quite do it. Maybe after you train your body to have one it can work but what absolutely works is a thinner decently long dildo. You'll know you've hit the right spot when you feel it, it's like one long continuous wave of pleasure that slowly builds and builds as you do your thing.
Too far. Ball slapping is okay because there's no real damage. Hardcore CBT leading to permanent tissue and organ damage is not okay.
Luis Hughes
damn, thots are getting started earlier and earlier these days
Nathaniel Watson
You need to start nofap, or at least noporn asap brother.
Logan Garcia
That slippery slope doesn't apply to me but I have made an association between anime posters and traps
Nathan Bell
that looks like a guy
Benjamin Martinez
Have you read up on autogynephillia? You might be experiencing that, you can overcome it
Samuel Roberts
>Hardcore CBT leading to permanent tissue and organ damage is not okay. Would feel incredible to let a girl do that to you though for her own amusement
I experienced it for about 8 months and overcame it. I actually stopped watching porn, which was easy for me since I had a gf Although that might not work for everyone Have you ever had a fetish before which you grew out of? It could just be a phase which you will get over Don't seek advice about this from /lgbt/ they'll just poison your mind further