best way to meet 18-21 year old women as a 30+ year old?
i just got fit this year and i'm looking to get a girlfriend; the problem is that i'm just not attracted to women over the age of 25 (usually).
do 18-21 year olds dismiss 30+ year olds? what is a good way to meet them and additionally, how can i break the initial barrier where they might think "oh hes too old" or something else disqualifying?
I dont think hard, women date older men and men date younger women. If you work around younger women that will help. Working at a restaurant is always a good because you should be working with a lot of younger women.
>Working at a restaurant
alternatives? id rather not quit my day job
it's**
Only works if you have money and you don't look like you are 40+ (aka no heavy drinking/smoking, in shape).
not happening unless you got lots of cash gramps
tinder
> being this much of a boomer
Short answer: Be rich or successful
Honestly what makes you feel entitled to 18-21 year old women at that age? Literally everyone thinks that 18-21 year old women (people my age) are attractive. You aren't special.
If you can't date someone your own age, look in the fucking mirror. You better be ready to provide something to a 19 year old that a chad her age can't give her. The only thing you can really bring is money, success, a home, etc.
Don't grow a beard, young girls don't like facial hair.
My dad was 45 and he banged a 21 year old for like 3 months, she even moved into his parent's house with him.
The problem with people who deconstruct everything is that they aren't right 100% of the time.
They met at a funeral btw.
>doing something because of a woman
why you looking for dating girls in your 30s. Find someone to marry. Dating is honestly for poor, uneducated and lower class people which is okay if you are in your 20s not in your 30s.
Become a sugar daddy. A few girls I know my age (21) are really into that shit sadly
What's sad about free money from chumps?
Be rich.
Problem solved bro.
>asking Jow Forums about women
Yeah bro, it's all about money, height, status, frame, face, dick size, shoe size and natural smell bro.
How many people do you talk to daily? How many of these people are attractive young girls that you are interested in? How many have you tried asking for their numbers?
Just talk to more people in general, strangers included if the time and place are appropriate (basically if they are not on the phone or you are not at a funeral).
29yo boomer dating a 19yo zoomer.
We meet at a work party but never really work together.
Walking out of the building I bumped into her and as we walked she asked if I ever go drinking, we decided to go for a drink and I asked her number.
Next time we went to dinner and I showed her my place and played her guitar.
I'm not rich but she liked my muscles and guitar playing.
Just b urself
Excuse me sir you're too normal to use this website, I'm going to have to ask you to leave.
Get good pictures of you together and make a tinder, it changed the game on dating.
>Don't use mirror selfies
>Don't use gym selfies
>Use pictures of yourself in interesting places and doing exciting things
Women are attracted to the idea of the person you are on tinder, so you you have to sell yourself. The application is overflowing with women between the ages of 18-21 and if you aren't hideous and seem successful a large chunk of them will sleep with you.
Most of the men girls cream themselves over (actors, models, etc) are 30+. Unironically just be attractive. Your age won't matter if your profile pic is hot.
>tfw bad smell genelet
I had no chance at all
>dat impossible to be clean shaven beard, tho'...
are you balding/bald?
If so sorry but you're not considered "hot older guy" material. Girls will just view you as a creepy loser.
If you are a healthy, aesthetically pleasing 30+ year old with good hair and a cool lifestyle, then you can easily meet 18-21 girls on Tinder.
>Implying women will fuck a man in his 30s who is a waiter
>tfw 26 yo woman
Feels bad
What makes us less attractive? No wrinkles or saggy tits yet
What is it?
You're less fun.
great now that fucking boomer guy is gonna spam in this thread. thanks a lot, boomer
>18-21 year old women
why would you want someone so old?
you should at least have a 15 year age gap to age proportionally.
Nothing, the girl I'm pining after is 26, don't feel bad femanon. Just because some guys have different tastes that you don't fall under doesn't imply there's anything wrong, same can be said for girls who have specific tastes.
the thought of atleast 100 dicks already having been inside of you. stretching you out and leaving behind their DNA.
Not as fun. Think you deserve more than you truly do. Usually unrealistic standards for a partner. Try to loosen up a bit.
Also if you take hormonal birth control past age 18 guys can tell because you give off a damaged feminine energy.
>18-21 year old
>women
pick one and admit you want to fuck teenage girls user.
There's just a glow in your eyes that's gone. Just stand next to a 16 year old and see the difference.
It's like a new car that's freshly cleaned and waxed. It looks shiny and great, you wanna drive it and show it off to your friends. You can still be a nice car and people will still drive you, but you will never that have shine again.
In my experience, you're going to ask a guy "what he's looking for" 5 minutes into the first date, if you even wait long enough to get there. Probably the baby clock to blame. I can't tell anyone not to want a serious relationship, but the way you people try to gauge my willingness to commit to you, when I don't even fucking know you, is a good way to scare dudes the fuck off.
He's probably just regretting that he never made it with someone while he was that age, and wants to make up for it now. Sad.
If you are still fun and have that youthful energy you can be very attractive at 26, the problem is so many girls by then are just shells of their former selves. I honestly think most girls weren't made to work full time jobs and being in the work force is making them miserable because I know so many girls that were fun happy people in college and are now broken down carcasses slaving away to make a buck.
most of those have a child already and its often from a nigger too
Too late to have a fun relationship and too old to have healthy babies safely
you start to be desperate
basically imagine all the losers that lusted after you in highschool, but roles are now reversed
enjoy it
Your dad lived with his parents??
>white people