Only a little over a year for me
What's the longest crush you've ever held?
Crushed hard on a girl when I was 13 and then went out with her when I was 16. She ended up breaking up with me shortly after
3 years straight. Funny thing is the guy rejected me after I asked him out. I was upset but I couldnt get him out of my mind. 6 years later and I see him with some Becky lol.
fifteen years and counting
I've never felt any kind of emotional attachment to another person. The only love I have is for my mom and my 2 ugly rat looking dogs
15 years...
There must be something wrong with my brain.
How is that even possible? Dang that sounds impressive though
it was like from 8th grade until I started college, so around 4-5 years. in retrospect, what an awful, shitty person she was.
on and off like 8 years
she was the first girl i remember liking when i started liking girls, then years later we went out in high school and i dunno i just didnt like her anymore
Over 5 years and counting. I don't think I'll ever get over her.
One year and a half
I've had a crush on this one brown girl since the second grade. Managed to get over her after changing schools but somehow we got reunited in middle school. Been obsessed with her ever since until I found out she was actually a total slut. Would brag to my face about how much she loves cum and how she sucked off a manlet white boy. It ruined my thoughts about women for good. I wanted to marry her someday, but oh well. We live in a society, man.
almost 11 years, haven't talked to her since 2012
About 7 years now on and off but it's been bad since she moved back into town. For most of it she was just someone I'd nostalgically think of from time to time but now it's fucking eating me up. I just want to talk to her so I can make a clean break without feeling guilty but evwn tbough she'll ask me to hang out she's been avoiding being alone with me for like 2 months and always has other people with her now. It's just not a conversation I can have over text or the phone. I think she has a good idea of what I want to say and is trying to avoid it becuase she likes me enough to want me around but not like I want her and I feel like I'm being held hostage. I hate how she makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong for being attracted to her. The worst part is I legitimantly had a shot for awhile when she first moved back landing several dates and I fucking blew it.
About two years, got oneitis hard for a coworker and became pretty much obsessed with her for a good while. Eventually I quit, stopped seeing her and got an actual gf suspiciously similar to her in more than a few ways. I'd like to think I'm mostly over her but I still think about her a fair amount.
About 15 years. From the time I was 12 until I heard she was engaged. 9/10, nice, relatively smart (for a girl at least). Grew up with her. Not friends really or anything, but our moms were. Never got the nerve to do anything but talk to her in the most casual of settings. Now she's married to Chad and has two kids, while I'm a kh wizard. Sad!
9 years and counting up. She gave in after 5 years but I rejected her and now I still keep orbiting her.
The skin of her legs looks really weird :S
2 years, but i stopped after realising im too ugly so i stopped loving people
That's because she's wearing some sort of something on her legs. Look at her left shin.
You're a good person user, I hope you get to live a good life and get to be happy :)
3+ years?
she ended up in a relationship with the one of few people I could get close to
over the past years as I went hikkineet lost touch (and I guess ghosted since I'm a failure) with them (and everyone family/few acquaintances I had)
still think about them often
a few months, really.... they never try to get to know me, how could it last long?
We went (and still do go) to the same church. She's still single and still the prettiest girl in the world. I've been trying to move on though because the time for anything there is long over.
It's nice to see I'm not the only one who said 15 years though.
7 or 8 years and I last talked to her in February and never going to again because Im more interested in self harm than in a thot
2 years. I liked a girl in elementary school. Looking back, I think I just respected her more than anything. We were in the same class two years in a row and she was easily the smartest kid in the class. She was also quite athletic and I remember her demanding to be allowed to play sports in gym class with her broken arm. I don't know, I just liked her personality. She thought I was a weirdo.
I haven't had a crush for a long time anyone have tips on how to socialize with girls (btw college is boys only and the workload is huge, sparing me no time apart from Sundays, I'm sure u can solve this problem r9k)