If a girl has lost her virginity, does that mean shes already wasted/disposed of her best eggs?
A girl I cared about very much and wanted a long term relationship with lost her virginity and slept around and now she seems less fresh than what she used to, like the babies will be of lower quality. Thanks
If she's fucked 30 guys, you're not taking seconds, thirds, fourths, eighteens.. you're taking thirty-first. Basically all her body has been abused by many other men and you don't deserve to take care and love a corpse. Please user, she doesn't have to be a virgin but make sure she isn't a whore.
And in this case, move on. Don't be the cuck beta orbiter and provider when she wants to settle down.
Zachary Fisher
that's factually untrue my guy, non-virgins still retain the capability to form a pair bond and remain in that bond for the rest of their lives, if they choose and if the bond is right
Christopher Clark
Fuck.. thanks I will
If I lose my virginity to someone else will it change anything? I think we still have good chemistry but shes a got a lot of bad traits as well so idk if Id want to pursue it or not. Shes put me through a lot as it is
Charles Collins
that's a bit harsh dude. some women absolutely do fuck around, but if they have a good personality and want to move past that by settling down, then there's no reason to hound them about their past constantly. it isn't as if men don't fuck around as well.
Jason Ross
assuming you're emotionally mature, simply having sex with her will change very little. if you choose to get into a long-term relationship with her because of that sex, however, then yes, she can emotionally scar you, and you can definitely emotionally scar her. however, if you keep it just at the level of having sex once (which, let's be real here, it's not going to stay at that level if you fuck her) then all should be okay.
Jaxon Edwards
>but men Fuck off, roastie. Do you really fucking think the guys who genuinely care about being a woman's first for the purpose of having a long lasting marriage are the ones also fuck around?
Austin Nelson
But you do realise that she loses single egg approximately every month? Regardless of how much sex she is having? In fact, she might have been completely chaste and it wouldn't change a single thing.
Kayden Gutierrez
first off, i'm a man. i never expressed my actual sex. and second off, possibly, possibly not? to some people sex doesn't matter very much. sure, there is plenty evidence to back up casual fucking causing increased depression and social detachment - leading to becoming a "roastie" - but people do change, and more importantly, people always have the ability to love no matter what they've done in their past. there is literally no possible way for a person to lose their ability to love/be loved simply because of sexual promiscuity, i'm sorry. i understand you like to take out your frustration on people who are sexually promiscuous because your hormones and unreleased urges haven't been satisfied in the slightest, but whether or not you truly disagree with them and their practices really doesn't matter if they agree to change and settle down in a long term relationship.
Dylan Smith
Yeah context for all she has roastie personality
I secretly still love her is why Im considering giving her another shot. Im thinking about waiting 5 years until shes grown up a bit though. Were both 19
Joshua Russell
if it's a roastie you might want to consider the ol' smash and pass. at least you can lose your virginity (assuming you're a virgin, which, let's face it, you're on Jow Forums)
Gabriel Watson
you sure type like a woman so obvious
Ryder Murphy
This is a rare case of a fembot claiming to be a man.
Kayden Bennett
i am legitimately and unironically male
maybe i'm not sad like the rest of you - maybe my life has been more privileged, maybe i'm just not jaded.
Or maybe it's because I don't type like this, because I can't be bothered to give a shit while talking on a stupid ass thread about some user who doesn't understand the menstrual cycle of women. For fuck's sake you guys are sad.
Kevin Gray
Well you sure type like a woman
Samuel Green
I find that it's nice to type casually while in a casual scenario. Sure, to the OP himself, we have an issue that could be life-or-wanting to die, but I'm not currently pressed, am I? Good job derailing the thread anyways. It's dead, so I'm gonna hop on out.