should i continue dating this robot?
pros:
>has a lot of money
>genuinely likes and accepts me for who i am
>on paper hits all the marks for what i want in a partner
>pretty normal irl just a loner
>could bring him around my parents
>in the military, will have a good job and benefits for life
>would allow me to be his neet housewife
>loves his family
>good at video games
>lets me get away with anything
>was extremely hot before he gained weight (tall latino)
>average dick, would upgrade to big if he wasn't fat
>somewhat sexually compatible
cons:
>really immature
>feels like i'm dating a 13 year old even though he's in his mid-late 20s
>fat and no willingness to change
>clingy as fuck
>allows me to treat him like shit and won't put me in my place
>below average intelligence
>doesn't really know how the world works
>not sure if i'd be able to bring him around my friends or sister
>weird as fuck kinks
>boring, no opinions or hobbies other than video games and fast food
>can't cook
>isn't handy and probably wouldn't help around the house
>doesn't know anything about cars
>overly affectionate to the point it annoys me
please help me decide if a comfy neet life with no kids is worth tying myself down to a beta manchild. he's actually ok sometimes but most of the time i can't really stand him although he loves me a lot. i'm a 5/10 mentally ill hikki with nothing to offer.
Should i continue dating this robot?
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You should tell him about your worries and decide based on his response. The fact that you decided to ask Jow Forums instead of talking to him is pretty disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself.
You should also off yourself because you decided to pick him and not me.
You a fembot or qt trap?
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whenever i bring up a problem he won't let it be resolved, he just mopes about it the entire day no matter how gently i try and discuss it with him. that's why i say he's immature.
if someone all the things in the pro section + smart and somewhat independent i would definitely date them because that's basically my ideal bf.
i'm a female
I am such a person but I would never want to date such an irresponsible person who considers jumping on someone else's cock so lightly as you. If that was my only option, I would rather die alone.
why not? my moral compass is all wrong i need a responsible man to fix me
>really immature
>feels like i'm dating a 13 year old even though he's in his mid-late 20s
What does this even mean? Children aren't stupid or immature, they just have less information and skills so everybody perceives them as such.
Since you have nothing to offer I think you won the lottery. He sounds very easy to manipulate. You can probably even get away with cucking him. For now it seems lame but could get better.
Hi, im Daniel. I can put you in your place.
You have to try harder to make him how you want him, a relationship is not just intimacy and exploration its also compromise and sculpture (you mold each other) and a challenge. It sounds like you two just need to breed, you'll be stronger together if you did. If he is as affectionate as you say then if you were straight and honest with him and said what you've said to us to him then he'll likely try his best to make the effort.
if he has all of those cons, then it seems he doesnt actually hit all the marks, right?
lacking skills and information just because you dont want to learn is inmature, also how did you come to the conclusion that young kids arent inmature? thats the whole part of growing up you retard
t. literal, unironic, manchild
you should donate yourself to science, you're the first of your kind.
>first thing you mention is his money
he should stop dating you, poor guy
Name one thing that is considered immature.
you know what i mean. he has no information or skills like a child, except he's an adult so i'd expect him to have those things. it's ok when it's a kid but it can really test your patience when it comes from an adult.
you're exactly right but i don't necessarily want to do that, i think he's a genuinely decent person that probably deserves a nice normie wife that wants to have his children or something.
i just wish he was willing and able to teach me things. he's 5 years older than me i want someone who i can look up to and who will guide me instead of me guiding them and having to make them better.
i'm so glad i need a bf who will hold me accountable for being an awful person
youre right but my problem is that i don't know how to handle an equal partnership like that. the concept of having to mold another person is way too much responsibility for a disaster like me so like someone who's already been there done that
Are you from Cali by any chance?
>not taking things seriously
>unable to be have responsibilities
>dependant of other people
>he has no information or skills like a child, except he's an adult so i'd expect him to have those things. it's ok when it's a kid but it can really test your patience when it comes from an adult
What if his parents never taught him anything? Is that his fault? You're being extremely unfair.
>not taking things seriously
You shouldn't. If you do you're autistic. Name one thing that you should be taking seriously.
>unable to be have responsibilities
What responsibilities exactly?
>dependant of other people
Dependant how exactly? Financially? She said he's loaded so no.
If you aren't getting what you need tell him if he doesn't do anything about it then leave or don't but if you don't shut up complaining
yeah why would you take stuff like work or going to college seriously? you can always try again right?
and he is emotionally dependant of her
he has the traits that i always envisioned in the person i ended up with. i rarely encounter people that i like so i think he's pretty special for that alone.
i started pursuing him long before i even knew he had a job at all. i assumed that he was a loser neet at first desu since we met on a video game and that's most of the people you meet there
no sorry
no it's not. my parents never taught me anything but disowned me when i was 18 and i had to learn on my own. he's been on his own for way longer than me and it shocks me some of the things that he doesn't have knowledge of. and this is coming from a shut in burnout hikki.
it's like... if we ended up married i wouldn't even mind doing all the cooking, cleaning, housework, managing finances etc at all. but i want him to be able to do all those things on his own.
for example he's been on an airplane dozens of times but he's always had someone else book the flights and figure everything out for him. he wanted to catch a flight to see me next week short notice and asked me to book it and when i told him it'd be over $1000 just to get him here and back he was shocked. he doesn't drive, he doesn't eat anything other than chicken quesadillas. that's kind of what i mean by immature
i'm afraid to talk to him because i don't want to ask him to change his entire personality to suit me. i know he would if i asked.
Only you can influence your moral compass, or make yourself a better person. Other people are not the solutions to our problems. If you want to be better, choose to be better and cut out the shitty behavior.
I say this as a fellow shitty person.
What videogame is it and are there more of your kind there?
>yeah why would you take stuff like work or going to college seriously
You don't. You do it because you have to for the money not because you're taking it seriously.
>cooking
If he's on his own i'm pretty sure he can prepare food otherwise he would have literally died by now.
>cleaning, housework
Is his apartment filthy and disgusting?
>managing finances
You literally said he's rich.
>asked me to book it
Then tell him to book it himself?
>he doesn't drive
Then tell him you're not coming to pick him up and if he wants to see you he has to drive to you.
>he doesn't eat anything other than chicken quesadillas
That's.. bad? Why is that bad exactly?
you're not wrong but i find it so difficult to do those things for myself. if i had someone else to be a good example for me it'd be a lot easier.
counter strike and yes all the normie girls play it
Because I'd go back to being a c-level exec in a cutthroat industry if I wanted to have to take care not to receive a knife in the back every second of the day. Literally the only thing I want of someone is love and understanding. Absolutely nothing else matters. I'd die before I would get anywhere near someone who'd rather play games and betray at the drop of a hat.
>allows me to treat him like shit and won't put me in my place
translation:
>i blame others for my shitty behavior
typical whore
>good at video games
only thing that matters desu
sounds like a keeper
>I need a responsible man to fix me
You need a responsible man to slap you.
If you end up liking it, then hell continue until you dont
this is unironically so important to me i'm glad you understand. i'm kind of average at games but if my partner was worse than me i'd never be able to respect them.
he eats fast food or prepackaged food for literally every meal. he can't cook unless you count sandwiches or boxed mac and cheese. the man literally only has 1 pot in his place that he uses for everything.
when i said he asked me to do it for him and asked me to drive to him i meant he literally needed me to do these things bc he cannot do them. he won't learn to do them. he needs me to walk him through every step.
fair enough
i didn't say that's not what i'm doing
this is literally what i meant by wanting someone to put me in my place
>he eats fast food or prepackaged food for literally every meal
So what? He wont starve. He's capable of feeding himself.
>he asked me to do it for him
Then refuse. Stop enabling him. Tell him to do it on his own. Jeez.
He doesn't sound like he's putting in much effort and you're obviously wanting to break up with him so do it.
>i'm kind of average at games but if my partner was worse than me i'd never be able to respect them.
Oh fuck nigga. Also checked
>i'm a 5/10 mentally ill hikki with nothing to offer.
Fuck you OP, how did women end up beeing so entitiled?
>pros
>first listed is he has a lot of money
saged, fuck off
this robots, is why you go for asian women. You can have all your shit together but if you like anything out of the ordinary; anime, video games etc the white roastie will think you're a manchild and think she's too good for you despite being a childish meet herself. Such hypocrites.
the fat thing is a legitimate concern though.
>day 320765 of how can I imply that Im a women for (you)s
>The faggots suspect nothing
the money doesn't make a huge difference to me, in all honestly i'd be more comfortable being with some other shut in as long as i could have an intelligent conversation with them.
this guy sounds like a huge loser lol
literally a man child, i dont know why you havent left him already. I really cant see why you would willingly stay with someone you describe as boring, thats pretty much a death sentence.
All of the pros you stated are pretty much expected or just average traits.
Except liking and excepting who you are, that can be pretty rare if your a fucking weirdo freak that has a hard time opening up
sometimes i feel like a shitty bf, but this made me realize how most men are actually pretty unfit to be in a real relationship.
If you were a man you wouldn't get a gf at all, let alone someone who has alot of positive qualities.
Women should be banned from posting here, it's actually insulting.
Just leave him. You are a young attractive woman with sexual value. He is literally holding you back. You can do FAAAR better. From a fembot to another fembot I urge you to please leave him and find someone better. Don't waste your time.
>huge manchild
what does that make OP who doesn't even work?
Jow Forums was probably the worst place to go to ask this question. not only are you asking relationship advice from incels, but everyone at Jow Forums is pretty much your boyfriend, and will defend him and how much despite his flaws he still deserves a girl
Are you 18? It reeks really heavily of young, stupid, and insecure going for an older loser dude.
this dude sounds seriously like someone that shouldnt have a gf. Dont let his clones on this site fool you, he is not a capable boyfriend, and neither are they. Dont let them belittle you into dating him. No one is perfect, and not every man that has a gf needs to be a 10/10 knight in shining armor, but this guy really sounds like someone who will most likely never have another gf after you
it' acceptable for a woman to not work. She will raise the children, tend to the house and make sure there is food on the table. A man who cannot pull his weight and bring the bread has no place at the table.
she's a nasty entitled """fembot""" what makes you think she's be good at any of that?
and he does pull has weight around, he has a fucking JOB.
he's very boring but has his moments sometimes i guess. that's what makes me hang onto hope. and yes i am absolutely an irredeemable weirdo but despite that he's into me
don't you think i know that i would be alone if i didn't have a vagina
i don't think so, i've literally been actively looking for a bf for 3 years now and he's the only one who was into it
i'm putting myself through school
i'm 21 but i'm definitely all the things you said. what exactly is it that makes him not a capable bf out of all the things i said out of curiosity.
>genuinely likes and accepts me for who i am
>>on paper hits all the marks for what i want in a partner
That's all you need though, right?
You said yourself you have nothing to offer, either way go fuck yourself.
>don't you think i know that i would be alone if i didn't have a vagina
If you did you wouldn't have made this thread.
The whole "i would take anyone as long as they loved me" thing is a meme I'm sorry to break it to you.
>pros:
>>has a lot of money
>>genuinely likes and accepts me for who i am
>>on paper hits all the marks for what i want in a partner
>>pretty normal irl just a loner
>>could bring him around my parents
>>in the military, will have a good job and benefits for life
>>would allow me to be his neet housewife
>>loves his family
>>good at video games
>>lets me get away with anything
>>was extremely hot before he gained weight (tall latino)
>>average dick, would upgrade to big if he wasn't fat
Uhmm... I am literally all of these things except I'm white and I'm only okay at vidya. And my dick is average but I have non of the cons. Want to date me instead. Only difference is I'm getting out of the Army and pursuing computer science but I have a large sum of money saved up and I will probably never be poor again.
>first thing to mentions is money
Women are a mistake
It sounds like you don't even like the guy for who he is if you can write a list like that about him with no remorse. I feel sorry for him if this isn't bait.
Actually live together, then come back to me in a year and tell me how you feel.
If I was your bf and I read that shit you wrote about me I'd dump your disrespecting ass immediately.
Putting the fact that he has alot of money over the fact that he really loves you
And tell me now that women arent whores
>i have nothing to offer but my stinky fish hole
>but is this guy really the best i can do?
sorry white boys are unacceptable otherwise you'd be very good
he's alright i like him plenty we're on the phone right now. i just don't know if we're viable long term
the sad thing is i don't think he would
if he's as pathetic as you make him out to be, he deserves someone like you. you two deserve each other. you deserve him for being such a worthless human and he deserves you for being such a spineless cuck. truly a match made in heaven bravo
Sounds like you should dump him so he can find someone less shitty than you t b h.
Preach.
OPs a piece of shit and the poor guy deserves better
Oh hey your back! Did you have fun exposing yourself on
>manchild
>in the military
Sister drop this man like a hot plate
He's gonna get ptsd and beat your ass
There's no saving man children, just grab the money and run.
Except robots don't have their shit together.
Even to asian women obsessing over anime tiddies and video games is still consider autistic and weird unless they, as individuals, are into them too. Don't be retarded.
You seem very easy to judge him, but at the end of the day; what are you bringing to the table?
All of your post is complaining about him, but in all honesty you're the one who comes off as a truly horrible person.