>got a girl >i like her >idk if she likes me >decided to confess >she acknowledges my love, but were not in relatio ship >meh this is not 100%, but yea, 50-50 >mfw she 50% approves >fast forward, we have a decent start up >also still we're not together >but still happy for our situation as of that time >few days ago >real shit happens >she start became cold >i tried to fix it >she does not cooperate >MAYDAY MAYDAY! NEED HELP! >following day, still the same, im starting to doubt things rn >at some point, she told me we're not fit to each other >constantly apologizes >told me we're better as friends >tried to fix things >didnt work >ffffff >officially friendzoned
Tell me, what should I do? Should i pursue her or what.
pursue other women she then will try to fuck things up kek so predictable
Jaxon Jackson
You're clearly about 15, just finish high school and worry about girls when you've got yourself a decent career ahead of you.
Henry Hernandez
Move one. She doesn't like you.
Nathan Perez
You're already orbiter-tier for going with that 50/50 shit, cut your losses and move on. If she's as much of a roastie as she seems like, she'll probably fuck you up.
Easton Parker
Tbh im 20 rn, well i rarely do fall in love. So this lovey-dovey sceme to me is kinda new
Gabriel Russell
By now she's lost all respect for you and considers you a worthless beta cuck, despite whatever she might say. If you ghost her rightaway, you should be able to forget about her rather quickly.
Asher Murphy
You're right. I also thought of that, but somehow i feel like i should pursue (cz somehow i still got some hopes for it) although it sounds dumb.
Luis Morris
She wants us to be friends, like going back how we used to before, wherein there's no strings attach except being "friends"
Julian Nelson
This is just something people say to sound nice and feel less guilty. You can't go back to being friends, you will just keep crushing on her forever. In fact, you were never friends to begin with, she was your crush and you were her beta Orbiter, that's it. Interrupting all types of contact is the way to go senpai.
Samuel Carter
I didnt include in the post, but we both feel the same way before. I like her, she likes my, yes she confessed it. But rn, idk what happens. She gave up out of nowhere
Eli Howard
Please OP remember this next time: whenever a woman says she is not sure that she wants a relationship, you say this exact line: "I'm sorry but I dont want to be with a woman that doesnt know what she wants, im looking for certainty in a relationship and you cant offer that. Im sorry of this hurts you but it's better that we stop it here".
If you say this she will cry guaranteed and she will realize that she misses you. When she gets back to you, you will be in a position of power. Also please never cry, beg and apologize ever again. It makes you look pathetic and it's a huge turnoff for women.
Daniel Jones
Thanks for the advice. Although i am guilty of trying to fix our status, but she still persist that we're just friends, and i had no choice but to acknowledge her decision. she also kept saying that she's sorry.
Julian Fisher
Ignore her for a week and she will come crawling back. Happens everytime
Jose Wood
If she did not? Or just passed by (through chat) saying "hello", does that count as coming back?
Jason Diaz
>she acknowledges my love That's were you should've ended it. If she just "acknowledges" it without reciprocating, she's not interested, plain and simple.
Cooper Perez
I didnt include in the post, but she's also interested in me and she also confessed her feelings, so by that time we're mutual, but we were not in relationship. I felt bad to include this cz idk if what she told me was legit, or she's just saying this/that things to make it not awkward or whatsoever
Jaxson Wright
On the one hand, she could be genuinely disinterested, in which case, dont bother and dump the bitch. On the other hand, she could be playing hard to get, and wants you to chase after her, in which case, fuck her for playing mind games, and dump the bitch.
Anthony Moore
Idk, what do you think i should do if she's either interested or uninterested to me? Im so confused rn.
Joseph Gutierrez
you basically have 3 options: brake completely with her and never talk to her again give her some time and see if she reaches out to you (she could reach out but she might also not) try to go for her (could work, could not work)
there is no right option the only thing you need to decide for yourself is if you want to have contact with her or not: if not ignore her forever if you do want contact either give her time or go for her (both tactics don't guarantee success)