Any of you ever became obsessed with a girl? Is it normal?
Any of you ever became obsessed with a girl? Is it normal?
Yes and its not normal
Literally one of the most normal things there is
why do you think you became obsessed user?
Its kinda normal. Liked a girl years ago. Ghosted her every now and then.
It isnt normal
Orig
i think about my middle school/high school crush more often than i should but i don't even know her anymore.
Depends how obsessed
if you were obsessed why ghost her?
I was limerent for a while it was nice at first but she started dominating my psyche. I never thought about anything else but her, I wanted her by my side at all times and she never was. I'd have done anything to get her attention. Once I had her by my side for a second the feeling of wanting her so intensely stopped.
do you do this with every girl?
Kind of. I still hope to see her when I go back to my city.
Never had a chance, never even tried. Just admired her.
She's married now.
>haven't spoken to her in 6 months
>still regularly dream about her
how do i make it stop bros
>tfw I find pornstars that look just like her and imagine its her and me
FUCK
How is obsession not normal?
I'm not obsessed with her, but I can't help but think how much she changed and basically left me in the dirt when she got a new job and started fucking/dating her boss within a couple months.
I wish I never knew her...
by definition, originally.
its going to get better user. How long has it been?
I still don't get it orgininnno
About a year and a few months, I was doing alright until I bumped into the both of them a few weeks ago, though.
When I saw her my heart dropped and when I saw him turn the corner after her, my heart dropped even further. She "OMG'd" out loud, and all I did was look at her and kept walking.
It felt good for maybe 5 mins, until the reality set in.
not the same user but i might as well have posted that
I think that i tried to distract myself from some fact about myself and in that attempt to keep a steady course in a tsunami I wrecked the ship.
I am dancing with myself, but I wish that part of me would just trip and end this faccade.
Just 62 years to go untill it all stops i'm already halfway there if you factor in my autism.
If this is your case, wich it probibly isn't, try to step off the stage. we wouldn't want anyone to start enjoying the act.
so this girl was just fuel to make you feel better about yourself despite reality?
I feared the things i have to face about myself and the results that coming to terrms with those things will have
She was a kling onto the status quo, a distant love to keep my mind occupied
i didn't feel better, i just felt as bad, but now i had a villan to fight, instead of internal reforms to make
i made myself a war so i could ignore the corruption
Yes, even lovesick, and I would not like that to happen again for a year or two, got rejected (as if it could be any other way kek)