Gained 15lbs due to injury while on holiday

Doesn’t matter, no guy will ever tell his wife/gf/fwb they’re fat if they don’t want to rock the boat
It’s been like this for ages dude

Can second this. No matter the level of bants I've had with a female partner, I've never told them that they were anything other than the perfect weight. You think you're one of the lads, but you're not. Men will always treat you with kid gloves

I told my gf she was gaining weight when she actually was and she got pissed, but she also stopped stuffing her face and lost the weight.

Fuck that. If you really do care you’ll stop them turning into a whale whether they like it or not

This pisses me off so much. So basically don't trust men. Ok.

I agree. I am limiting my fat intake and watching carbs but honesty motivates me.

Fenanon confirmed.
Bottom line is you can't workout atm.
He can:
A make you more self conscious than you already are about your body.
B try to love and support you and promise you that you guys will sort it out together when you get better.
If you want him to tell you "hey fatty, wabble over here you disgusting excuse for a woman" instead of "you're still beautiful and even though ideally I would like it if you lost a bit of weight we'll cross that bridge together when we get to it." that is your mental problem.
And if you wanna lose weight so badly jave a fucking calorie deficiency in your nutrition. Smh you've got all these "problems" that are not really problems.

You don't need to be "motivated" to count some fucking macros. That's attention whoring. Get the results and expect appreciation instead.

Then stop getting unreasonably mad when guys tell you the truth

i like how it's so easy to spot actual females by how overly dramatic they are. Every. Time.

ehh, I tried having the high test convo with my last ex. She was at most 10lbs heavier but it looked awesome.
I told her I liked it and she immediately shed the weight...

Thank you. I suppose you're right.
Ok

I don't usually

Lol sorry. I did actually get worked up was going to break up with him via text.

I calmed down and came to my senses.

>I don’t usually
Yeah okay honey

if you don't mind me asking, are you white and are you missing your philtrum?

Get the fuck off my board roastie. Btw youre too fat right now and he sees you as a project.

Post body and we'll tell you.

i told my wife she should lose weight. never again.
i switched tactics a few weeks later and told her i want to spent more time with her and she should come with me to the gym and that i want to cook with her and other bullshit and since then she gets thinner.
women can be maniacs if you tell her she is fat straight to her face.

>told my wife she should lose weight
>has never taken her lifting or her diet so seriously as she has since

You just are trash at picking women

We can't all date cartoon characters user.

Sounds like you're asking us if its okay to stay fat. Fucking women always seeking the path of validation.

Don't think too much about it, he already finds you attractive, what he can mean either that he just wants to motivate you to achieve your own goal, or that he thinks you would be even hotter(wich is not bad, despite how hot one can be, there is always room for improvement)

He likes you and doesn't like fatties. Lose some weight.

>tried this before
>she only ended up eating comfort food for her insecurities
>to make things worse she became more paranoid I’d replace her as she put on the lbs
>motivate her instead

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This, He might be fine with it, or even attracted to it, but if he gets the idea that you're insecure about it (and it sounds like you are, so he has every reason to get that impression) he might just want to be supportive.

This is one of those times where a relationship needs open and honest communication. Just ask him straight if he likes it or not, tell him that he doesn't have to worry about telling you what you want to hear, because all you want to hear is how he really feels, no wrong answers. This is a life decision that affects both of you.

Cope harder faggot lol

This