How do I deal with gains goblin gf

OK, so I was scheduled to meet with her on friday and stay until sunday, but tuesday she messeges me saying I should come now. We live 4 hour drive away from eachother and I felt kinda lazy but more than that I didn't want to tell her im not coming because I have to do a workout tomorrow. She kept asking why I can't come and seemed pretty pissed about it when I told her. She also made jokes how I supposedly masturbate to myself and my muscles in a mirror and sarcastically apologized for "ruining my higher goal". Is she a gains goblin or am I a gymcel? 4 times a week is not much is it? What do I do?

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You’re a gymcel, bro.

DISMISS THE LASS

ACQUIRE THE MASS

Sounds like she's insecure and trying to sabotage or derail your progress to feel better about her own lack of fitness/progress.

Textbook normie practice... I can't be/have what he/she has because I'm too weak-minded and lack the will and dedication to achieve it so I will belittle it and make fun of it to compensate Get used to everyone around you doing this the more fit you get.

Also 4 days is fuck all, she cant live without your attention for ~8hr a week? Ditch her OP this will only get worse. I told my GF straight up at the start that my interests and what I do on my time aren't up for discussion and I'm not willing to change them, so get used to it and find your own fucking hobbies or this isn't going to work. MFW eventually she just started lifting with me.

Well you guys do live pretty far from each other so I dont think it's unreasonable for her to be a little upset you wont skip a workout to go see her earlier. It's not the workout, it's the fact that you don't see her that often and won't take a day off to see her more.

Not OP but mirin this attitude.
This is basically me rn. I work full time (40 hrs) and as soon as I get home I lift, eat, wash dishes and clean. After that I read, play guitar, or study (depends on the day) and go to sleep by 8 PM to wake up at 4:45 AM to repeat the process.

Sometimes I wish I had a gf, but I figure that will come naturally or ideally we'll have the same hobbies or similar enough that we can do these activities together and that way we don't detract from each other.

Thanks user, you pretty much cemented what I felt I was doing right

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the only people that are autistic about not missing workouts are dyels

>We live 4 hour drive away from eachother

obviously not going to work, dumb fuck. Save your time and break up now

>Come see me now! Fuck yr plans, I am more important
Even if she is more important to you than working out (she shouldn't be unless you have kids) fuck her for assuming she can summon you at zero notice and get pissed at you when you stick to your plans. Disrespectful.

It will come naturally. Honestly as soon as I stopped looking for GF and pining over women and just focused on self-improvement (gym, work, learning more things) girls started to just fall into my lap. Of course this is /fit so everyone will just think I'm larping or bullshitting but it's totally true. I took the time to focus on my goals and becoming someone women would actually want, and not chasing after them, and within a few months opportunities and women were just seemingly everywhere. I slutted around for 1 summer reaping the fruits of my labour then began dating said GF. We've now been together 5 years and life is good. I made it.

SPBP

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Don't you guys have like jobs and stuff? What the fuck does she expect you to do, just say fuck it to real life because she needs attention? Lemme guess she's really spoiled, lives with her parents still and works/studies part time but complains about how stressful it is.

>I made it.
Not yet you haven't. But don't worry, we're all gonna make it.

Don't give in to her and come early she will subconcously respect you less for it, even in a relationship you should make working on yourself a priority still. If anything this will make her MORE attracted to you and shit-test you less as you have a life outside of her.

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>go to sleep by 8 PM to wake up at 4:45 AM
>Figure it will come naturally

How? When?

Is this natty?

lol reminds me of my ex that gave me shit for choosing to study instead of spend the night with her. brah, your girl sounds like a gainz goblin and kind of like a cunt. i've seen this happen to plenty other guys too and her behavior is only going to get worse, especially if you don't put your foot down ASAP.

big picture: don't let a girlfriend (or anyone for that matter) ever make you feel bad about accomplishing your goals.

Most reasonable post. They do a long distance relationship a she probably just really wants to see OP more. I doubt she really wants him to stop lifting.

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But did you have social hobbies? This feels like a must when "focusing on urself"

>long distance """"relationship""""
your gf fucks other guys behind your back

For the first while I was full on coccoon-mode and didn't go do anything really, until I had established a consistent diet/routine. But I still had a group of guy friends so we'd go out drinking etc on weekends or get together to watch sports or BBQ and stuff. They had GFs who'd bring friends around etc so the peripheral pussy was there too, and ignoring and showing no interest in them eventually led to most of them just throwing themselves at me. Good times.

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Even if it did work there’s gym fuckin everywhere just go to one by her and then smash while your test and pheromones are at a high

They both knew that they were getting into a distanced relationship. That's what a LDR is - not seeing each other very much.

Sounds like you're the bitch of the relationship.

Just tell her no, I'll be there friday.

Eh, it's not a long distance relationship. We study together so it's just for the summer. Besides, we meet every other week.

Anyways, she's great. She is traditional, workouts too (mainly cardio and yoga), reads and takes interest in politics. I really like her it's just that I think she might be a little insecure and wants me to "prove" something. How do I prove shit and what does she even mean by proving something??

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Google says so
>natural bodybuilders

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demonstrate abundance mentality. She's just shittesting you.

I go in at 6 AM and get off at 3 PM. I need to get out the house by 5:30 AM to beat the commute. I get home around 4 PM.
This leaves me with about 4-5 hours to do shit before bed, plus there's also the weekends.

Some days I get off earlier, depending on whether we finish the job early or not., etc.

Just tell her she makes you want to be the best version of yourself or some bullshit like that. Girls fall for this shit all time everytime.
Also, cook up some spiritual eastern mumbo jumbo about how lifting gives you insight of a higher state of being based on overcoming your weak mortal self and shit... chicks also love this spiritual crap and you will seem more mature and less worldly in her views... i mean, she does yoga.

is this what happens when 10 year olds don't develop properly?

you lie through your teeth.

blame feelings.

"really not feeling like a long car trip tonight, but looking forwards to tomorrow"

dont mention the gym. if you mention the gym you're absolutely retarded

Based and redpilled

This. The girl is throwing shit tests at you and since you didn't immediately agree to start hauling ass to her when she said she is now putting you down. I mean who the fuck says
>you probably jerk it to your muscles huh

A jackass that's who. This is just her way of trying to stay in a superior frame in the relationship and what she says goes, you saying now freaked her the fuck out and she only knows to lash out to get her way.

It's actually good you said no because now it makes her feel like she needs to work to keep your attention. Guarantee you if you'd have immediately ran to her she'd put it in her mind that she could get you anytime she wanted so lets see what else is out there

I am always grateful for my body
when I see this kind of votos, of people with this kind of rare syndromes.
look at all the tumor growths and the black spots in their skin.
I think I can not live that way, those people have to be very strong, to be able to still admire the beautiful things in the world.
despite their illness!

I can only admire their will power to stay alive

>won't take a day off
>won't take two days off
>won't take the weekend off
>won't take a whole week off
>why are you doing anything without me
That slope is slippery and at the bottom there is a big puddle of dumped

this. just go hang out with her for a few more days. I wouldn't make habit of continually giving her what she wants, but just go for it. Don't listen to the virgins in this thread telling you not to go. 4 days wont kill you.

how are you going to find a girl when all you do is work and wash dishes? retard, you have to put yourself out there.

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I broke up with a girl that lived on the other side of my city cause I didnt feel like driving 35 mins to her lmao. I'd go crazy for a 4h drive

>how are you going to find a girl when all you do is work and wash dishes? retard, you have to put yourself out there.
pls see and read things before secreting words out of your mouth.

this but unironically
give them an inch, and they'll take a mile.

If you DO end up caving this time tho, don't do it often. Like limit 3 per year or some shit

kek it's not my fault you're hideous and can't get a gf.