How do I motivate my girlfriend to get in shape?

I can't think of a more degenerated and despicable act, betray a partner that has given its life to you is definitely something that I personally consider it specially evil and vile.
so the answer is no.

Same here except it's my BF who has gone to absolute shit. I even asked him if he had some emotional problem or if something was bothering him after her snuck off to 7-11 and bought snacks to eat while watching kripp.

It's starting to embarrass me.

honesty is the only valid foundation for a relationship, if you cannot tell her that you're begin to feel uncomfortable with her appearance due to her deteriorating diet and physical activity, you were setup to fail from the very start of "hey, I'm user".

now get off Jow Forums, and go talk to her

as a matter of fact, all of you guys stop Jow Forums and go talk to the nearest female you've never met and ask her out on a date, using the foundation method

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men like you make me sick. She shouldnt have to change herself to meet your requirements, you should love her for what she is. Fucking chads dont know how to look after women

Tell her that she is "thicc" and indicate you want to be sat on by her "brapper"

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>using the foundation method
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Don't bother with passive aggressive hints, just tell her straight that's she getting fat and you want her to get back in shape. If she refuses then find another girl, anything else is just wasting both your and her time.

>If she refuses then find another girl,
Told my wife she's getting fat. I'd leave her, but we live in an alimony state :(

fug.

she thinks she has you on lock. she doesn't respect you anymore.

you need to start acting like a man so she respects you. you need to show that you aren't stuck with her and you could land another girl if you wanted.

the truth is that she is at best reactive and will never be proactive with her body. A destined fatty

a girl getting fat is a betrayal

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is she getting fat in the right places tho? If yes, learn to embrace, if no, its time to dump

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There's a method?

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> female you've never met and ask her out on a date,

retarded pua shit. you are nothing more than a pest

Fat girl coming through

which states dont have alimony?

you call her a fat lazy bitch and make comments on how you're not attracted to her as much

All states have some degree of alimony. In Texas at least it's not nearly as bad tho

>In Texas, alimony, called "maintenance" in the state, can only be ordered under very specific circumstances. Maintenance can be awarded when the couple was married for 10 years or more and the spouse requesting the financial support can demonstrate one or more of circumstances:

>A lack of sufficient property to provide for his or her "minimum reasonable" needs
>A physical or mental disability that makes the spouse unable to support him or herself
>Being responsible for the care of a child who is physically or mentally disabled and unable to work as a result
>Being unable to earn enough money in the labor market to provide for his or her "minimum needs"
>Being awarded maintenance in Texas is not something that happens often. When a judge does award maintenance, it usually only lasts until the recipient is able to support him or herself. In the case of a person who must be at home to care for a handicapped child, a court may make an exception and order that maintenance be paid on an ongoing basis.

>When maintenance is ordered, it may only be awarded for a maximum of three years.

The foundation method is essentially you go up to the girl and start building a house infront of her but stop at the foundation and ask for a blowie if she wants the rest of the house built.

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If she caught me cheating I’d be furious. Stupid ho should mind her own business.

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I don't know about all of that foundation stuff, but this user is right. As the man you need to be able to be honest with your woman. You are in control. She will take note of what you say, and unless she's a useless bitch, she'll try and impress you. If you let her know what you expect, and let her know if she is going astray, you won't have these problems. If you're too scared to talk to your girl to get her to be the way you want, you're lack of confidence is the problem, and probably why she got fat in the first place.

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>love her for what she is
What a shitty excuse for letting yourself go. If they got together and she had a certain body shape and then gets fat then it means she's tricked him, since he's not getting what he's bargained for. I know this is bait but many people think that once you're in a relationship you can allow yourself to become a whale. Don't even get me started on marriage.

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You don't. If she isn't self driven, the motivation you give her won't last long.

You don't better drop that ho.
Why is emma making a white power gesture?

This usually does the trick.

Noted. Moving to Texas

I talked about the benefits of exercise, besides looking good, like stress relief, endorphins and million other things. Also how we would have more in common if she ran or something. Also try to get her some app like couch to 5k etc. My gf ran for a week and then started making excuses but I wouldnt have believed she even does it for a week. People are so stupid and lazy, you cant force them in the long run

have the laws been updated recently? Ive heard that the divorce laws are disgustingly unfair towards guys. Im wondering if the law makers are starting to wake up

to be desu I don't know, I just pulled that off some random website so it could be complete bullshit for all I know lol

Nah, which is why men are opting out of marriage at an unprecedented rate.
Men are even catching wise to common law marriage and not even moving in with their girlfriends, if they get them.

>Im wondering if the law makers are starting to wake up
No, divorce law is still notoriously biased against men on the whole, but each state has their own set of laws on the matter.

id just calmly tell her im done and bounce

can confirm this worked for me

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Cheat on her so you have a backup Incase new gf in aids

Quote the Bible, nigga
Your body is God's Temple and it's your responsibility to take care of your body and mind.

Alternatively, you could get into biking or some other thing like a mixed volleyball team.
>become a bikefag and invite her
>she's a lazy hack and say no at first
>get bikefag friends (including females)
>make a point of always talk about your good bikefags friends and how much fun you're having with them, name dropping some of them to get attention
>invite her again
>she'll probably accept this time to keep an eye on you
>After a couple months, suggest that only the two of you bike together

Same thing for the volleyball team, although I must warn you that purposely doing this can make things go wrong very easily.
>Girlfriend is lazy and getting fat
>you remain disciplined and maintain your body
>years of Jow Forums made you attracted to fit girls so your gf is slipping away from your desire
>You will definitely meet some thicc latina who'll probably wants the same thing as you and will hop on your dick if she finds an opportunity
Just be careful, man
Peace.

you didn't read his post did you?

cheat on her with a girl with a better body. either she gets in shape, or she dumps you and you still have a side piece with a good body.

Take her with you to the gym, go on walks together, etc

If she refuses, just dump her ass

You aren't forced to stay with her if she doesn't care her of herself

just be fucking honest with him. he's not a woman, you don't have to protect his feefees when it comes to weight

>his or her
you mean her?

let her catch you masturbating to an old picture of her

by dumping her ass

/devilish/

Piss on her feet to symbolize how her body is basically a toilet now. Women are for that subliminal messaging shit.

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I lol'd man, thank you

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Brother, wanting someone to get in shape is infinitely more loving than watching by the wayside as they go down hill. While how you approach it is a discussion in its own right, this ain't inherently bad.

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Makes me proud to live in the Lone Star State I'll tell ya what.

Both my ex gf said that too me and you know what? There's a reason why their exs
I don't need her to be like me and go gym 4x a week, but i just need her to have some self awareness of physical health and not stuffing her face with junk food all the time

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I told my cute sis she's getting fat and now she's been trying to lose weight for like half a year.
She wasn't even fat lel. Still, looks better than she did before.

>gf plays a lot of netball and does cross-country
>goes on uni sports tour, dislocates her knee
>on crutches for ages
>begins to gain weight
>gains 28lb by the end of it, loses massive amount of self esteem
>"How can you love me when I look like this"
>finally off crutches a couple of months ago
>help her do her physio every morning and every night
>she's running again
>goes to all sorts of exercise classes even though she can't play netball
>starting to see results, she's feeling confident again

My point is that you need to seriously injure her and then help her recover user

Femanon h3r3. I hardly notice when I lose or gain weight, idk if that happens to you too so pointing that out might help for some women
And "you're doing great" might be more encouraging than "you've lost weight babe". The second implies there's already a result and she could stop after that
Also if you live together or spend a lot of time inside you could make sure she gets occupied so she doesn't snack out of boredom.
Also cooking something might be healthier and more cute than eating out, making it fun helps it become a habit and more sustainable

I spit my water out you fuck.

If you don't have the balls to straight up tell her that she's fatting up and you're not attracted to fat chicks, then you're not a grown man. It takes more courage to straight up honest speak the truth than to cheat on her.

Would I forgive her if she caught me cheating? Op you're retarded

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>is retarded
>calls other people retarded
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She knows she is fat. You lead by example. If she doesn't follow then be honest with her just not a douche if she starts diet and exercise. Don't do anything to fuck it up for her. If she won't do any of this and finds too many excuses. Break up. That's what I'm doing. Definitely don't cheat. Not worth it.

What about a skinny girlfriend? Please help
>She won't exercise but will do yoga occasionally.
>Takes her body fat distribution for granted
>Can get motivated but will not actually do anything or search things for herself, YOU have to provide the exercises routines, etc

I really like this girl, she's wife material but I really would like to see her eating more and taking her exercising more seriously.

How come women think that physical attraction is the same as "loving you for who you are"?

Cringe and bluepilled

Pop smoke and ghost.

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Are you guys retarded? Just call her fat.
You have no idea how many anachan tumblr blogs I’ve read of women holding ONE COMMENT from like 6 or even 10 years ago. They can lose 30 to 40lbs in a month from one comment alone and keep a tight, hot model tier body indefinitely. That’s all it takes for internal drive and motivation in women. That’s the secret. And if she bounces from that comment, she didn’t care at all about losing weight.