Self hatred is the best motivator, prove me wrong

I'm a khv and this girl just fucked me over and I don't want to socialise or find another because it just feels like they will all be the same

its also the biggest thing that holds you back

I'm sorry to hear that user, I'm sorta in the same boat, here's a song for you: youtu.be/hEafKdFs1rg

>everyone who is succesful love itself
>you are a genelet
cringing @ ur lack of self awareness

Ye, and his complete lack of any grammar skills.

Thanks for that bro, what's your story?

Yes. That's why I've not left my apartment in 4 days. Sleep between 30 empty beer and energy drink cans on one side, and have pile of unwashed laundry on the other side.

what if you don’t hate yourself but you also don’t love yourself you’re just in the middle

I've hated myself all of my life as a result of depression and my life is shit and I'm fat (although finally starting to lose it).

My key problem through all of my life is that I have zero motivation. I just want to die, but everyone wants me around for some reason. I don't believe them. But it's a pain to check out and now I have some responsibility so I'm stuck in this hell for an unknown amount of time. And then I'll be able to check out. At this rate, I may as well stick it out since I'm already thirty. Life still sucks though and I want to die. I wish to have never been born, but I know that's impossible.

Are you me?Fucked up with a girl i was dating

I feel you bro, I feel so numb and I don't even know what to think anymore. I want to not give a fuck but it lingers in my head

>hating something that doesn't exist
>loving something that doesn't exist

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I tried self hatred for years, didn't work. Self hatred will only make you improve yourself enough to not to hate yourself anymore.

What does work is hatred towards women. Building a body and having a career that women find value in. Then using that value to destroy women's self esteems as you treat them like shit.Specifically the ones who have no souls, you'll learn to identify them soon enough once you've improved yourself just enough that woman see they can take advantage of you.

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literally the opposite of this is true

Being self-critical's a huge motivator. Not sure if hating yourself is. It was hating myself that allowed me to put on all the weight in the first place. It was learning to love myself but hate my flaws that made me really want to change.

the people who become the best at anything tend to love what they do. you'll have far more success in the gym if you do it because you enjoy the process. doing anything out of self-hatred tends to come in bursts and is very draining. it's not good for consistency

You sound like a grill. Post tits

Maybe love myself's a bit wet, forgive is probably better.

Sorry for the late reply, I was jogging. I fucked things up by getting drunk one night and asking for nudes from another chick.

It's been 5 fucking years and I'm still not completely over her. We still talk as friends, but it's still fucking hard.

If you want, post your discord and we can talk through there. Up to you ofc, I don't know mine rn.

I'm still talking to the girl as well, she wants to be friends and I feel like she still has feelings. I don't feel that same connection any more but still can't let her go. This is now the second time for me and I still can't forget the first one. I just want to fucking forget about them

Its exactly the opposite. Are you telling me Incels are high test?

hating others for gains is whey better bruh, just imagen beating the shit out some faggot boost the test and lifting, u fucking sad cunts will never learn :/

Only thing better is crippling insecurities
I've only read a handful of autobiographies, but it seems a commonality in many powerful men that they were weak, or sick, or cripplingly unpopular when they were young, and overcompensated for those deficiencies with enormous ambition

he says right in his book, "self-hatred is not virtuous." Rule #2 goes against your post.

I know people who think like this and it's infuriating

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See at first it is the most powerful motivator but after awhile it is replaced with a deep lust for your own body and you start lifting just to see your own pump since its the only way you achieve a proper erection.

>Anyone with a life doesn't know this ite exists
That's not necessarily true, decade ago I read about the hacker known as Jow Forums in an NYT article

>t.

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I’m over hating myself and I hate others because they try and trick me into thinking I’m inferior to them when I see myself as the center of all that matters

I love Peterson, and he's right about self hatred not being a virtue, but self-hatred entices you, forces you to create change. It is the spark that lights the individual, competitive nature in man. There is a reason the bullied nerd ends up going to college, while the high school chad ends up peaking in school and doing nothing. His life is good, he doesn't hate himself, he has no reason to change, why would be need to improve?

You guys are forgetting that self hatred can also cause people to snap and damage others. Elliot Rodger for example

>Entering a PVP area

You gotta be ready

Its more self disappointment from never being able to achieve the standards I set myself.

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The whole point is, once self-hatred sparks a competitive nature in you and makes you start working on yourself, it stops being self-hatred.

I actually prefer jealousy desu

I hate other people because in my mind everyone else is a fucking moron. This helps a bit

hate is undoubtedly a more intense emotion than love, but it's like burning corrosive fuel.
Externally focused hatred is healthier than internally focused hatred. Sometimes things need to be destroyed. You shouldn't try to run on hate 100% of the time though.

I'm doing it all for revenge.

I somewhat agree. One of the biggest factors of my weight loss was going to /fph/ and seeing photos of me being fat, that's when I've decided that I'll never become like one of those my 600 pound life guys.

there's a healthy balance imo. Assuming all the blame for everything is a beta thing to do but so is blaming all your faults on others. True wokeness is accurately judging what is your fault and what isn't, and behaving accordingly

imo hate for the jew is the best motivator

You should love yourself and hate your vices.

The best motivator is the will to self improve and attain something for yourself.
Emotions?
They are easily swayed and allowing one to rule you makes you an easily controlled tool, weapon and slave.

Self mastery when it comes to your own heart is the most important thing when it comes to self improvement and motivation.