Spend ~16 hours a week at the gym/out running

>spend ~16 hours a week at the gym/out running
>already work a real job 45 hours a week
>borderline psychotic about my eating
>don’t drink
>not getting laid. Haven’t even spoken to a girl outside work in over a year. College is behind me and it’s not coming back.
Is not being a fat slob really worth it bros? Tell me why I shouldn’t just give up.

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Honestly, you're irreversibly fucked once you leave full-time education with no social circle.

t.someone in the same position as OP.

w-we can still make it bro

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Are you me? Literally the same life, the only thing keeping me going is our lord Jesus Christ

No bros to hang out with? Loads of people meet/hook up through their friends or the bar scene. Get a part time job, bars and restaurants have tons of available women working at them, usually with low standards. Don't be a sperg, if you see someone you want to talk to, talk to them. Worst they can do is say no or ignore you. It gets better with practice, just like lifting. Gotta work on those social gains breh. Failing that, join a club. Fitness related if that's what you're looking for. Cycling, hiking, rock climbing, running etc. People typically do this to meet others with similar interests, and it's less stressful than a cold approach.

Look, at least you'll be jacked. Plenty of people are drinking, playing games all day, or otherwise wasting their time without anything to gain.

My advice is just start some hobby that involves other people. Sign up for something.
knows his shit.

>spend more than 2 hours a day working out
>autistic about diet
>dont drink
you actually think any of the guys that get laid all time do this. wont get laid if youre this autistic about it. putting efforts in the wrong things, you (and the entirety of Jow Forums looking to get laid) should be normiemaxxing right now instead of working to become even more of an autist
like other anons said, find bros (trough a club, maybe trough work), talk to people, get out there and try to have fun doing it (

Same here apart from I quit lifting and now only leave the house for my nightshift job. Then spend my days off drinking alone in my room. Dont have any family, friends or gf and never like to have any either.

*likely

I’ve been thinking about learning a new language. Maybe I should take some classes

>get a part time job at a shitty bar or resteraunt so that you can maybe hook up with coworkers
Terrible advice desu

The point is to meet people. You don't have to hook up with co workers, but they have friends and family that don't work there, and can potentially play matchmaker or wingman. If you are a student or already have a 'real' job like op states, what have you got to lose?

Just get a gf and start enjoying working out. You don't even have school to bother you like I do while you work full time. If you aren't drinking and you aren't smoking weed or playing videogames there is an absurd amount of free time during the week for doing fun stuff

So much this.

Eat clen and tren hard anavar look back

Fish off the company dock in a different department.
t.Waifu'd a coworker

>16 hours a week at the gym/out running
This is totally unnecessary. Can easily be done in 3 hours/week.

How did you do it?
There is a girl I know from work who is waifu material but its treading in very dangerous waters

bitch you clearly do no cardio

Usually they come onto you. Girls hate being single a lot more than guys do.

> If you aren't drinking and you aren't smoking weed or playing videogames there is an absurd amount of free time during the week for doing fun stuff
Bull fucking shit. I get to home from work, i have to cook something to eat and then it's like two hours left before i have to go to bed.

How long is your commute? Sounds like you're sleeping early too which is brety gud

Asked her out. Said yes. Went on a few dates. Went well. Eventually moved in together. Didn't work out, c'est la vie, but I was already working elsewhere at that point.
We both had an understanding going in that if things went bad we wouldn't drag it to work (clinical hospital environment so zero tolerance for couples' bullshit anyway).
And seriously, don't try it with someone in the same department.

>6am wake up and go to work
>8am get to work
>9pm finish work
>10pm get home and cook dinner
>11pm go to bed

>6am wake up and go to work

JUST GO DO FUN STUFF BRO!!!1

Pretty much this. I can't even work out anymore because of work

If you do 12 hour shifts are you not on a rotation?

sort out your Maslows Hierarchy of needs before you burn out user

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20 minutes since i've got a new job. I thought i would get a shitload of free time because of that, but since i moved from my parents to live on my own i actually have even less now

shit advice
learn to network
get a hobby
form friendships with people in other departments at work who dont have incentives to knock you down to push themselves up

based

>can't get to the gym for 3 hours a week
What are you, a jap salaryman working 19 hour days?

OP here. We don’t have a lake behind my work building, or a “company dock” but I might ask this qt to go fishing somewhere else if it worked for you. I’ll just tell her I was going to go fishing all alone and need someone to do the filleting. Hopefully I won’t act too nervious and make eye contact the whole time I ask her. I’ll put my hands in my pockets so they don’t shake.

I’m op
This is not op

Try the TimeTune app and map out your days.

This is not OP. I am OP. Do a lot of guys get laid by fishing with coworkers? Do the coworkers enjoy fresh large mouth bass?

>work in IT
>only "girls" used to be guys

not even kidding

>fresh college grad
>working 10-12 hour days or 50-60 hour weeks
>only get paid for 40 hours, so I basically do 20 hours for free. No overtime
>only 60k salary
>even interns get paid more than people in my position when accounting for hours put in
>sometimes work weekends

After this project is over in early 2020, i’m leaving this garbage company. At least it looks BASED on my resume within this industry so after I put my time in, i’m likely to get an immediate 20k salary boost after I move on while having a slightly more reasonable work life balance. Until then, JUST

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>5:30am wake up, make lunch
>6am leave house
>7:30am get to the gym (close to work)
>8:45am shower and go to work
>~7pm leave work
>9pm get home, eat
>10pm sleep

That being said you can still have fun on the weekends bro.

What is fun stuff? Are you going to fuckin theme parks and laser tag?

This thread makes me regret wasting my college years doing the STEM meme. I should’ve done business

Business is an even bigger meme. Just go take some idiot's business job

Why are you spending that much time in the gym.Unless your roiding, 2+ hours a day seems dumb.Cut out 5 hours and add a new hobby
If you’re working 60 hours a week that’s your own fault dumbass. Try getting a new job

>tfw only hobbies are hiking, vidya, lifting, and guns
>tfw haven't made any friends outside of college
>it's been 2 years now

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>Spend 6h working out every week (dat HIIT & train effectively, no bs staying in gym for 3 hours, with 5 min breaks between sets KEK)
>no official job this year so far. keep finding side jobs, 3h here, 8 there, two weeks then.
>making all kinds of gains, eating clean for the most part
>stopped weed, losing all the fat. lost laziness
>started drinking again, dont get drunk...just 1 or 2 drinks few times week
>1st time in 10 years not having sex with bitches...feels kinda good
>Needed break from degeneracy and tindershit, too many sloots
>cleansing karma and bad energies, raising vibrations and chackra
>going back to school next year, university. gonna get dat 6 figure degree STEM...already have exp and other degrees so ill be ahead of the zoomers with 0 work exp and no work ethic
>gonna get young wife in uni, ill be dat mid 30's dating a 22-25 young one
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