Who are you missing tonight?

What’s up with that man? Why so many turned down?

One-itis.
That is all.

I told her not to talk to me anymore, so if I were to contact her first, then I'd lose. Either I will find someone else, or she will want to talk to me.

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Oh man. That’s rough. Any way of offering to go to her w/o being creepy about it?

>47268272

Is it worse if you never had anyone to miss?

Why push away someone you’re into and missing bro?

only girl i talked to stopped talking to me after i showed interest
really want to talk to her but shell just ignore it
also were having a class together which sucks even more
>tfw noone can like me

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I don’t think so. It’s lonely but doesn’t necessarily feel like a part of you is missing. That’s open to interpretation tho.

>1.5 days since she texted back
I'm a wreck, lads

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havent texted her in months when she suddenly texted me. exchanged a few texts then went to radio silence again. it is better that way

i missed her so much i drove 3k miles and showed up to their house at 2am and left a gift, a gift that would reveal myself. woke up to a well written text message to stay the fuck away creep.

aw love.

It's nearing 4am and I still can't sleep. Whenever I do sleep, I am still together with my ex whom I broke up with myself two weeks ago. My life is in shambles and I am unsure about as to which way to go. Being a NEET again is really horrible. I can barely look anyone in the eyes because of my shame. I could have been a comfy boomer by now with impressive lifts but I decided to throw that away and I still don't quite know what I was thinking.

uh 3k miles? the fuck dude a plane ticket would have been cheaper

Ugh. That’s tough. Can you initiate the convo?

>go to concert for the first time since I was a child
>feeling good and drunk, I rarely go out
>make out with a qt girl after 18 months of dry spell
>didn't even like the kissing, our mouths were dry from the beer, maybe I forgot how to kiss
>but was in complete bliss for the 20 seconds we hugged
>still think about holding her petite body and the feeling of her little arms around me, grabbing my jacket, and the smell of her hair, 2 weeks later
>had to stop myself, afraid of being creepy
>didn't even make eye contact with me before I asked her for a dance and we talked, so I thought my game was on point and got an ego boost
>ended up losing her in the crowd cause I wanted to kiss as many girls as possible that night
my mistake, only kissed one other girl and she was a thot.
t. 21 year old virgin

Agreed. She’s gotta meet you half way bro.

roadtrip... not a direct route. saw a lot on the way

but broh I've already sent a pathetic do you wanna go out text.
to be fair she texted me sporadically like 12 hours later since we've been dating (3 dates, hooked up once)
I'm thinking it's ogre

Ouch!

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Cringe.

She found someone else but wanted to stay 'friends' and I said fuck that. Now, that relationship looks like it's about over (as I anticipated) and she's alienated essentially all of her other friends (as I anticipated) so it seems like it's only a matter of time when she tries to talk to me. She doesn't even know what I look like now, I've lost 54lb since she last saw me, and I'm in the best shape of my life.

Despite the fact that I didn't stop caring about her, I cannot wait to treat her like shit. Maybe then she'll understand.

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Skip texting. Ask her directly.

>like a girl, almost sleep with her
>be /fat/
>go into cocoon mode over the winter, end up losing 60 pounds (now 6’0, 160 pounds)
>looking lean as fuck, getting compliments from all my friends, gay friend says he jerked off to me, know for certain at least two girls now have crushes on me
I no longer feel any attraction to the girl I used to like, but she started acting all distant towards me and I don’t know why. And me not knowing why is causing me to think about it nonstop. So here I am thinking nonstop about this girl I don’t even like anymore and I don’t know why. I just want to forget her bros

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Fuck the pain away?

Honestly I'm in a good mode right now. I'm just trying to focus on my life and escape my prison of anxiety and shit.
>Working out is going good
>trying to get myself mentally feeling good
>gonna get my drivers license soon after years of having an expired permit and not driving
>try and get a job working for Amazon Flex or Uber Eats or something like that
>Gonna try and get my life going at nearly 21

Plenty of women out there OP. Why get hung up on just one?

I'm not sure, she's moving to out of the country for less than a year in a couple months. I'll be finished with my schooling 2 months before she gets back. Everything seemed to align so well except the distance and the present situation. I would definitely make the move for her but I don't know how that would be received. The girls are so fucking shit around here, and it's just so fucking typical that I'm going to fly half way across the country and find someone so ideal and genuine. definitely grabbing a drink or two tonight. Thanks for letting me talk it out.

"Just stop thinking about it so much dude!"

Overthinking things is fucking cancer. It's not the worst thing in the world because you didn't really lose anything and definitely better of than you were prior to the situation, but hang in there man, it'll pass eventually (not soon enough I know)

Sounds like it’s a convo worth having. Gotta follow your heart so no regrets senpai.

I've been sad since this saturday because a girl I fell in love started ignoring me
>go to the club last weekend with my friends
>this really hot girl I know from college is also there with her friends
>eventually start to dance with her, shes loving it and so am I, make out a couple of times
>we get separated before leaving, didnt get to tell her goodbye
Now this monday, I go to greet her (again shes with her friends) and they all ignore me
What can I do bros, I've never talked to her, is it creepy if I start to talk to her now?
What really got me down was that I found out she started talking to one of my friends
If not, whats the best, repetitive exercise I can do for sadness, running seems to work but my legs are too tired now

It was a whirlwind romance type of situation, but I've never been so sure of someone in my life. It's a fucking nightmare, thanks for being supportive

>falling in love after dancing and kissing a random thot in a club

Dude, evaluate your life. It wouldn't be weird to go up and talk to her. "Hey, that was fun the other day dancing do you wanna go out sometime and have coffee, drinks, whatever?"

I’ll try bro

My dad, he shot himself last year. Text/call your dad, anons, tell him you love him.

It wasnt a random thot, I know her, just never personally talked to her, you could say I have a crush on her

greentext so i can live vicariously through your experience?

You still don't know her. It's no different than it being someone you just met that day, only difference is that you have seen her before. That's it. Do what I said or accept that you don't actually wanna talk to her that badly.

No prob. Just be sure not to come on too strong initially. Don’t want to scare her off either. You’ll make it bro. One way or the other. We’re all in this together.

Damn bruh. That’s tough. Sorry man. Message received.

>My grandparents
If I wasn’t with my mom and Dad, it was my grandma and grandpa. They both passed within 3 months of each other. Breaks my heart still to this day knowing they aren’t here to see me make all this progress in life.

Aight bro, i'll try to get her alone and talk to her
No way in hell im talking to her when she's with her friends
Would it be weird if I mention that night?

Grandparents are the best no matter what anyone says. I feel you. Mine have been gone for a couple years now. Love em while they’re here.

What else are you gonna say? "Hey uhh I've been looking at you from afar for a while and just now decided I had the balls to approach you."? Jesus man you're more autistic than I am and I am literally autistic. You literally made out with her and danced with her. A lot of girls will do that with any guy in a club just to have fun but that's your in to even talk to her.

The best thing you can do is be yourself. Think about it, one way or the other, she’s going to find out who you really are. They’ll appreciate the honesty up front. Be direct. Women eat up confidence. You’ve already got her interest or she wouldn’t have been kissing you to begin with. Do it!!!