How do I get good empathy gains Jow Forums?

Convert to a full Onions diet

>means actually caring about what they have to say
Is this even possible?

Supplement with birthcontrol pills

Just think about how you can use what they have to say in your advantage.

If they talk about some meaningless topic, make it an exercise on why they would be interested in such garbage.

It's great for having a deeper understanding of others.

Allow me to preface this with the obvious, destroy threats of bodily harm into the earth and use your earned strength to safeguard that which is most important. Now most of you have been hurt by another at some point.
If someone trespasses against you it is their own burden to bear. Suffering, jealousy, all manner of bad thought feeling and action comes from weakness. Harming others where mother nature does not will it, is that weakness showing itself. Our modern lives are not perfect, but for the most part when you will it you can carve out your own happy corner of existence.
Learn to forgive, move on and enjoy your life despite troubling times. It is truly the ultimate victory.
Resentment of others is like carrying around a poison that only ails you, and will prevent you from reaching out in fear of the trap snapping shut.

That being said, empathy.
Realize the light you see in yourself can be found in another. You'll never find it if you shut everyone out without at least a cursory chance. In order to come out of my shell, Ive tried remembering that finding a truly noble soul is worth going through 100s of corrupted ones. However its a two way street. you must give a little to get a little. If you have the strength it will be up to you to bridge the first gap. Most simply are too enraptured by the the daily grind of the world around them. We do not blame them for this, if you're living in todays world, there is a clear indication the majority of humanity is lost. Greed or the devil, where the cause of this seeped in i am unsure. As concious beings we have the potential to be so much more than what we are. Let go of what is preventing you from communing with your fellow man.

How do I get rid of empathy?

Yes? Don’t you care about what your friends or famm says?

>implying I have friends

marc.ucla.edu/mpeg/Hammer102617.mp3
this is a link to a guided meditation that might help you , namaste my niggas

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Personally I've never found meditation to be very helpful to me.

I'll be your friend!!!

LSD

first step is quit Jow Forums

I've actually been going to raves semiregularly so that I might strike up some contacts but that isn't an option for me right now.

Be born Canadian.

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Just turn off your brain, bro.

Don't op, empathy is a retarded joke that ends up with you going vegan, then death.

Yep. I have a history of being too empathetic. Turns out I was just ~going with the flow~ too much.

Empathy doesn't mean being a pussy it just means having the ability to observe and understand the emotions of others.

This

Trust me, you don't want to be empathetic. Everyone talks your ear off an complains to you about their problems. To top it all off, you become a target for manipulators and other such people. It's not worth it.

empathy is gay tho

You’re mistaking empathy with being an emotional tampon

>tuning your brain into others problems so you can be like them
i'll pass, i bet you think fat people are like that because of their genetics, right?

You’re not turning your brain into others problems. You understand why other people have those problems.

>Empathy doesn't mean being a pussy

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And some time later you will justify them.
Empathy = understanding and acceptance in the long term.
As the other user said, sympathy is ok.
Empathy is a slippery slope.

ie. I understand why people are fat but I’m never gonna justify it, hence I don’t agree with you.

In short - becoming a massive faggot

>being understanding and loving means being a faggot

stay toxic, user

he's right though

having an inability to empathize equates to low emotional intelligence. relationships with family, friends, people in the workplace, and individuals in day to day interactions are healthier and go smoother with the right amount of empathy. equating a lack of empathy to being a badass (not the same as being masculine) will suffer in their romantic relationships, friendships, and even worse, pass on their autistic insecurities to their children (should you manage you have any).

LSD too

Throw away all your redpills and life experiences

This. Thank you user. Going through difficult times realizing that I once used to be fairly empathetic towards others. I've become bitter in recent years, and have pushed most everyone out of my life. It's not easy letting go of all this pain; it's difficult to remain faithful in yourself and others. I pray tomorrow will be a better day.

Read

This here is the answer I've only just figured it out my self. Took some pain to get there. Be sound.

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This.

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Read the Emotional Intelligence book

This always bugged me. It is said sociopaths/psychopaths are not able to feel empathy but they obviously are using the same tools as empathy to understand and exploit people. Why don't we have a word for that?

You have to be born with it 2bh. I feel close to no empathy during situations or it takes some thought to process it.

You do. sociopaths psychopaths spot them earlier. Be right back. I drew up 31 rules.

1.Refuse. say no if no benefit
2. Subtle change adjust course.
3. Do the maximum. For yourself.
4. Vetted, all red flags. More than 2. No.
5.avoid rats that jump from ship to ship
6. Finances, aspect, physical, mind.
7. Covert your time. It's yours. Not theirs.
8.lift eat sleep repeat.
9.show nothing.
10. Order organise,Set goals,Follow through.
11. Do not explain, unless necessary then be brief.
12. Any lies. Break contact fully.
13.set traps. use yours avoid theirs.
14. Upbeat..not a fucking care in the world.
15. Listen twice. Talk once.
16. No commitment. No comment.
17. No comment. No commitment.
18. Wash your hands. If you've played in the mud.
19. Know your facial expressions.
20. Smile. nod. Do you. Fuck them.
21. Nod only in acknowledgment. Non agreement.
22. Acta non verba.
23. Do not bow. Do not kneel.
24. Test frame.
25. Callout bs. Gaslighting etc.
26. Be flexible. Be gentle for you.
27. Break rules. Bend laws.
28. Understand your options/choices.
29. Understand theirs.
30. Gain ground. Dont back down.
31. Win at all costs.
32. Say less.
33. I do not negotiate with terrorists

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Using cannabis helped me with empathy, and I was actually able to get a gf

being understanding and loving is something you reserve for very special people. your wife, close family, and kids.

in any other context, "understanding and loving" just means you are a weak little faggot.

having the ability to empathize with others doesn't mean you have to constantly use it on everyone you meet. that's complete faglord behavior.

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But how the fuck can i understand someone's emotions if i never felt them myself.

>Just think about how you can use what they have to say in your advantage.
That's more sociopathic than empathic. Empathy would be using what they say to try and give them an advantage. You're truly being selfless and more concerned about the other person's wellbeing

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You are born with an amount of empathy . It does not change. You can merely learn behavior and responses of normies if u have a high enough IQ, but that is not empathy

We don't understand them we know what they feel. There is a huge difference between understanding sadness because someones relative died and knowing they're sad. When my relatives died i just went oh well people die it happens, but i know that people in this case should be sad so i pretend I'm sad. In the same way I know what people should feel in different situations and try to exploit those feelings.
>inb4 edgy
Yeah i know im edgy, cant help it i blame it on my sociopathic mother.