NoFap General

Failed today. I made it 7 days in. Was looking at Fashion Nova swimsuits for my girl and then nutted, while touching myself.

I fap about once a day, in between sets, and always to my waifu.
I figure that comes as close to being in a healthy long-term relationship with a real woman as I'm going to get.

>used to fap
>watched porn
>fapped and felt like shit

>tried nofap
>relapse in few days
>watched porn and fapped
>felt like shit afterwards

>Keep doing nofap until I only relapse after a week or 2
>watched porn when I relapsed
>felt like shit afterwards

>Keep doing this but fap with no porn
>felt pretty good afterwards

>made my fap sessions focus on my pleasure and not just ejaculating
>felt really good afterwrds

>decided to say fuck it and fap twice a day now
>no porn, just focus on my pleasing myself
>feel relaxed and better about myself

Fapping is not the issue, porn is and always has been. Don't let me tell you guys to stop doing what you do because I'd rather you find out for yourself. But when the time comes for you to relapse just don't do it with porn. Just focus on your pleasure and your pleasure alone, you'll be fapping for 10 minutes until you ejaculate and feel bretty gud

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Based and redpilled

Sounds like you might be addicted to fapping lil buddy

Honorable and noble gentlemen here y’all

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>Using a Foucault quote
> About not having sex with women
>In a thread that makes masturbation a degeneracy
>How did Foucault die?

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There's nothing noble about being a 27 year old 5'11" handholdless kissless virgin poorfag nerd who can't into socializing.
An imaginary woman is honestly my best shot at a fulfilling relationship. And I still worry I'll fuck it up somehow.

>Make sure to waste your semen twice a day goyim!

Not happening Goldstein. Day 46 here.

This

4 days, since sunday afternoon(I fapped on the morning ). Not getting crazy erections or anything, only once in the morning today. Also not getting any extra energy or impulse to socialize. The only thing that seems to stem off the depression is when I get some social validation, which usually happens when I get piss drunk and make out with some slut. I feel like a chad for 3 days and then it's downhill again. I just dont believe people that say they're well and healthy alone. I'm unironically feeling like pic related.

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just keep trying

>pleasing a man in a sexual way
>being such a loser hedonist that you fap twice a day
>not directing your sexual frustration to strength gains and maybe getting a women
sorry user the results are in im afraid....your not gonna make it

It turns out that going for a jog actually clears my mind a bit. Also, thinking past having sex and how the actual aftermath would be and how traumatized she might become for realizing she had sex with her son, and also the serious jail time we'd face helps supress my urges.

Im not a physcologist or anything but it might help to kind of just recognize that this is just a fucked up distortion of the fact that you genuinly care about your mother (which is fine) also try and go out and meet some girls. obviously thats way easier said then done, but even if its just to have some female friends it may help

We all have needs and wants user theres no shame in meeting your sexual needs through fap.

>not directing your sexual frustration to strength gains and maybe getting a women
>HI WOMAN H H HOW ARE YOU? CAN YOU SEE HOW SEXUALLY CONTAINED I AM??

What the fuck is containing all of that really going to do for you? Women like talking to men who are relaxed and make them feel relaxed. Containing all of those needs will not magically make you more confident around them I'm afraid.

you can be a calm person that doesnt fap. also if you have an increased sex drive (not fapping) then not only will you be more motivated to put yourself into possibly uncomfortable situations (approaching a girl) but you will also have an increase in self confidence not only from the increase in test (minor as it may be) but also in the knowledge that you arent a slave to your body. Self control is never a bad thing user.

I've been doing it for 6 hours now

Nigger where are your balls?

10days into nofap
Im going to book a session with a hooker this Saturday
Does it count against my streak if I have sex?

It's also simple subconscious work

Deprive yourself of sexual pleasure? Cut off sex with your hand? Your body and mind will do whatever it can to fulfill that need, and if your hand isn't available, you need a woman

My gf won't have sex with me and I'm too depressed to fap
I-I'm making it ?

YA GERKIN' JERKIN'

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Checked

just dont put your penis inside her and youre good

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What is there to gain by not fapping?
I get the "addictive behavior" thing but if I do it once or twice a day on relatively free days is it really any kind of problem? I really don't see the benefit.

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>you need a woman
I really don't though, my hand's worked fine so far.

If I become desperate for sex that isn't a good outcome either, as you'll end up having tons of meaningless sex and causing drama with people you potentially don't like.

I mean, it's not so much that I care for her any more than her being my mother, but because I see her as available. I'm sure that if I didn't have my other siblings in the house, I'd be trying to make moves on her. All of this is, at its core, lust and given the opportunity, I would have sex with her without thinking of the reprecussions. I don't have this intention to be romantically present with her like I would an actual girlfriend, but I wouldn't mind us exploring eachother sexually and intimately, that including soft kissing and that type of foreplay. Outside of sex however, I see her as only a mother and not a girlfriend or a wife and that's why I feel conflicted.

I went overboard on porn two weeks ago and now I find nothing arousing.

What do I do now?

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21st day, I think I hit some sort of flatline

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use your gift and break away while you still can
soon, the urges will come back, and it will not be easy. Good luck my friend, we're all counting on you.

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I've been feeling sexually aggressive I'm on day 15 or so. I got laid about a week ago.

Worst part is I find myself spending hours everyday trying to find girls to fuck

can someone talk to me about this I feel like there's a lot I want to get out

>nofap
I can't believe people are genuinely so fucking retarded to fall for this pseudoscientific meme.

2weeks now, longest is 30days or so.
making good gains in the gym, but still somewhat unfocus in the mind.

been reading some soticism stuff to focus, but not really working. the road to making it is just lonely and hard, and still not sure whats at the end of the road.

still a retard about things concerning socializing

Just stop while you still can, the urges will come back even stronger in time.

I managed to get around a 3 week nofap , until a strong urge happened, I ended up failing obviously, now I cant get around even 4 hours without thinking about masturbating.
I feel like fucking shit... Tired all the time, I dont even have the confidence I had before...
My best advice in your situation, walk away from porn since you can now, and try to not to edge in any shape or form.

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Pythagoras wasnt ontologically detached like the mathematics and physics of today.

I just relapsed after a month and I shot cum all over my face.

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went 12 days
then 24h
now at like 2 hours

FUCK

If you honestly believe that whole subconscious mind will sort itself out shit then I have some bad news for you. Believe me I used to believe that same lie too. I went weeks, sometimes months of nofap, and nothing happened. The only change that occur ed is that I wanted sex even more.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with fapping as long as you do it with no porn and focus soley on your pleasure. Fapping is not the problem, porn is.

Both are the problem user.
Men are castrating themselves with excessive masturbation.
Even worse is what is happening to the unfortunate men who were circumcised

(((who))) keeps shilling against nofap, and towards porn and masturbation I wonder?

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I seldom fap or watch porn. I never ever feel the need, is there something wrong with me?
I do fuck my wife every night though.

Being desperate for sex doesnt mean you just go around banging whores to releave yourself. That being said you have a SEX drive for a reason. That reason is to encourage you to have SEX. However, the reason I do no fap is because I have a strong sexual desire that I have to bring under control. I can do that by exercising, spending time on a hobby, or learning to tell myself no. If I have control over myself (and my desires) not only am I free of any womens attempts to control me with the promise of sex, but I am also gain a stronger mental fortitude.

Thats why you don't feel the need retard

medical waste bin lol

(((WHAT))) does it mean when you perceive anyone who disagrees with you as part of a vast conspiracy?

He also ordered a womans death for telling outsiders the secret that sqrt(2) is not a rational number,

Stopped fapping after a neurosci seminar in which macaques were rewarded with pornorgraphic images of other macaques. These macaques would do almost anything for these images and after a long period stopped caring about social interaction and would all ask their trainers if they couldngo jerk off instead of doing any other activity.

this is even worse in the long run

Story?

Dump the bitch, my ex did the same and soon as told her to be a bitch far away from me my life improved 100x, I think I finally got the mindset to make it
Day 12 here, I'm booking one next month as soon as I get my wagekek bucks, hope I can hold until there

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>5
what xDDDDDDDDD :P

Alright so, I have a bit of a dilemma. On nofap I feel the urge to get a GF quite strongly. Which normally is a good thing, except I'm not in a position to do such and so it leaves me feeling down and constantly feeling like I want something that's out of reach. When I do fap the urge to get a GF is gone, I can focus on improving myself without any annoying feelings interfering.
So, should I save nofap for when I decide to join the dating pool or nofap anyway?

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What’s your longest streak?

Around 2 weeks. Eventually I cave due to all the faggots who post threads starting with half naked chicks.

what a bunch of assholes

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Yeah day 13, first time doing it and its really not hard, not feeling any different however.

I do a variation of this, once a week instead of daily.
I see that you are an esteemed fellow and a man of integrity.

fucking how do i stop edging??

39 days into noporn. Have wanked like once a week since. Not strictly doing nofap but I will decrease wanks more and more.

day 3. only reason i made it this far is from drastically cutting carbs and fat. probably going to bukkake my pillow tonight.

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I encourage all fap-addicts to reach 30 days no-fap at least once in their lives.
The load that you blow at the end of it will be near-hentai levels of goo if you are supplementing zinc and lecithin and all the other cum holy grail supps.
Best nut of my life.

For me I keep a picture of my missing sister on my desk and when I put my penis in my hand I look at her and say to myself "No".

is it true that you can get clearer skin if you don't masturbate? because I'm willing to give up fapping for clear skin

Why do people come into these threads to talk about how nofap is unnecessary? If you want to do nofap, do it. If you don't, then don't. What are you trying to prove?

how come?

so im able to cum hands free by putting my dick in between my legs and squeezing or sliding back and forth. does that still count as fapping. like im not using my hands or anything so it's fine right???

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if I have premature ejaculation, should I be on nofap or should i be jerking off more?

I don't relate to these cats who masturbate 2-3 times a day. Even at my peak I would do it maybe once every other day. I think I just have low test syndrome.

I'm fucking dying. Today marks my third week of NoFap but I keep edging to porn every evening.

I just open one of my bookmarked videos and edge a few times.

I know the main purpose of NoFap is to get rid of PORN but I'm fucking horny as fuck and I can't stop.

I figure that one of this edging sessions will lead me to relapse.

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holy fuck that post with your gaynime photo just confirms you're a fucking gaylord

>one of this edging sessions will lead me to relapse.
yes, it might.
keep on pushing.
it has been about 5 years trying to get this under control, and I am beginning to do so.
keep on pushing.

im just trying to know of rubbing one off with my legs is okay or not

I always feel terrible after fapping, but the desire is so strong, when bored at home at the end of the day and when in a hot shower in the morning.

I guess I need to change my habits to avoid those moments, and gain more self-control.

the idea of taking a cold short shower every morning just makes me want to commit anhero, though desu. I have so few pure pleasures, that denying myself the feeling of a warm shower just seems like too much. I am so lost.

neither on a moral/societal level nor on a nofap level is that ok. wtf is wrong with you

not him, but there's a difference between being a part of a conspiracy and being an unaware pawn possessed by the interests and ideologies of a conspiracy that you don't even realize.

People don't have ideas.
Ideas have people.

>one of this edging sessions
it will, that's how I've relapsed 3 times.
DON'T edge, watch porn, or look at women on the internet. Stop touching your dick too.
Eventually, you WILL fail by edging, it's almost impossible not to, it's just a matter of when it will happen.

R8 my routine
>fap once a week
>noporn permanently

porn is like the worst part of PMO tho. You're doing it wrong

HELF SQWAATIN

4/10

on day 9 now

I sleep better, eyebags start to disappear, am more confident and social.

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I feel like there is no hope for me. Every day for years I've wanted to quit but now I'm at a point where I regularly fap to SSBBWS, pegging, trannies, midgets, and cuck porn. I regularly download obscure porn and then delete it immediately, yet just keep downloading the same files. I spent $50 on explicitcams the other day after having gone over a year without it. Is there any hope for me?

This made me laugh harder than anything recently, hope you're srs