She left me, bros, 3 years and it’s all over

I can’t physcially understand how a relationship can end after 3 years. What happened user?

I don’t understand either, things had seemed fine, but she’s moving away for further study so I guess it’s that

She is seeing somebosy else. Its not that she cares about you, she just feels guilty that she is a cheater, so you're out of the picture.
Read The Rational Male and Models. It will alleviate some of the pain and put things into a different perspective. Be patient. Lift, and focus your energy on improving yourself.
You are going to make it.

also use for relationshit advice

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>give yourself permission to be sad and to mourn - you've lost an important person in your life, it will hurt. Revel in it; this is one of the extremes of human existence - this is the stuff poetry, art, music and literature are made
>delete any social media contacts have with her, This means no tumblr, Facebook, IG, TWITTER, ANYTHING. This is one of the hardest things to do, harder than NoFap, but it is essential for the healing process
>write a list of all the reasons you were incompatible - add to it over the coming months - and when things get really bad, refer back to it
>don't get straight back into dating (unless youre a born Chad), as dates will just remind you of your loss. Enjoy your own company and that of your bros (see below)
>connect with some old friends, especially if you have neglected them since the start of your relationship. If you're not sure how to break the ice, try a standard "hey man, how's it going" and see what happens
>go to the gym and lift some heavy-ass weights, obviously (don't injure yourself and get fat though)
>find some music which resonates with you and that you can feel helps you heal. Play it on repeat, over and over until the messages seep through into your subconscious. For me it was the album Go Further In Lightness by Gang of Youths.
>use the spare time you now have to pick up hobbies you've not been able to/become excellent at your current interests

A friend of mine told me at the beginning of the year that I would be happier than ever by the end of the year and would view my break up as the best thing that has happened to me in a while. The heartbreak was fucking awful, it took a long time to heal, but he was right. It was the best thing that could have happened and was a huge opportunity for growth. Take it as a chance to grow further into the person you want to be.

You're going to make it. We're all going to make it.

Heavy deadlifts and clean and jerks

My dude, first of all you gotta get it out of your chest. What happened? Did any of you cheat? I think any other problem, excluding cheating can be solved

Oh boy. How old are you user? That's the thing with all first serious relationships. Every male needs to feel the emptiness and lack of meaning after this soul crushing experience, which will make him realize that Hollywood tier love is bullshit and it was never supposed to work this way. It will take you 1-2 (maybe 3) years to fully accept this, transcend and transform into a stable individual. There's no thing as unconditional love except what parents feel for kids, kids feel for parents and what men feel for their first serious girlfriend. These next 1-2 years will be hard as fuck m8, but you will be thankful after. Be aware, that most men you meet on the street has felt that first relationship heartbreak and your case is not something special. It's one of the pillars of your adulthood

Like I said to , she’s moving away. I’ve had problems with jealousy before which probably helped push her away but things had been better the last time I saw her.
I didn’t cheat and I don’t think she had either.

I’m 22, and this was my first serious relationship

All women are demons and sex is disgusting. Move on and focus on yourself.