Throughout high school i was bullied by this one guy a lot. He would call me names and humiliate me in front of others. I was a huge pussy back then with a cucked mentality of ‘be the bigger man, dude’. For the first time in 6 years since HS I see this guy again. I’m fit and can probably beat his ass with 0 problems. The problem is the guy seems to be friendly towards me, like he forgot, or tries to forget about the bulliying. The pussy in me believes he has become a better man and tries to be cool between us. But I cannot forget the shit he put me through back in school, i would hide myself from him, don’t go to parties where he was at, and didn’t show up at school sometimes just to avoid him. This dude lived rent free in my head for 6 years. I could take a walk with my dog and out of the blue i would think back and have this sad feeling why i didn’t stand up for myself. He made me feel like such a low life. I would legit have fantasies about beating him too... but I don’t feel right about beating someone with me being the one instigating it. Idk what to do.
To make this fit related. Have you every used your strength you gained from lifting to intimidate and beat people?
Lifting does not equal fighting. If you don't know how to fight, you'll probably get your ass beat by him, and if you did know how to fight you would've already done it by now. Let it go. Ever notice how the people who actually know how to fight rarely ever get into street fights over dumb shit? Because they have nothing to prove, and it's just retarded. End up going to jail for assault after getting your ass beat for most likely swinging first? Fucking genius. Learn how to solve your problems like a man, control your emotions. Fighting should be done in mutual sanctioned combat and self defence only.
Levi Martin
Stop obssessing over him. It's pathetic. HS is long gone. If you hate him why are you talking with him?
Kevin Bailey
Don't fight him. Lots of people were assholes in school. Usually somebody made them feel like shit before they made you feel like shit. It's a brutal pecking order
Henry Allen
Atleast, You should do something if he ever tries to humilate you. Also there are other ways to get back at him, beating him up can get you trouble. If he's popular or well liked it can go bad for you.
Joshua Perez
No. Everyone had a shit time in high school. Just drop it already, it's been 6 fucking years. There's legit nothing to gain from this: a) it won't make the past any different so you'll still feel bitter b) you're gonna get fucked by the big dick of the law since you just assaulted a guy for no reason In my opinion, you're now an adult and should act like one. you'll probably get a lot more out of this situation is you have an honest talk with that guy. If you randomly fight this guy, you're a retarded ape in my book.
