Spoke to my ex today because she wanted closure or some shit

Hmmmm I'll check it out. Thanks kind stanger!

oh just go get laid? just go get laid? yeah bro ill just go get laid

let me go the get-laid store, order a get laid, then get LAID U FUCKIN BITCH. FUCK U

Personally I remedy this with several bong hits but most people I know prefer hard liquor. It's your choice.

Do you just prefer relationships because you don’t have the capability to fuck a lot? Have you ever tried?
Why does it feel like you frequently visit Jow Forums, sluthate and other negative cesspools. How old are you and why haven’t you gotten laid?

No don’t go to Reddit for any reason ever

>Gf tells me she doesn't love me the same way anymore after 7 months
>I'm heartbroken, it seemed to go so well
>Apart from that she still likes me in every way
>Sex was always good on her part
>Try 2 weeks chasing her
>Realise I'm not making rational decisions, insert nocontact.jpg
>Working on myself now

I still want her back

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Why would you give whores closure?

>talk to grill for about a week
>get close and flirty
>she basically begs me to come to a party at one of her friends
>night goes really well, we make out leave and spend the night together, all romantic n shiet
>dont fugg cause her roommate is home (single room ghetto dorm)
>text eachother since I'm unable to see her for a week or so
>texts are in the same flirty and jokey tone for the next 2 days and then it suddenly dies
>like 1 message exchange an hour and it's all mundane shit
>she dodges my requests for dates
What did I fuck up? Should I have cucked her roommate? Is some college Chad cucking me?

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kek

I keep on jumping back and forth with my ex. We keep changing our minds whether we want to move on or try again. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and we're both really broken.

A lot of the time I feel that I'm unlovable and if I break up now, I'll never love like this again. She keeps telling me that she deserves better and I'm crumbling apart.

Please Jow Forums how do I carry this weight? It's crushing me. I've asked before on Jow Forums but no one answered me. Please I beg you guys.

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texting is a game. If you have an instagram or snap, post pics of you having good times (preferably with other girls). Just wait for her to text you first.

There are several ways to deal with this shit. Personally, I just change my point of view. I view relationships as a form of cooperation. If you get with the right girl you can conquer the known world. However, if they broke up with you, you can do one of two things. View yourself as beneath her and use it to improve yourself. Beware, this can lead to oneitis. The second way is to just see it as she was never for you, that simple.

WHORES DONT DESERVE CLOSURE
Should've just moved away and cut contact

You sound desperate. The last thing any girl wants is some guy looking for them to save themselves. Go after a dream, achieve some big goal and be proud of something. Stop talking to her and focus on yourself

>Change point of view
Can you elaborate a little bit?
Maybe I am a little desperate, but she's as desperate as I am. I don't know what to do.

Forgot to include my question:
I broke up with her, but she's doing better than me anyway and that hurts too.

Literally what I told you, focus on yourself you pathetic miserable pussy

>Meet a qt
>Things go well on first date
>Try to make a date for Saturday
>Says she's busy but next saturday is free
>I could have said I have tonight free but didnt because the new raid came out in wow

God damn I feel so fucking §oy missing out on a date to play wow with a bunch of spergs. Would I come off as clingy if I messaged her right now asking if she wanted to do something tonight as well as next week?

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Realize that they are all worthless and make your goals transcend women entirely.

I had that, what I did is cut all contact and bettered myself to the max. When a girl has it her head your are not worth it or less then her, no amount of going back and forth or trying will make it work again. You have to show yourself that you can be better in every way. When you feel that way girls pick up on it.

No wait till next. Because you will sound clingy and pathetic. In the moment it would have worked. But if you do it know she will pick up the fact you thought about it alot and she will lose interest. Keep her guessing until you truly have something going on.

You lift the feelings away. Use it as fuel. And stop talking to your ex, worst thing you can do is keep giving those bitches feels even after they cucked your ass.

Stop texting her and go do other shit. The more you try the more she will stop giving a shit because you'll just be another guy that's beta orbiting her. Let her talk to you, if she doesn't then the thot wasn't worth it and she has moved on to another faggot.

Alright I guess I'll just do that then. The hardest part is that we have mutual friends.

It will suck, and depending on the relationship it can be a long while. But it will get easier every day. Especially if you are truly working on yourself not just physically but I'm every way. Focus on your job if you don't have one get one. Go to school take some classes. Do anything you can to improve and take your mind off of the shit. It'll start becoming less of a chore and into something you'll enjoy. I can tell you from experience it works if you actually grab your balls and try.

I'm a junior in college rn so I guess I'll just focus on making more friends and getting 1234.

If your in college you got amole opportunity to go do shit. Join a club, do some activities around campus, take random 2-3 day classes, go to a party. Just don't sit around and be a crying faggot it will make it so goddamm worse.

You dont need a gf when you have us user

Sex is degenerate. You should only procreate with your wife. And not before you are married

She lost interest and went cold. You should too. I agree with

OP you got to realise that she’s in the past. If you interact with her, keep it chill and civil, but don’t even think about aiming for anything with her. Move onwards and upwards, she’s got to be a footnote in the rest of your story, not a recurring character.

While I’m here, help a brother out Jow Forums. I had a relationship with a girl which I ended because I eventually ended, because she was manipulative and emotionally abusive. I basically told down all the ways she was being a shit, and told her that if she could honestly tell me that I was wrong, or persuade me that she was going to fix that shit she’d get one more chance, but she actually agreed, and we parted on (what I thought were) civil terms.

Summary of the following two years:
>I quickly find new, objectively all round better gf, move on completely. I’m a happy guy.
>At first talk with ex, semi regularly. Usually she’d send a message or call me, and I’d reply politely if I wasn’t busy. Even meet up a few times, but don’t commit much time to our friendship. I don’t want mixed signals.
>Eventually she spergs out, chats shit about me to a bunch of mutual friends (who, fortunately, don’t buy it).
>Additionally, get some very apologetic messages from a few of the girls she lives with, telling me that they’ve been banned from speaking with me. They ask me not to tell her that they told me, and one says she’s going to secretly keep in touch anyway.
>Tell then that I think the whole thing is dumb, but if they want to go along with it, it’s up to them.
>Time skip, assume everything has calmed down because I haven’t heard anything and we’ve been apart for 18 months or so.
>Upcoming wedding of ex’s best friend from childhood. I also get on well with the girl, so she extended an invite to me and my new girlfriend who she’s never met.

Part 1/?

How’s that working out for you?

Suddenly start getting more messages from ex’s friends telling me she’s been chatting shit and telling people to cut me off, etc.
>IThoughtThisWasOver.jpg
>Ignore at first, but eventually tell bride to be. Tell her that it doesn’t bother me, but I don’t want drama at her wedding. Tell her I’m happy to skip it if she’d rather not risk conflict.
>Bride to be swears me to silence, but confides in me that my ex has spent the last few months ranting about me, and that the bride to be plus my ex’s other best friend are beginning to get pissed off with her.
>She speculates that my ex is pissed off that she thinks I’m “happier without her”.
>Tells me to come to the wedding with new gf, my ex will be receiving a stern lecture to either be nice or leave me alone.
>Agree, go along to wedding. Decide not to provoke anything. My gf and I don’t approach my ex.
>She keeps lurking near us awkwardly.
>Eventually approaches us while we’re getting drinks. Is almost aggressively friendly and talkative. I introduce everyone, make small talk, get drinks, and gf and I drift away at the first polite opportunity. I’m not tea interested in talking to her after all her drama.
>Throughout the night, she keeps making a beeline for us and demanding we come and dance with her. We politely make excuses and maybe laters.
>Keeps finding us and asking more and more aggressively, also getting increasingly drunk. Eventually it gets late, and we call our ride. We stand up and grab our stuff.
>She sees us stand, charges over and start demanding we dance, again. Tell her we’re leaving. Starts having a go at me because we haven’t danced with her at all. Tell her sorry, maybe next time. Crack a little smile at the absurdity of the situation.
>Gets pissy “Oh I can tell you’re sooooo sorry”.
>Our ride arrives. Tell her it was nice to see her. She turns friendly again and we say goodbyes. Go home. Laugh a bit with gf at how weird our night was.

2/3 Nearly done.

Its called using you for emotional support until she finds someone who will put up with her after fucking her