have any of you robots had your family pressure you into losing your virginity to a prostitute? my dad and brother both suggested it to me when i was 25. i tried to forgive them but i don't think i ever could. my dad actually lost his virginity to a prostitute when he was 17. i lost a lot of respect for him once i found that out, but at least he isn't a hypocrite like my brother is.
am i wrong for thinking they are scum? pic unrelated.
yes go fuck a hooker now
wouldn't prove shit you faggot. as any robot knows, the sex isn't the biggest part, it's that you are unwanted.
Wait I don't get it so did you do it or not? Forgive them for suggesting it?
Go for it, I saw a thread a few weeks ago and the op said they regret not doing it sooner
>not listening to the mentally healthy people
>asking suicidal nerds on a cartoon forum
Get the fuckin hooker famalam
>Wait I don't get it so did you do it or not?
no i didn't and i never will. still a virgin btw.
>Forgive them for suggesting it?
that's what i'm contemplating
>am i wrong for thinking they are scum?
well yeah
they might be dumb as hell but they are trying to "fix" you. it wouldn't work no matter what their methods are retarded as you stated but hey they are at least trying to turn you into a norman
>Get the fuckin hooker famalam
see
>wouldn't prove shit you faggot. as any robot knows, the sex isn't the biggest part, it's that you are unwanted.
also doing so would only prove that i'm a piece of shit undesirable loser as far as they are concerned. losing my virginity to a non-whore would reject their belief in my sexual value.
>they are at least trying to turn you into a norman
no they are not. they are trying to make me a morally repugnant person who participates in the enslavement and sex trafficking of women. we're not talking about "hey user, this girl seems interested in you you should get her number." that obviously would not be emasculating and would be them trying to make me normal. i wouldn't have a problem with that but that's not what they suggested. they blatantly told me that i have no sexual value inherently and thus i have to use money to make a woman fuck me.
Honestly it's not that bad of a suggestion I'm a 20 year old virgin and I sometimes contemplate how awkward it will be when (and if) I ever get a gf and she finds out she's my first. It won't solve the "women don't want me" problem but I think your dad is right, see it as practice
>I sometimes contemplate how awkward it will be when (and if) I ever get a gf and she finds out she's my first.
why do you care so much about what a woman thinks about you? if she says "this is your first time right?" and then laughs at you then tell her to fuck off.
>but I think your dad is right, see it as practice
it's not real practice though. it's like riding a bike with training wheels and believing you can ride without them.
anyway, the reason my brother suggested it was just for him to remind himself that he lost his virginity sometime and high school and didn't need a whore to do so. i'm much more angry at his emasculating me since he didn't even follow the advice he's giving unlike my dad.
>trying to make me a morally repugnant person who participates in the enslavement and sexual trafficking of women
Oh, so you're a feminist and a moralfag, maybe even worse, a christian. You don't belong here.
>blatantly told me that i have no sexual value
because it's the truth. I know that because I'm the same in that aspect. I'm a virgin, but I don't refuse to hire a hooker. I just don't need it. My job, weightlifting, anime and video games are the only things in my life and I'm satisfied with that.
>Oh, so you're a feminist and a moralfag, maybe even worse, a christian. You don't belong here.
i'm not a feminist nor am i a christian. prostitution is immoral and disgusting.>because it's the truth. I know that because I'm the same in that aspect. I'm a virgin, but I don't refuse to hire a hooker. I just don't need it. My job, weightlifting, anime and video games are the only things in my life and I'm satisfied with that.
i'm sort of the same then except i don't watch anime or play vidya anymore.
>I just don't need it.
yes because you recognize that i wouldn't change anything about your sexual value. i don't really see how we're different.
My dad suggested it when I was 16
I have a friend whose mother suggested it to him when he was 11.
I grew up in a sick and degenerate place. I am sort of fond of my father, I don't like the way he is, but I guess he just was raised like that.
>fucking 11
I still don't refuse it, I just feel like it's a waste of time and money. If someone paid me for an hour with a 9/10 hooker, I'd most likely go for it.
What would hiring a prostitute solve? It's not going to make women want to have sex with you more. It's basically just masturbation, you're just paying a woman to use her hole. What happens after?
Also, even with a condom, there's a large risk of std's fucking a prostitute.
Lol you are a massive pussy and total fag
>It's not going to make women want to have sex with you more.
OP here. people seem to be arguing that it's practice for having sex when it really counts. but in order for that to be true i would have to make a habit of using prostitutes when i am disgusted by the very idea. i guess my mind was already made up when i posted this shit but i'm just not sure if i could forgive my family for emasculating me like this.
t. prostitute addict at worse or maybe at best a chad without some priceless just be yourself wisdom
the money would be better used for a therapy session
it would be a better idea but i'm not interested in being a professional victim and i have seen a therapist before for an unrelated matter. it was bullshit. she just agreed with everything i said just like a whore, because that's essentially what she was. i paid to have her agree with me and to paint myself as someone from an unprivileged background when the opposite is true.
You don't really need practice for sex "when it really counts". Aim the penis at the hole and stick it in. If you've seen porn before, you're well-equipped to perform, it's not too technical.
Your family probably means well and just don't want to see you continue as a virgin as you get older or they think you'll end up like the 40 year old virgin.
Fucking prostitutes is not a good habit to get into either. It's illegal, it's expensive, it's addicting, it creates a bad habit where when you want to have sex, you think about opening your wallet because it's easier than attracting a girl who actually wants you and not your money.
Sex without someone you care about is just masturbation, and it'll just leave you feeling empty afterwards. It's the most physically intimate thing a man and woman can do with each other, don't waste it on hoes.
You're a loser you need to accept this and be honest with yourself. Yes this won't fix everything but it's a start it will help, the virginity is weighing on you and turning you into a delusional nutjob
I also lost my virginity to a prostitute at 17, people seem to think it's a bad idea but it legitimately helped me. It got rid of my insecurity (can't be insecure about being a virgin if you aren't one) and made me much more comfortable with sexual things (since I now had some real familiarity with the subject).
I would recommend it if you think you're in the same boat as I was.
literally never denied that i wasn't. just because i'm a loser doesn't mean i can't have a sense of ethics and not break them due to familial pressure. there's a difference between my thinking i'm a loser and doing this while validating their opinion of me. i at least have my dignity.
>they are trying to make me a morally repugnant person who participates in the enslavement and sex trafficking of women
It's not like that, there are plenty of high-class escorts that are normal, healthy women doing it on their own terms.
I got the same weird kneejerk reaction from a friend when I told her I'd fucked a hooker, but it just shows unfamiliarity. She wasn't drugged up or weak, there was no pimp, she manages everything herself and has a lucrative career that she seems to enjoy. Nothing wrong with it.
first, i doubt a prostitute would tell a client about her pimp or how she is part of a sexual trafficking ring unless the client refused to pay or some shit. second, even if the prostitute does her job of her own accord, there's still no emotional attachment because she's doing it just for money. so it may be true that not every prostitute is coerced but it doesn't change the fact that an intimate relationship becomes a disgusting financial contract.