Il spare you the damage of sitting through any replies you get here.
Firstly, your seeking genuine help from /fit, the most insecure board on Jow Forums.
The only reply’s you’ll get here are half help and half spite. Do you think anyone wants you to succeed here? No, of course not, because your success means someone else’s failures. You remind others just how fucking miserable life is for trying to better it.
If you want to have better social dynamics let me give you genuine advice.
>Be respectful but don’t be a yes man
What I mean is, don’t shoot anyone down, even if they say something completely retarded, you don’t know everything either, and people are trying to figure out themselves much like you are. If you want to be liked, be respectful, but don’t let people rule the conversation. Have input, you’ll be amazed when you actually listen to someone who has something to say.
>Ask why
There’s a reason for this. Make people explain themselves. Don’t just nod your head and accept what their saying to you. You have to ask why. Make people explain anything you may not understand, not only will they be motivated to share their knowledge (as most people are), they will take this as you being interested in the subject.
>women can smell your thoughts
If you approach a girl, she can smell your intetions a mile away. Don’t look at them like sex bots. They are people, and women have this sixth scenes when it comes to figuring out what you want. Be neutral at first, don’t eyefuck her. Don’t ogle her, just speak and listen.
That’s the most I can give you without writing some thesis about being a functional person.