How do cope with never experiencing adolescent love?

>You will never find a cute virgin teen wife who will love you unconditionally
>You will never find a virgin teen wife who will love you unconditionally
>You will never find a virgin wife who will love you unconditionally
>You will never find a wife who will love you unconditionally
>You will never find a wife who will love you
>You will never find a wife

i got stabbed back in the 90s after i got piss drunk, bled for hours until people found out i didn't passed out from the alcohol and called the ambulance

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The love unconditionally is lost alongside virginity so one of your steps is redundant. Once someone has given their body to someone and been intimate, but then moved on and found someone else - they then see partners as commodities. Losing one is not the end of the world they can be compared to previous ones and there may well be better.

Depressing but true
Especially true for women

oh....
how many women do I have to fuck or know intimately before I stop hurting Jow Forums?

i don't like seeing sex as this thing that binds two people together forever, it sucks really really badly

You're a good dude for bothering to type that out for these kids.

This.
Virgin gf
> you are the world to her
> will do anything to be like you
> learns about herself with you and grows with you
> is excited about sex and loves you being happy

Roastie toastie
> always feels like she settled because chad once fucked her ass when drunk
> is bored by sex
> demands you chew on her crusty labia because lots of guys do it first
> calls you a bigot if you ask about her past or ask her to delete tinder
> will oblige a blow job only once a year as part of a 69 with shit smell eminating from her ass because she farted herself sick whilst out drinking with the gals

Adolescent love, for the most part is nonesense and surface level. You missed out on lust that’s it.

Fucking incels everywhere. I don’t get this “if a woman has fucked another man besides me, they are a whore and useless. The thought of someone else giving my girl pleasure makes me disgusted. In the girl not me of course” but that’s the mindset they’re instilling in you right? You’re fucking men stop jerking off every 5 seconds and take control of your life

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Spoken like a true virgin

Virgin gfs also stray because they are interested about what else is out there. Sorry but you losers are wrong

Yes, what you think most people stay with their highschool sweetheart? no, you leave them when you go to college or they leave you, you're a fling not a romantic partener

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I know because I’ve experienced both.

Im in a ltr with a girl who had 2 partners before me but she was my first. It never stops sucking and there's always some low grade bitterness but it's no reason to also ruin yourself. It's better to be a decent person alone in a bad world than to fit in. I was a cringeworthy autist until i was 21, so i only have myself to blame really.

This is spoken like a truly autistic person. There's far more nuance to the issue but you're posting on a Mongolian throat singing board so I know for a fact that you don't know first hand what you're talking about.

>tfw have a pure virgin tomboy GF that doesn't think I'm her world because she's a balanced human being, and doesn't change herself extremely to suit me

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>Virgin gfs also stray because they are interested about what else is out there.

We have scientific proof that this is incorrect user.

Statistically untrue.

Hmm I was the virgin gf and am in an 8 year relationship and feel like he's robbed me of my good years (he's a alcoholic now, well, he was an alcoholic before I just didn't know what that looked like because I've never dated anyone else).

Now I am incredibly resentful and wish I had been single at some point in my life so that I could go out and suck some dick. I'm about to buy a house and bounce.

Roastie Toastie is not the only other choice btw.

> npc_roastie has entered the lobby

Cope

There are still low iq virgins.

Jow Forums incels aren't obsessed with "pure" virgin women because of chastity; they're obsessed with pure, virgin women because those are the only women who won't be able to spot that despite being 26, those dudes have never even felt a tit. It's an ego thing. A chick - even if she's only been in one long-term relationship with one other guy from high school - is going to smell the fear on them the same way dogs do. If you're a clueless virgin, she's going to KNOW right away. And how do you explain that without sounding like a fucking weirdo, the fact that you're closer to 30 than 20 and you don't know the basics?

It's about ego. Even a religious chick who's only had one other partner has to be rejected outright because she's undoubtedly had sex. And sex means experience. And experience they can't handle because they don't have any.

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Nice LARP, roastie..
I'm sure there are a number of women who'll fall for your narrative.

Roastie is going to give up her only chance to start a family just because her partner drinks "too much". Sad!

>VIRGINS AM BAD
>VIRGIN GIRLS ARE STUPID WILL BE OKAY WITH VIRGIN MEN
>STOOPID NON SEX HAVERS
>VALUE WHORES!

Talk for yourself, you absolute failure.

I was an advocate of virginity at 17 and even now in a relationship at 27. Stop your false arguments.

Some of the roastie toastie section is depressingly accurate.

Honestly i don't understand why they covet virginity. It's not like being virgin makes the sex better of the person any different. You would think that you want someone who has experience to lead you through your first time.

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Who here /raisedaughterstowaituntilmarriage/?

This, adolescent love is not a reproducible experience. You just grow together and it's true love, you would give your life for your each other. You are always on the same side. You are always happy when you are together.

It is just not the same thing with "damaged" or broken women. They never really let their guard down fully. You are just part of the dating game in the extended relationship level. It's always some sort of competition you are not even the same despite being in a relationship. Even sex is a mini power struggle where you focus more on pleasuring your partner than yourself (since this will get you better partners later). You will never fix them fully. They will never get over their first love fully.

And most of these women are utter shit in an objective way, they use shitty tricks to seem more desirable than they really are.

I was extremely lucky to realize what a waste of time damaged goods are before leaving university. I was even luckier to meet a smart, attractive cute virgin. With her I finally got what I lost from my youth. Someone who is truly worth investing your time in. Who will mean something to you back and support you. Who doesn't care about being feminine and weak because it just feels natural to them.

Don't bother with non-virgins, just fuck and dump like the other Chad did before you.

Are slags really as stupid as you or is this a LARP?

Damn dude you got me, I'm totally not some barely ottermode dude that has definitely smashed more poon than you.

Fear of rejection and desire for acceptance is what it's all about. All people need to do is relax and be willing to laugh at themselves or have an awkward time before you work out what you're doing.

If you're looking for sex with a girl that this user hunts then of course you're gonna get fucked over by the female equivalent of a chad.

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well, think about this
>date someone with experience
>learn how to pleasure a woman
>if you still like her stay and if not leave her for a virgin to teach her the ropes

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Made up cute memories with a girl I used to talk to every now and then back at the time, also pic related for you OP

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The growth part is vital and understated. 16-22 are vital formative years mentally, once they're done you are set as the person you are and will never perfectly align with someone else, there's no such thing as a 'soulmate'. However if you stick with someone in this time you grow alongside them and complement each other, part of you shaped exactly for them.

It's the only way to truly have a perfect human for you to live and die with. Anything else is just compromise, self-denial or attrition.

This is gross. Think about it.

the picture or the steps?

The steps, im phone posting so give me a minute and ill type a proper response on a laptop.

I don't know why virgins over 18 don't kill themselves. You should have had a few girls by that age

>Honestly i don't understand why they covet virginity.

They don't covet it. They covet not being 'found out'. If you're normal, if you've been laid, this shit doesn't sit at the forefront of your mind - it's just sex. But if you're someone who's long past the point age-wise of losing it, to the point where it's kinda 'odd', then it permeates everything. It's built up and built up into this huge thing. At the same time, they don't want to admit the situation to themselves - they're embarrassed, which is certainly understandable - and like all embarrassment, they do everything they can to avoid sharing it. Like some kind of weird secret alcoholic.

Like i said, if you offered them an innocent, religious chick whose only experience is with a similarly goody-goody boyfriend from high school - a two year relationship which ended when he died in a car crash or whatever - they'd still reject it. Even though she's only ever been with him. Why? Because of the EXPERIENCE even though she's the ideal they constantly go on about. That chick is going to KNOW within five minutes of getting to the bedroom and them fumbling about with her bra that he doesn't know what the fuck he's doing and they can't handle that, hence all the threads about trying to find some frightfully young KHV chick to marry.

It's about ego not chastity.

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>had dozens of opportunities but I was such a shy little shit that I would outright run from them
>now I'm a lonely, kissless virgin and my shyness and timidity led my to my autistic state where I completely just isolated myself and lost completely my ability to approach people without looking like a spaz
planning to start lifting soon (pursuing mainly health gains) but I know 100% for sure that my shitty/lack of personality is never getting fixed and I'm going to die alone
also microdick
maybe I should just end it all Jow Forums

Yeah that's bullshit.
I fucked a girl at 15 yet I value virginity highly.
I never would have chosen my wife if she was a roastie

>tfw 18yo
>met a nerdy 17yo girl in an university exam 3 months ago
>have seen each other 7 or 8 times (she lives 1h from here by car)
>im moving to her city for uni in a week
she gotta be my gf man, but will it count as adolescent love? I mean I'm an adult

This is the gods honest truth

This guy is wrong and weak minded.

The female equivalent of a chad is a girl who fucks few men and only the top ones.

She's the equivalent of that loser whoremonger dude who'd fuck anything that stood still long enough and had no standards.

>18
>adult
user... you're still mentally a retar... I mean child
Even 21 year olds are usually immature

Why?

Imagine the smell, haha

>I never would have chosen my wife if she was a roastie

The choices aren't 'virgin girl' and 'town bike slut'.

> someone somewhere was some girl's first experience, someone who meant enough to her she wanted him to be the one
> every girl once quivered nervously and knew they were undergoing a transformative moment and held tightly to the boy, feeling his soul and making a leap trusting it
> all girls past this are hardened and unimpressed, relationships hold nothing new for them
> you will never catch a beautiful girl in the earlier stage, they have all long since passed it

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30 years ago, maybe. I think it's different now. If you make it through uni/college without getting laid then yeah, it's kinda odd but I think the dynamic has shifted enough that people often find themselves waiting later than 18.

30 years ago people were more social and there was more intermingling, mostly because sitting at home on a computer all day wasn't an option like it is now.

This is true. I'm .

It was a literal fucking fight with roastie fuckbuddies in undergrad. They insist on getting oral or hand clit stimulation before sex and then rarely give it back. The usual claim is because vaginal sex is less intense.

Fuck that.

With my virgin qt she not only doesn't care about coming at all, but she loves having really intimate sex in the normal missionary. She will give blowjobs unsolicited and delights when she can get me off. When you have this kind of bond where you deeply care about another person you are also able to please each other much more easily. She orgasms so easily after you truly learn each other's bodies in a relaxed environment. The irony is I've never given any women oral until my current gf who never asked for it.

Nah, adolescent love can be real love.

Statistically past 2 partners and there isn't much difference in terms of chances of marriage success.

>32 yr old virgin here
How badly fucked am I?

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>Missed out on claiming a high quality girl before they all lost their virginity.

It's ok user, we can't all be winners. All we're telling you is don't marry the thots, because you know just as well as we do that they WILL fuck you over and steal all your money. Let the stable parents raise next generation. Enjoy life and your own wealth, keep fucking the thots on the side because they are not the focus of your life.

Just don't be stupid cuck that marries Chad's disposed condoms.

Importantly if you are both virgins pleasing each other is private and important. If your partner isn't then it can make you pathetic, going down on a girl where other men's cocks have been. Working hard at foreplay and making her happy when she happily blew some guy in a bar once after he slapped her ass.

You now get this perverse common mentality where girls say "i made him wait because I really like him". So a guy they don't like has to do nothing and they open their legs, but if you like it you have to work for their 'prize'.

>tomboy GF
Disgust.jpg

*it also becomes a shit test. If you work hard to please her you seem pathetic, lower quality than other men who weren't bothered about her. It's not a healthy mindset but it's near universal with women now.

Why you just don't go to hookers ? That's what I did when I turned 22.
It's not the best first experience but at least you don't have this shit on your mind all day.

>being British

lmfao

>*gets divorced at 24*

I think partly you are right, but i used to be one of these people who obsess over virginity, and for me at least, it was a thing of "romanticism". Virginity is associated with humility, shyness, purity of mind, sensitivity, and young, pure, love, like those fantasy stories (lord of the rings, etc.), you normally dont see your knight in shining armour going to protect a girl who has already known and loved other men. The knight goes for the purest first love. Im not saying it is like that, there are girls who are hoes at 7 years old and at 37, and there are good decent women who have had a couple of bfs

You're in a relationship, it's a two way street and you can change him too. Threaten to leave him if he doesn't fix his shit.

I was an alcoholic and all I need to change was one comment that I was drinking too much, now I'm finishing a really good degree, staying healthy and graduating into a good job.

This. I'm in a relationship and i find i occasionally have to be dismissive and distant to reignite attention. A few weeks ago i got drunk on a night out with her and she found me with my arms around two spanish girls, i expected to be in shit but instead i got my intimacy and attention than usual for the next week.

Bro I have bad news for you but you might date a thot

>If you're a clueless virgin, she's going to KNOW right away
no she won't. My first time with a girl she didn't even notice. Stop spreading misinformation

who says you cant love adolescents as an old man?

just stay out of your shilthole country(america) if youre not a jew, else youll get called out

bro i literally can call that girl from when i was a teenager right now and marry her. that's how engrained we are in each other's personality, and we havent talked in 5 years.

that's how close young love makes you, and you will never get to experience that with another person.

cope

Not really, she's only been with 2 people before me and we've been together 6 years. However i think the mindset sets in after just one partner.

This. First time i was so nervous i couldn't finish and kept going for a stupid amount of time, it was probably the best I've ever performed. Women don't know shit.

I wouldn't know where to start
Plus hookers dont really count
Its not real sex

lol are you serious? did you not have friends with you? id have prolly raped your stab hole if noone was around.

that might be true I can't even know I've been with only one girl and she was virgin too /e/ sad life

you will get called out and stared at with disgust everywhere lad

First everything with my now wife at 21. She's been with 11 guys total, and is five years older than me.

Fell into stereotypical millennial debt trap, and never had kids.

I'm not suicidal, but when I think about my situation too much, I think I should be.

I just hug my pillow at night and pretend it a girl.

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the truth is right here boys

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I hug my girl at night and pretend it's a boy.

>Long term partner has a problem
>Better just leave him and go find someone who's better
2018 for you

brother she's sucked at least 20 dicks.

> older gf
JUST

whats the point telling him that ?

mentally unstable 101 leave fucking right now. you can maybe try getting a threesome in though.

dont say i didnt warn you

Maybe, but I don't even get birthday blowjobs anymore.

No, i'm just tired of it now.

I just want to fuck random women like I wanted to fuck her. Just ruin some girls. And get it out of my system.

How long would it take to get over seeing sex as sacred?
Is it the amount and types of women or is it something that happens over time?