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Experience of (multiple) intimate relationships, introspection of these resulting in self-development and eventually forming a rational, empathetic mindset as a result.

You need to look inwards at your insecurities and minimize each of these to the point where they no longer exist.

But user, my biggest insecurity is being a virgin. How do I minimize this without a relationship?

Bet you've never gone on a single date you ultravirgin. Why do people lie on the internet?

I have no idea, I lost mine at 15. I had a friend who was 23 years old who had sex with a prostitute every weekend for 2 months until he got over his overwhelming fear of it enough for it not to be debilitating. That might be a route but it seems very unappealing.

this is what i lack, how do you become emotionally developed, ive already gone through multiple traumas, abuse and violence.

Go high level
Think about why it is an insecurity not how you can minimize it
You know, work around problems, not through them
If I had to explain it I'd point at your blatant priorization of sexuality over all other qualities, try and find why that is

How many times are you going to make this thread dude? You’re trying to humble brag about having a job and owning a car on an anime image board? If this is the depth of your personality than this probably why you’re not getting higher quality girls. They’re probably dumb and materialistic like you. Most girls who are worth a damn don’t care about flashy shit but rather your personality health and how you treat them. Also if you’re interesting.

>had sex with a prostitute every weekend for 2 months

Living the fucking dream.

>burn through your cash supply like there's no tomorrow to quell an insecurity you shouldn't have past age 17
The dream alright

Consultants are the biggest npcs of all. They ruin startups and waste money. You are all drab boring people who think your LinkedIn content and mainstream trendy interests make you unique. You sit in your expensive city apartments, wear your light blue button ups, carry your tumi bags, and talk on your iPhone Xs. You go our for happy hour and are always worried about what the partner wants. There’s nothing interesting about consultants at all. No one cares about where you got your mba and everyone with a half of brain realizes finance is just moving money around and not creating anything of value.

> ive already gone through multiple traumas, abuse and violence.
This would make you regress if you're unable to build on them. I can't tell you how to do it, from what I can tell of it it's different for each person depending on what insecurities and problems are integral to them.

It took me 12 years of what I called psychological progression to finally get over my problems. What finally pushed me into emotional stability was a healthy relationship with my current gf, and seeing first hand what it means to emotionally mature.

He went with the same one the entire time and she gave him a heavily discounted rate since she found him cute apparently, lol. He told her he was a virgin and wanted her to teach him how to pleasure a woman, she did a decent job from what I can tell. But yeah, agreed it's weird as fuck, but then again it's weird to be a virgin past 20.

1.Not an insecurity
2.Paid thots are not that expensive
3.I deserve to spoil myself
4.They are "experienced" enough to take something that's a bit over 9 inches in length balls deep and can take a hammering.
5.No emotional attachments and I can use them like hatefuck toys till I drain my balls completely and work off some aggression.

It's simple logic user.

Painfully embarrassing post, please think before posting something like this again out of self-respect

He’s posted this same thread for the past few days. Just another autismo.

>listening to society
First mistake. Second was being autistic. Life isn't about following formulas

Your job might be prestigious but its boring as fuck. Working in finance is completely uninteresting to anyone but gold diggers. Before anyone calls me an arts major etc. I'm a Neuroscientist. Might not earn as much as you but every girl I've dated really likes the idea of dating an Alzheimer's disease researcher with a PhD and likes to show off her "intelligent" boyfriend. I don't ever let it slip that you don't really have to be that smart to have a PhD

i know i'm responding to copypasta but ur probably just boring as fuck and/or under 6' lol

Financial consultancy is quite possibly the most boring job imaginable

>prestigious job
>financial “consultant”
Can’t think of a more braindead or boring job

>i big money why no girl wan fuk ?????