Insecurity General

Height
Financial income

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That I won't fufil my purpose in life and make the world better.

Social status, depression

Fuck yeah nigger.

My biggest issues are my weight and my father's hoarding. I'm unhappy with my fat, flabby physical appearance (6'3" 230lbs, 26% bodyfat) and the fact that I can't have friends over without freaking them out.

So, I'm fasting intermittently, doing OMAD, and I cleaned for 8 hours to get my room, the front entryway and the kitchen sparkling clean. I plan to move into an apartment with a friend of mine soon though, since I can't clear the mess my father made, he's got Hoarding Disorder on some level.

We're all gonna make it bros. Look at yourself in the third person, and you won't be able to keep lying.

The idea of living the "American dream" of having a blue collar job, keeping a lawn and growing old is fucking terrifying.

Ex cheated on me and I still happily with the guy. I'm absolute shite with girls and when she left she told me I don't matter and wasn't worth it but he was.

I have no fucking clue anons, have to affirm my worth in myself, nothing else

Does your social status depress you, or is it something else about yourself? What's making your life spiral into this dark place? Try to find the source, and cut it off.

I feel that once you lose the depression, your self-esteem will rocket upwards, and give you the social life you desire.

What can you do to affirm worth in yourself? Focus on you, and what you need to do to become worthy of love from yourself.

You'll make it brah.

I’m 5’5 so I’m just waiting for my grave

She tried to get me to kill myself after she broke up with me. Went out of her way to bully me and put me down. Then would let me know how they were fucking. Like from one day 'i love you user, together forever, you're my best friend ect' to ' I've always loved him, you're pathetic, end it and give up, he's the best thing that's happened to me'.

I know I need to love Myself but Mercy, I don't know how

sebaceous cyst...

Extreme depression over being circumcised. Zero interest in sex with my mutilated penis

No job. Trying really hard. Waiting to hear back from a few interviews I had last week

Thots are brutal man. I know how it feels to have a girl leave you for another man, but I don't know how it feels to be cut apart like that.

What a shitty bitch. Obviously, I'm not inclined to believe what she said about you. Have you cut off all communication with this girl? Are you holding onto a line of communication in the hopes that you can have what you had before again?

If so, stop. I had to realize that the woman I fell in love with wasn't who she was anymore. I've accepted that she'll never be a wonderful person to me again, and no matter what I do, she's always going to be made of venom and poison.

I hope you can come to realize this soon yourself, nothing is more liberating than breaking the shackles that an ex left you with.

I have comically small arms and wrists. End me.

I’m uncut but I’m willing to bed there are plenty of girls who don’t even know what a penis with foreskin looks like thanks to porn

>height 5'8
>chin not weak but rounded
>nose roman and button nose hybird
>muscles none, yet
>jawline, one of my best features, so I pay extra attention to it and its become an insecurity where im constantly trying to maximize it even when it's already in the 95 percentile of jawlines sharpness

Look at it this way;

Handsome and tall men play on easy mode. Still, there are loads of virgin autismonaut lanklets around.

Unless you're midget-tier, you'll be fine. There are plenty of "short" men (by Jow Forums standards, absolute manlets) that are successful. In other words, just try harder and know that every achievement on the sexual and professional/social front required that much more work. Stop caring about it.

You're too focused on a small detail. Sex might not be the best it could have been, but circumcision has some benefits. A lot of girls will find it more natural, and you won't have to explain your foreskin to an inexperienced thot.

You're more than just your cock bro. If you think that sex is the only thing a woman would see in you, I'd recommend looking in the mirror to see what else there is, or what you would change to appeal to them. Your dick isn't likely to be the deciding factor as to whether or not you fuck someone, it's how you act around them.

Be proud of your jew penis, (((they))) keep them in vogue.

Don't really care what women think about it, it's more of a personal thing, like why the fuck was part of my body cut off as an infant, the most sensitive part of my genitals? I don't care if American girls "prefer" circumcised, I don't

One cyst on my face and a few cysts of a different type on my ass along with a whole bunch of scars because I've been getting them since I was little. Doctors could never figure out why.

Girls have no fucking concept of physical dimensions in general, and sex is so much more than the exact stats of the dick you put inside her (unless you truly have a micropenis), such as her feeling dominated, safe, etc.

The average male penis is evolutionary designed to fit correctly inside an average sized vagina. If you're average or slightly beyond average, you're not small, she's fucking loose.

in b4 "lol micropenis coper" shitpost replies, my dick is 6".

Circumcision has literally zero upsides. We live in a genital cutting culture without a genital cutting religion, so the false medical "benefits" are the only way to justify the practice. I know if you live in a society like that then the women will be fine with circumcision since that's what they're used to, but it fucks me up that part of my body was cut off at birth for no reason. I have no desire for a relationship or sex, or really anything. Why should I give back to a world that mutilated me at birth

Yeah went no contact, that caused her to go bipolar between being even meaner or acting fake sorry

I'm almost over her. The thoughts still haunt me like a parasitic worm in my head and the whole 'why him not me' shit plagues me because I saw how happy she was and it was another level of elation.

But fuck it, not my worries anymore, need to somehow free my mind and idle brain from thinking of her and learn that I should have more self respect than to ever think what she said was true

she will probably do it to him as well unless he does it to her first. people like that are just fucked up

this

There are just shitty people in this world, and some of them are really good at lying. Glad to hear you're pushing past your issues rather than letting them bog you down user.

Whoever is giving advice in this thread is a good user and I like him

that i'll settle for a woman who has to settle for me.

>in b4 "lol micropenis coper" shitpost replies, my dick is 6".
>In b4 "lol micropenis coper"
>my dick is 6".
hmmmmmm

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like wading through a swamp user
need to 'cure' my negative thinking patterns and I'll be on the mend hopefully with someone better

who fucking knows, they're both toxic people, so maybe they'll last, I'm just going on my own path and trying not to let my mind wander to the hurt

Thanks for your kind words anons

Receding hairline and I'm a brainlet. Not too bad tho, 6'0 with blue eyes and making decent gains and a decent peen. I at least have the Socrates advantage of knowing that I know nothing and knowing when I'm the fool in a situation.

I have so many things wrong with me that I feel like theres no point in even trying anymore.

>short
>skelly fat
>fat nose
>poor eye sight
>acne, scars, freckles, large pores
>small dick
>voicelet
>also I'm cum too fast
>I'm constantly depressed
>constantly on edge
>have a hard time focusing
>lost in life. Just can't figure out what to do career wise.

The only good thing about me is that I still have hair.

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kek

>shitskin
I use sunscreen and bleach my skin with lemon and baking soda.
>Asian hair
I have a two block haircut, it works amazing with getting zoomer girls to talk to you
>Height
Sigh, insoles.

Restore it?

I have alopecia barbae which means patches of my beard hair have been falling out for the last 5 years. There’s no cures and treatments don’t really work. I’ve tried a bunch of treatments so now it’s just living with it. I have someone ask me about it once a month. Really embarassing

Being a khv, and lack of wealth. All my life I’ve been the poorest person in a room of rich people, and I’m working a low hourly job (to pursue side businesses) in a wealthy community. I have blown so many opportunities and failed so many times, and sacrificed a social life to do so, that I now hate social interaction. I just want the people I care about to go live their lives, get prestigious autopilot degrees+jobs through nepotism, enjoy their trust funds, have kids, the whole 9 yards so they can avoid getting dragged into my failings, which they always worry about and offer to help with. They were not born to be friends with plebs like me, they should follow their preconceived path. Because I want them to be happy.

>I use sunscreen and bleach my skin with lemon and baking soda.
explain, im white but want to ghost

Always doubting if I'm doing things right (good technique, being sports or running or lifting).
Fear of not having a good program and therefore not doing what is perfect and best suited for me.
Irrational fear of people judging me.
Anxiousness about the fact that making that effort on a periodic basis won't really take me anywhere (not seeing immediate results).
Seeing myself as ugly and unpleasant, being for my looks or my personality. Bad posture worries me, I think I walk around like a retarded.
>tfw you'll never make it

I'm in hell (Arizona) and the sun is so fucking harsh that even being exposed while driving can tan your body.
So I put sunscreen every two hours to prevent from tanning even more.
Shitskins like me don't have the Fortune of having even skin, so places with a lot of skin like knees, elbows and genitals look darker than usual. I use a mix of baking soda and lime juice to bleach those areas every other day, and if I miss a day from putting on sunscreen, i have to start from zero basically.

Not him but its just depressing that I have to work harder for something others get so easily. Still you mentioning every achievement means more because you had less is reassuring . Maybe we'll make it

7.5x5 but insecure af and sexually/emotionally repressed because I was sexually abused as a kid
my asthma because it makes going to parties/concerts/events/camping potentially fatal
also I'm short, ugly, and bald

>5'8"
>mutt
>poor social skills and anxiety
>fear of failure and rejection

at least im kinda attractive and 6x6

I have never kissed a girl. I am a 23 year old male and girls think I get a lot of pussy. Yes I do get attention but I have never kissed a girl, etc.

What do I do :((((

Here's a doozy - I met this absolute beast of a guy a short time ago (bearmode, crazy buff) and we hooked up and discussed second, even third dates - I just have no idea how to breach the subject that I want to actually date him legitimately. He seems receptive to it but do people bring that up only after 1 meetup/date? Is it coming on too strongly to do that? How in the fuck does modern dating work

Interacting with people openly without thinking too much and without being drunk

Getting rid of the whole sex as sacred bond thing. Going to start banging whores or hitting up NSA sites. I have a decent body and my penis is large so I should be okay.

Okay, you fucking mongs. Get this through your thick fucking skulls- your personality, unless you have diagnosed ATYPICAL BRAIN CHEMISTRY, is not the problem.
You morons are essentially regurgitating the same nonsense and mantra of PUAs and redditcucks: "just be NT". But what this really is, is just the phrase "just be confident" assuming a new form and subtly confusing you all.

You don't need to have superb confidence or NTness. As long as you can hold a conversation with a girl- that is, a girl who is visibly INTERESTED in you, your personality is fine. Unless you are actually borderline retarded, your personality is FINE.

You just lost in the looks department.

Get that through your little pea sized brains, okay?

Some of you nitwits, I swear, are so fucking delusional. Just listen to yourselves. "I know this guy he's not a male model but he has a girlfriend." "Eggman got a girlfriend [for one fucking week no less] so you can too haha if you just work on your confidence!" You are literally no different than the redditcucks and neckbeards who tell us about their fat friend who pulls all the hotties because of his confidence and his funny personality.

You're not shy, you're just unattractive - and if you are shy but attractive, you're a piece of shit who's getting his dick wet but enjoys the validation he gets from sex starved incels.

You're not sub-male model, you're just UGLY.

Man good job. Proud

Tell him how you feel, but make sure you stress the legitimate aspect of dating. One of the major reasons the modern dating scene is fucked up is because people love to play mind games etc.

Bear mode guys are usually pretty chill and are in tune with body language cues, so I would be pretty surprised if this went poorly for you. He's being showing you he's receptive for a reason.

Step outside your comfort zone. Try some online dating; unfortunately, since it was invented, it has really fucked up the 'real life' dating scene.

Also, women REALLY don't care if you're a virgin or not. Genuinely. Stacy's in highschool probably did but who gives a shit. Leave highschool behind, go for it.

Even after one date? That's cool to hear honestly - I'm fervently against hookup culture and what dating is nowadays, so I legitimately want to get to know this guy properly and care for him but it'd be naive to not know I'm competing against a number of other women.

Honestly my longterm girlfriend did that from day one and that's what made her _stand out_. I don't really think it's a dumb thing to do on a first date.

Dumb shit to do on a first date is everything you and me despise -- hookup culture.

>Summers over, go home

cringe and blue pilled

Go on tinder and fuck a bitch. People assume you a player because you look the part, so you're alreadythere.

This is blowing my mind to hear another opinion on this, thank you man

i honestly dont know what holds me back. Maybe i need a career or lifes purpose other than pleasure and enjoying myself. Sometimes I feel I let myself down, letting a woman go by who i would take to bed, like i should obligate myself to fuck as much as possible. Thats what gets me down, not being rejected, but not acting. Im looking for the woman whos going to make me force myself to pursue her. Small things, like tattoos for example even smaller things even, can allow me to rationalize why not to pursue a fuckable woman even before i approach her. Should I take more chances and ask for more dates? advice user plz respond.

gyno, I'm getting surgery next week

I have a few:
1. Face, getting into looksmaxxxing. Been told my face is attractive when I posted my pic on here and from some people irl but I just want it to be tip top and I'm not satifisfied with where its at now. Went most of my life thinking I was ugly, I know that isn't true but I also know that I'm not anywhere near model tier and I want to get as close as I can.
2. Body. Fasting, and getting fit will take care of this.
3. Fashion. Gonna /fa/ up once I have 2 done.
4. Dick. Not happy with my 6-6.5 inches and not happy with my girth (pass the toiler paper tube test, but only when it gets halfway down my dick) gonna do J Pop's routine and carefully investiate more stuff on penis exercise forums if that works.
5. Money. Looking into starting a business with my friend.

All this wrong. Looks are absolutely incredibly important, but changing how you act will make you more attractive to women. Confidence and a sense of dominance absolutely is attractive. Studies have literally proven this. Go read some Heartiste, oftentimes he will link studies that are pertinent to this.

>obligate myself to fuck as much as possible
first, get rid of that mindset. dont you want unconditional affection built on trust? should you not aspire for a higher level than that of a walking hole? find it within yourself to be self-sufficient spiritually and realize that this is dangerous to partake in - and im not just saying this to be preach-y, you deserve better

shitty hairline, weak jaw/chin, mole on upper lip, one eyelid droops lower than the other eye, small dick.

also i'm fat

Not having any friends, it has ruined my entire life.

thank you user, i know its flawed. must come from societal pressure combined with the feeling like ive missed out

say you make one friend...
is your life completely unruined?

just make one friend dude. you can do it.

This, the nightmare never ends

i was insecure about my dick as it is only around 5 inches, solved it by cutting sex and intimacy out of my life, it's all good now

no, having a small but good friend circle would be what improves my life. basically my life went like this

>lose friends in HS
>can't make new ones, just acquaintances
>being alone makes my personality even worse which pushes people away even more
>graduate friendless virgin (since never met enough girls)

>get to college, have no social skill development from HS with bad personality so dont make many friends in college either
>no friends = not meeting girls = more years of being a virgin
>being isolated in the best years of my life leads to depression and meh grades
>graduate college still massive loser

>can't get into grad programs because of grades
>miserable and defeated in every aspect of life with a life going nowhere
>now 26 year old khv will soon be 27

Biggest insecurity - 22, never had a gf, and still act awkward around girls sometimes. I actually can attract girls pretty easily - hot ones at that, but whenever I get it into my head that a girl I’m interested in is interested in me back I act awkward and inevitably blow it. How do I fix? Pls no bully

my ex once called me small. (after me saying that there is no curse from god worse than fat women with small tits). it hurt a little bit. not as bad as fucking a fat woman with saggy disgusting pancake tits, but still.

Current girl complains occasionally that her cervix hurts after sex (depending on position). (just shy of 7").

So really, don't listen to women, ever. tell them what you want, and if they're game, cool. if not, okay that's cool too. but never, ever worry about their opinion.

bullet for my valentine starts playing

Im a chink with a 4 inch penis

>narrow shoulders
going hard at back and shoulders
>back acne and skin in general
reduced milk intake and better skincare
>unsorted life
discipline and action

we're gonna make it, brothers

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My biggest insecurity is the fact that I probably won't ever be successful. Fuck me.

Change your goals or learn to appreciate what you have

>average is ugly
Wanna know how i know you're a woman

Just got gyno a few weeks ago randomly when I started ramping up exercise and better nutrition the past 2 months. Doctor won't do shit. I'm saving up for surgery.

"-they crash around me.", fucking perfect.

I'm ridiculously submissive but want to be a musclefreak
the two seem mutually exclusive, dommes only want twink fucks

Apparatntley I'm above average but insecure because I was bullied.

Goes to show how no matter how you were born, if someone bullied you or molested/raped you you will never see yourself as a beautiful person. This is why all you manlets need to stop crying.