Will getting a gf make me less miserably depressed?

She helped keep me from falling back into it but I was already mostly out of it
St John's Wort is a herbal medicine that is actually recognized as a having anti-depressive properties, and I took that as well as just trying to not think negatively
>tfw she doesn't know I was depressed before we met

>Those will be the happiest months of my life
yeah i guess its like "is it better to have loved and to have lost, or to never have loved at all?" having done it i guess its better to at least try love out but from experience it won't last.

>Fuck off, yes it will
Oh, sorry. I forgot when I got my first gf she injected magical chemical into my brainstem to change my brain chemistry

just saying u think u want a gf but u probably couldnt handle the responsibility of one. I remember one guy here said something along the lines of "your sex drive can only trick your brain for so long", and thats basically true. You cant get a gf and at the same time expect her to be like your emotional crutch, cause shes a person with her own desires and emotions and yadda yadda. Once the libido fucks off (and dont kid yourself, it really is libido, not loneliness), you'll realize that having a gf is something that takes a lot of work and isnt like a magical mental cure-all pill, much as you hope and pray and want it to be one. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that getting a gf is bad, and im not trying to convince you of that, but once the idea of having one that's ingrained itself into your mind goes away, you'll be able to seriously and objectively consider the possibility of taking that kind of responsibility. Until then though, you're gonna basically be suffering like the rest of us unless you hit the fucking jackpot and find the perfect girl that clicks with you in every way and makes you a better person. Though what do I know, I'm just some unlikable virgin on fucking Jow Forums at two in the morning preaching about how relationships work to a group of emotionally damaged people.

Thanks for the advice. You niggers are alright.

No, sad gross lonely people don't make good partners. Clean Your Room Bucko.

smart user 2bh

If you depression is because of being lonely then yes getting a gf will make you less depressed. Is this not common sense?

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You're only here for confirmation bias. You know the answer.

No, it would spread your depression

>No, it would spread your depression
when she will dump you

Unironiclly yes. Being wanted and loved increases self esteem and confidence allowing for better and mpre honest understanding of the self and your desires which in turn leads to personal growth and development. People who say it doesn't matter more often than not have pretty much always know it such affection and therefore take it's value for granted, are coping becuase they have never know it, or are women trying to assuage their guilt over men whom they have rejected who are genuinely good people but lacking in confidence.

No. I have been with my gf for 10 years. I'm depressed about other things like growing old and not accomplishing much in my life.

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Not unless you have a job too. Then you'll want some good things like a house. Then you'll want to have kids. And at some point, before or after you get a gf, you'll want to find God.

>Romans 10:9-11, 13
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

>Ecclesiastes 8:5-7, 9:7-9
Whoso keepeth the commandment shall feel no evil thing: and a wise man's heart discerneth both time and judgment. Because to every purpose there is time and judgment, therefore the misery of man is great upon him. For he knoweth not that which shall be: for who can tell him when it shall be?

Go thy way, eat thy bread with joy, and drink thy wine with a merry heart; for God now accepteth thy works. Let thy garments be always white; and let thy head lack no ointment.
Live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest all the days of the life of thy vanity, which he hath given thee under the sun, all the days of thy vanity: for that is thy portion in this life, and in thy labour which thou takest under the sun.

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Not necessarily.
A gf could just as well make your life living hell.
Do you really want the baggage?
My (unrequested) advice would be to learn to enjoy your own company before anything else.
Besides, if you don't, how do you expect anyone else to?

Nice guy in your pic. No homo.

Sort yourself out first before you get into a relationship. Don't waste some poor girls time.

only if is gf(girl)

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>having a gf will miraculously correct all your personal issues
Gee user I wonder

Maybe, but not necessarily. I became far more miserable than I ever was after I acquired a girlfriend.

it will depend on the girl, but it made it worse for me back then

He's cute, huh op?