How do you get after oneitis? I fell for this sl00t at work and I'm pretty sure she's banging other dudes...

How do you get after oneitis? I fell for this sl00t at work and I'm pretty sure she's banging other dudes. I'm a 23 year old manlet virgin so I don't think I can ever be with her, started lifting to forget the pain. I have to sit with her every day though because of the way the office is organized though. We've become pretty good friends but seeing her and knowing it will never be is pain. What do?

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Find another job. Serious. Get away before you become obsessed.

user, you're there to work and earn a check first and foremost.
Imagine your boss is right behind you every time you engage in contact with her.
It's important you keep your cool and DO NOT become an orbiter at work.
That shit is hella obvious and embarrassing.

ask her out and if she says no just avoid her

>started lifting to forget the pain.
Phew, almost had to report this for being off topic Jow Forums garbage but then you threw in that part about lifting.

The problem is that I didn't really like her at first but then she asked me to go buy desserts after work and asked me to go grocery shopping with her and then I fell for her, but I don't think she views that as going out because all her friends are guys and still views me as a friend. I feel like I've become trapped in orbiter hell. Lifting has made me feel better about myself temporarily but it still sucks to have to see her, sometimes I think she knows and it feels like she's fucking with me by asking weird lewd questions or saying weird shit but I'm pretty sure she's seeing other people

I really should lol. I've already become obsessed unfortunately and its fucking with me pretty hard. The only problem is that I have high standards for jobs and really want to make sure the next job I get is a good fit for me, which could take months to sort out correctly. I don't have much experience or contact with sl00ts so now that I fell for this sl00t I feel kinda stuck

BETA ORBITER
Bro you have to stop this.

Next time you see her, call her by the wrong name.

And/or

Go for a drink with her after work and after a few tell her you're a virgin so she at least has sex with you.

>Twelve years old: We meet at school. She’s pretty cute for a shitskin (Italian). We sneak out at night to smoke cigarettes at the skatepark. Get a rush when she hugs me.
>Fifteen years old: She’s moved to a different school. Whenever we see each other at a party we talk to each other all night. Drift apart though. We’ve got less in common every day feels like.
>Eighteen years old: Haven’t spoken in a while. Fap to her Facebook photos. I ask her to go to prom with me. She’s got a boyfriend now. We go and it feels like there’s something between us, but not in a good way. Stay over her place that night. Say goodbye in the morning.
>Twenty-one years old: Haven’t spoken in years. Probably going to get kicked out of university. Dream about her sometimes.
What the fuck is wrong with me, bros? It’s so goddamn pathetic but other girls just don’t seem to compare.

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This. Call her the next hottest coworker's name.

Lol you right. She's pretty shitty at her job and might get laid off soon so I have that going for me I guess

You never killed her off from your mind
Also you had your chance to fuck her and get over it so very long ago, you could have been a chad and had that highschool romance. It's sad and regret hurts but you need her gone. You're too used to is being like this. Change that.

Could you please delete this?

No. But you, screencap it now.

Unless you're going to ask her out, today. If it helps, she isn't thinking about you while getting railed out by Chad. And there's another girl out there who's even better for you but you're not going to find her until you let go of that imaginary lost love.

Thanks, user-kun.

If you don't make a move you will never be free of her. Ask her if she wants to get drinks or some shit

I was in your situation once. Asked the girl out just so she would say ‘no’ and I could move on psychologically. She actually said yes and we went on a few dates. I broke it off shortly thereafter when I realized she wasn’t as special as she had seemed in my mind’s eye. If you ask her off hours and aren’t pushy or nervous, you won’t get in trouble at work.

iktf

My oneitis pushed me to suicide and now I have ruminations. I cannot stop thinking about that event, but I still want to cuddle her.
Of course I ran the fuck away and don't talk to her anymore because I know she is dangerous to me.

Pushed you to suicide? How? It reminds me of that story where this girl made her boyfriend commit suicide just so she could receive sympathy for others. Sounds like a reeaaaal piece of shit m8

>>sometimes I think she knows and it feels like she's fucking with me by asking weird lewd questions or saying weird shit but I'm pretty sure she's seeing other people

Asking lewd questions means she’s flirting with you, but that doesn’t mean she’s not also flirting with other people. Adult men and women don’t flirt with just one person at a time. You might even be her favorite of all the guys she flirts with but if she gets nothing back from you she’ll turn to someone else who seems interested in her.

I lived 150 miles away and she invited me to a party, so I arrived by train late in the evening and she refused to let me in, she told me I should spend the night outside alone because "user, you are a worthless piece of shit", and at the time I was heavily depressed and she knew it.