When is it legitimately too late to find a good mate?

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>If she puts out within 3 months walk away it is not worth it.
>3 months

I've never dated longer than 1 month before they put out, even if they were a virgin or said they didn't want sex, maybe you are not attractive?

Emerge as a looksmaxxed butterfly and snag yourself a naïve impressionable 19 year-old before she has the chance to ruin herself in the current state of society through her young adulthood user.

I believe in you.

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yeah dude you can make it. just put yourself in situations where you can meet younger girls who are still pure, like church or some volunteer place.

basically this

The whole point is for you to not give into sex while looking for an actual partner. Most women will not be able to handle or understand that you are not willing to have sex with her this early because they are horny and enjoy the power of it just as you do. This is how you end up in short term relationships because there is no respect or control. If she respects you for it and doesn't question it you have a chance of a winner. If you are interesting enough for three months that it does not bring up the idea of having sex again initially you are then obviously compatible. During this time if you are a complete raging devient keep a slam pig/thot on the side. If you can just fool around after month two that is okay as well as long as your in control and keep it light. Respect yourself anons. Women look at you the same way you look at them after a quick fuck. EVERYONE GOES EW EVENTUALLY.

do people really wait 3 months?

she's gonna think you're gay or something. i would never waste 3 months of money on dates without sex

So when they make out with you and reach into your pants you what... stop them because you are looking for a serious relationship?

That's the stupidest shit I have ever heard in my fucking life.

You can go on dates that don't cost money. An actual women interested in you will be willing just to hang out.l after the first few dates. Unless your a complete insecure horny fuck you can tell if a girl and you will work after the first few times you see each other. There is a reason some people get married and others fuck&dump into there thirties. It usually stems from self confidence issues, and a lack of maturity.
>Ig thot that does Coke and sends foot pics for money
>Girl from hard upbringing that works her ass off after college at her not dead end job
>Girl from a decent life that coasts through it even if her job is not dead end
These are the baseline of women besides actual crazies. Ig thot is almost crazy but delusional big girls and sjws beat her out.

Yes because it is the exact same thing if you did it. You will fuck until you are bored. Then you will move on. Any self respecting girl will expect that from you first. Any girl worth your time will say no it's too early. Do you trust some guy you met three months ago for when your car breaks down or do you trust your buddy of years. Same logic.

Your a fucking moron sorry.

I mean I can tell you think what you are saying makes sense, but it doesn't. There is absolutely nothing wrong with fucking the first week if you click immediately, you tell her that you are looking for something serious, she either wants the same thing or doesn't. Making her wait 3 months to fuck is just going to make her lose interest.

Your the one supposed to be interesting you moron. Click immediately is just bullshit Vogue spams to females to make them feel okay for fucking a random dude every week. Have you ever heard of the word lust? Have you ever felt shame? She will never take you serious if you fuck her the first week because the sub is the dom and she allowed it. I have a buddy smashing a new hottie every week to every month depending on how long they take him serious. Every time he comes across a new one he goes she's the one. Women feel the same way. If you find an actual virgin hottie she will wait till marriage to fuck you If you are worth her time. If you try and fuck her in the first week she will tell you to kick rocks.

I had the same thought, OP.
Today I realized the girl I've been hanging out with for the past 3 weeks isn't the kind of girl I'd want to date (party girl with fucking retarded planning/organizational skills), but I still want to fuck her. Dunno how to feel about this conflict since I've never experienced it before (late to the dating game at age 25). I think I want to find a more introverted girl for a longterm relationship, or at least someone who doesn't like going out dancing to loud music in large crowds and smoking pot.

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You act like the two things are mutually exclusive, they aren't.. Its a fallacy perpetuated by dogmatic conservative papal drivel for beta faggots that put too much value on virginity because they are afraid of women.

A woman isn't going to respect you less if you make love to her. What you are talking about is creating a sexless lasting relationship to assuage your own insecurities about your physical performance, settling for some autistic chick with crippling social anxiety that's so withdrawn that she thanks you for not having sex with her.

I've fucked plenty of women.
It does not matter if she is a virgin. There are plenty of women that have done two four plus or four 2 year relationships coming out of college. These are the women you look for if they are not married. These women gave there partner space initially. I have been in relationships with women with these relationships.

My whole point is that it doesn't matter.
Waiting 3 months doesn't up your chances of having a meaningful relationship outside of sex.

Waiting at all ups your chances of filtering out the thots that could care less about you or the girls that could possibly be good partners if you give them a chance for you to actually know eachother. I understand everyone wants fuck. Easy sex changes your outlook on someone. Ask anyone that's actually had sex easily.

It doesn't matter but neither does fucking a new girl every week. Expect respect out of your partner. If your having sex like a faggot women will view you as a faggot.

27 isn't cocoon mode it's full on failure to launch mode
18-22 is cocoon mode after babbys first existential crisis, anything past that and you need to have your shit together or it's too late
Grats on the career though, virgin

So what you are actually saying is that you are such a shit judge of character that it takes you three months to know if you want to be with someone.

My wife was a virgin. Ive been married for two years now. Have been with her for four. We were friends for a year before that. I can judge a persons character easily since I am an adult. Like I said I have a buddy that goes around fucking women and from what I've noticed his biggest pitfall is not investing time, and just looking for pussy. He just invests in pussy not a partner.

Four before marriage my bad.

How long from when you first made out to when you first had sex?

Did you actually follow your 3 month rule?

If you had already known her a year what would be the fucking point?

>adult female with any market value whatsoever
>virgin
user I need to tell you something, promise you won't get mad at me

About two to to three months can't really remember to be honest. Also she was a virgin as well on top of knowing each other. The entire point is to respect yourself and a women will respect you. Honestly my point really comes down to if a women wants to have sex just after meeting you stay the fuck away. You deserve a better women.

Plenty of attractive women raised right are virgins into there twenties. They don't do tinder most of the time. They have hobbies or play sports like golf/tennis. Don't believe the world is filled with ig thotties. There are tons of 7/10s in office jobs that have only had one or two partners tops. Your not even a 7/10 most likely. Reevaluate your baseline.

I am not slut shaming by the way I have no issue with getting a nut.

Those office job 7's went to college and in college they were surrounded by sluts and they befriended a few and partied with them and followed their leads and got spitroasted
The fact your wife is so ashamed of her past that she wants to forget it all and start over as a virgin and sucker you into being a provider means there were probably more than 2 guys at once

Met my wife before she went to a private college dork.

Did gang bang a girl in college though

Ill gladly take the socially awkward autist woman to work my way up to having sex again. Its been years.