I'm a 32 y.o. boomer who started lifting a year ago. Been dyel skeleton all my life, didn't care. I'm married for 4 years (we've been together for 10 years total). Got daughter, 3 y.o. I decided that I want to be as good example of a man as I only can for her. I haven't made any serious gains so far, but got in shape, feel great, want more. Wife for some reason started being bitchy about every little thing. I work overtime and study, she stays at home with the kid and only goes out with friends. It started from such small things as I don't spend much time home and care about my job/studying/gym more than about her. I have no fucking rest working for my family, I really believe that there's no other way. I don't want my daughter living as a poorfag, and I already got decent paychecks. Talking doesn't help. Should I immediately FUCK MY SHIT UP, or wait for my wife to play the JUST card on me? I want my kid to have normal family, but things aren't getting better. And I'm 32 (still got it, yeah), not the best time to start it over.
Are you asking if you should break up with your wife? I would just have a serious conversation with her, we can't help you. If you are willing to have a fight and work out your problems things can get better. gotta talk nigga
Yeah man talk to her or go talk with her to a counselor. You actually might be fucking up for all you know.
Juan Watson
find out why shes bitchy. exeecise with her and boom problem solved. shes a woman she could be feeling a myriad of ways.
Ryder Peterson
It's almost bait since anyone that's been with a women more than a year knows they can be bitchy.
Jordan Robinson
Other user gave reasonable advice, ultimately you should sleep on any suggestion you get here and probably should discard it afterward. Don't really know what your situation is like, since I'm pretty young and haven't been through anything similar, but you should probably encourage your wife to either work out with you or find a hobby. Alternatively you can try to figure out a way to make time for them. Probably not the most helpful suggestion but it's the best most of us can hope to give
Bentley Perry
Thanks guys, I think it's reasonable to try to talk. Not was going to mindlessly follow Jow Forums advice (we all know, nobody should do this) but I needed a look from another perspective. Your weekend lifts will make 150% gains. Boomer magic. Thank you all.
Luke Nelson
Wow, what an absolute fucking brainlet you are.
Cameron Carter
I'm 32, broke up with my partner and I are few months back after a decade together. No kids though. Dividing assets and such is a bitch even though we're on good terms. It's been the best thing I ever did, life is so much better. Dating and stuff is so easy these days, I get so much more attention from women too. I lost some weight and have been lifting a couple of months with decent gains, so I guess that helps.
You need to have some serious talk with your wife though, sounds like she doesn't appreciate all the sacrifices you make for your family. Nobody wants an ungrateful bitch to go home to.
What you need to do is groom your daughter to love you, then marry the daughter when she's 16 and pound out tons of babies with her. She will honestly and earnestly love you forever and be great. Better than your bitchy wife.
Nathaniel Diaz
Men have lifetime fertility. Get her to cheat on you, force the divorce and tell her to take a hike with maternity payments. Start again and shoot 5 years younger.
Cooper Lewis
Suggest going to therapy, just do soemthing. Don’t let this little spat(compared to the rest of your life) be the ending of something great that’ll definitely fuck up your daughter and make her a whore.
Liam Rodriguez
kek
Connor Bailey
You’re a cuck and an objectively shitty person
Asher Ross
>she stays home with the kid and only goes out with friends >is bitchy because you put in work and try to better yourself 1 of 2 things is going on, she's working on ways to justify an affair or she's trying to drag you down and keep you down. Nobody here can help you with this user. Also please use >
Benjamin Bennett
Perhaps she's feeling insecure because she feels you might leave her if you raise your value or she feels bad that someone else is improving while she's not. If it were me and I possessed enough clarity, I'd tell her that she deserves better and I'm trying to become that better.
Joseph Bennett
>I like spending time getting whipped by someone who no longer loves or cares about me
Brody White
If you're making money make your wife get a job. And pay for daycare or get a fulltime nanny. Wife locked inside the house with the kid 24/7 will only get worse from here. Your wife is just having a breakdown because there is nothing going on in her life. Make her find a job and you will see.
David Rodriguez
If only there was a therapist specializing in the problems experienced between a married couple...
Robert Gray
Perhaps you should balance your fit/work/family so she doesnt feel neglected you selfish piece of shit. You cant be rich if you dont take care of your family. Say bye bye to those decent paycheques when you start paying alimony and child support, or put in work now to rectify the situation. Alternatively if you really dont care for your wife, nut the fuck up and divorce but accept the consequences.
Ethan Barnes
Why women always have to fuck shit up ? I mean she's staying at home all day not even fucking working for some money for family, and she's saying those kind of shit to you when you decide to become a better person ? That shit triggers me hard.
Also, nice try wifey
Carson Reyes
you make this woman sound like a neglected cat >well if you didn't have time for a pet maybe you shouldn't have gotten one in the first place
